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MAJOR guys problems
i can talk to any guy that i'm not interested in, but when it comes to the guy i like [well to be more specific, my boyfriend] i'm really shy to talk to them i person.
through instant message and texts, i can talk to him just fine, but other than that, it's just ignorant how shy i get.
and i know he's shy too, so that makes it kinda worse. i have no idea what to even try to do. someone, ANYONE help me. i need it so bad.
thanks in advance. :]
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just breathe and picture your brother if you have one. basicly guys are your typical brother. its called an act they play. it's not hard to talk to them find out what they like. you can tell most of the time what guys are in to by what they wear. like he may have the most newest pair of shoes on, well there are that's one thing he like fashion. that tells you he wants a girl that will take care of herself just like he does. look for him to be a football games or at the mall, little things if you don't pay attention you will have a hard time carrying on conversations. don't say anything until you feel comfortable with yourself. if you do you will end up saying something you will think about later and think it didn't come out right and you will have a hard time the next time with another conversation. don't beat yourself up to bad if you do say something that doesn't come out so good the first time, so be prepared. and good luck!!!!!!!!
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I know exactly how you feel, I used to be like that too. Eventually I just started thinking about what I would say to certain things before I talked to him. If you think about it before you talk, it makes it a lot easier. It just takes time though. Eventually you'll get comfortable with him and be able to tell him anything.
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