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i am 14 and i havent started my period yet i thnik its because i am to big. but i was just wondering can u get pregant even though you have not started your
period

No, you can't.

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ok i know this is kinda Long but pLease keep reading .... so me and my boyfriend have been dating 6 months and its been amazing , yea theres beeen fights here and there ; but one thing i need heLp on is my anger ''/ it gets the best of me and soo not in a good way . Like when i get mad at him he trys to make it better but i just push him away , Like when were together adn mad im just Like dont touch me , get off me , or just shut up . & when were not together and were taLkin on the phone iLL just Like ignore his caLLs , just be Like yea yea watever & hang up & AFTER the fact i feeL bad . thats one thing about me , when im mad i just dont give a fuck at the time . then when i caLm down its aLL straight - but i know he'LL get tired of it sooner or LAter & i dont want that to happen . it hurts him so bad & iv tryed everything , so heLp pLease

All girls are that way, it's just something we all do. When you get mad just tell him you need some space, don't yell at him or anything, but say "Just leave me alone for a while, you know how I get." And he should understand.

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What's the best way to quickly lose about 15-25 pounds? (by November) I can't afford anything like Slimfast but I need to lose this weight for something important. (Not just a stupid school dance or something, trust me it's importnat) I'm fine with gaining the weight back, I just need to lose it now.

Work out and eat less. That's really all you can do.

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i can talk to any guy that i'm not interested in, but when it comes to the guy i like [well to be more specific, my boyfriend] i'm really shy to talk to them i person.

through instant message and texts, i can talk to him just fine, but other than that, it's just ignorant how shy i get.

and i know he's shy too, so that makes it kinda worse. i have no idea what to even try to do. someone, ANYONE help me. i need it so bad.


thanks in advance. :]

I know exactly how you feel, I used to be like that too. Eventually I just started thinking about what I would say to certain things before I talked to him. If you think about it before you talk, it makes it a lot easier. It just takes time though. Eventually you'll get comfortable with him and be able to tell him anything.

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So today my boyfriend broke up with me through e-mailing since i was getting mad he wasnt replying back soon enough before we both went to school( I know, stupid on my part) and we started arguing and we have been for the past week or so. on and off. and then hes like " I'm done with your sh*t" and broke up with me. Im like extremly depressed and I really care about him so much and hes just really mad with how bitchy ive been lately. I asked him to forgive me and he said, you'll just go back to being bitchy again.
What do i do to convince him and give me a 2nd chance?

Just give him space.
If he misses you, he'll ask you back out.

But sounds to me like he's really not worth it dear.

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so i plan on getting my tongue peirced, in about a year.
i was just wondering how much does it hurt?

and afterwards how should i clean it? like mouth wash i know, but any certain brands or types. or anything besides it.

Don't get your tongue pierced. Trust me I had it done and food gets stuck underneath it and it's disgusting and it hurts like hell.

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anybody have any good advice on how to wake my self up before i go to school?

Ps. dont say to take a shower or to rub a hot rag on my face

I used to wake up at 5:30 when school started at 7:30. I know it seems stupid like why the hell would I wake up earlier to become less tired, but trust me, it works. You're not rushing around as much and you have time to relax before you leave. Also, eat. It gives you so much more energy.

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Is only eating 300 caloroies a day considered anorexic?!

Not eating anything is anorexic.

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i wanted to see this movie but my parents wont allow it. whats in it thats so bad? explain please.

It's more of an adult movie. It's rated PG-13 Because there are a lot of sexual scenes in it.

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is there any website where i can get a freeringotne for a nextel phone that actually works? cos i wanna get buy u a drank and i was just gonna get it off of my phone and charge it to my phone bill but it wanted a credit card number and my mom said she wasnt gonna let me use her credit card

trust me, nextel has NO cool ringtones.

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is blockbuster better than netflix?

Yes.
You can get movies whenever you want at a blockbuster or have them delivered.

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what, really, is the point of going to a good college? isnt eduation the same no matter where you go? what, do they provide you with better job connections?

Not all colleges have the same education. Like, people can argue that say, teachers from Harvard are better than teachers at a community college. Which could very well be true.

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Where did you get your prom dress? Not at the mall, right?

I got one of mine at the mall, JC Penney.

I got the other five online. Just type in prom dresses on google and the ones you'll find are gorgeous.

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does anyone know how much the iphone costs?
and if anyone got it already, is it worth the money?

The iphone costs 600 dollars. Don't buy it.
First of all, it's got flaws because the technology isn't up to par with the idea, and it's not finished.
Second of all, if you wait a couple years, verizon or tmobile will come out with a better and cheaper version.

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you know the book series gossip girl? well i hear it's coming out as a tv show..d oes anyone know the date it airs? or what channel or what time or what days it'll be on? anything will help thanks!

oh my god! since someone already answered this question for you, I want to ask, the Gossip Girl series is based on the book?

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i guess this is under the right subject? anyways i just wanted to know what karma is? like i know its "what goes around comes around" but i dont really get it..? && people have it as their religious views...&& i dont see how its a religion.

-thanks.

This question is PERFECT for my mood right now.


Karma is like this:
Say you're dating someone. And this person cheats on you because they have a total problem, and then the person they cheated on you with, cheats on them. That's Karma. Listen to "what goes around" by Justin.


It's not exactly a religious view, it may be, but it's more like, i don't know. I guess it's kinda like believing in reincarnation or life after death.

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I'm soo confused!!!

People say that when you're in the water, your period stops. But then why do you need a tampon if you're going swimming? What's the point in wearing a tampon in the water, even if you're period stops?

Your period doesn't stop in water.

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ok i was reading this magazine and in the magazine there were about 100 guys who described there perfect girl.

most said "caring, thoughtfull" but some of them described appearances. 1 guy said "preferebly long, brown hair" and the other said "curly, brunette hair" but none of them said blonde.

i have short blonde hair, and i was wondering if guys really do care about hair color or style.

thanks.

I know i'm not a guy, but I live with like 12 of them, so I thought I should tell you waht I know. Well, in my experience with guys, they cared somewhat. All guys have different likes. I wouldn't change your hair style for someone, because if they don't like you for you, then they aren't right for you anyway. Most guys do like long hair though as far as I can see, I just know all my guy friends like running their hands through long hair. Some guys like short hair though. It just depends on the guy.

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HUGE PROBLEM. I am going to be a freshman this year, and im going to a highschool where I dont know ANYBODY. I mean, not one person. I cant even tell you how unbelievably scared I am.

Can anyone whose in highschool tell me how easy it is to make friends or something? And has this happened to anyone else? IM REALLY SCARED!
THANKS YOU :/

Trust me, it's so much fun. You'll meet friends before you know it. It'll be fun to be able to have a fresh start in high school. It'll be a lot of fun. The only thing I can compare to with this is when I was in first grade I switched from catholic school to public school, and I was really scared, but it's not that bad.

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ok so i was getting fingered and (ive never been fingered before by the way) it really hurt. Like it felt good because we were in the moment but it still hurt. I had to tell him to stop a few times just because i needed a break. is there something wrong with me?

k thanks.

The first time you put anything in your vagina, (tampons, fingers, etc.) it's going to hurt. You get used to it. It will only hurt the first couple of times. Trust me, when I was a virgin, I couldn't even have a tongue touch me. It would hurt like hell.

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