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fingering
ok so i was getting fingered and (ive never been fingered before by the way) it really hurt. Like it felt good because we were in the moment but it still hurt. I had to tell him to stop a few times just because i needed a break. is there something wrong with me?
k thanks.
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There is nothing wrong with you or your genitals. It sounds as though your boyfriend was too enthusiastic and may have been doing this for the first time just like you were.
It's evident he is rubbing, pressing etc. too hard and too rough. Often guys will do this as they have no idea about female anatomy and how it works or what to do when pleasing a girl in this manner. They're often clueless and more or less just happy you allowed them to touch you in this manner.
Guys often are too rough because they treat their penis and other parts of their genitalia very rough during masturbation etc. What you need to do is communicate to your boyfriend before, during and after where you want to be touched, how rough or hard and guide him through it so he knows what to do next time.
Fingering should never hurt you. It's meant to be very pleasurable. If it starts to hurt he's doing it wrong and too hard and rough.
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The first time you put anything in your vagina, (tampons, fingers, etc.) it's going to hurt. You get used to it. It will only hurt the first couple of times. Trust me, when I was a virgin, I couldn't even have a tongue touch me. It would hurt like hell.
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Nope. I've heard from many answers on this site saying that it is perfectly normal to feel some pain when you're fingered. I guess [I'm assuming, because I'm not a girl] that you're fine and will be fine.
And you're not pregnant [as many people seem to ask and think here on Advicenators when you're fingered].
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--Jack
(15/m)
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Nope. it was your first time. you're not used to being fingered so you're tight. it hurt me the first few times. tell him not to go too deep or be too rough. tell him to take it slow too because after a few times, it wouldn't hurt and you'll be stretched out a little.
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