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My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future? (link)
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I don't think that's a jerk thing to say at all.
He was looking for a more sexual relationship clearly, and he felt that you were too sexually innocent, and he would feel bad, or that he was taking advantage of you if he took it any further, so he didn't. He did the right thing.
There is nothing wrong with being innocent. Everyone moves at their own pace. Don't feel pressured into losing your innocence. Do what you feel is right when you feel its right.
In the future I would suggest you find a guy who is looking for more than just a sexual relationship with you. Try to find someone who cares about you so you can both be on the same page. You don't have to change anything about yourself.
You're perfectly fine. People may or may not have chemistry with each other. Find someone you attract and are attracted to.
Good luck.
xChaos
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I used to go out with this guy. We had an amazing relationship. We bearly fought about anything,talked to each other about everthing, spend time together, and we got soo closed to the point that I knew what he was thinking before he even told. Its very easy to talk to him because he understands me so I never feel like I have to explain myself, are personalities are alot alike. But during our relationship we had some problems with people accepting us being together, since he's 7 years older then me, so they thought he was using me because of my inexperience things began to get weird between us, right during that time i went on vacation for a whole month, thinking that the time away from him was going to benefit turns out, that when i came back he was done with me, and I never heard from him, and he never tried reaching me knewing that I was back.... Six months have passed and I still have the same feelings I had since I met him, I love him more then anything I would give anything to find out what happend that made him abandon me. then a few days ago he finally contacts me though facebook and gives me his number because he wanted to talk to me. When I texted him he asks why I never reached him, then he calls to explain what happend, and tells me he still has feelings for me and would like to see me and apologize, when he tells me all of this I couldnt be any happier. He finally comes over and he apologizes and I ask him what his intentions are with me, and he seems very unsure, i told him i didnt want a friendship with him, or be a bootycall, I told him that I was willing to forgive him and i would love to make things work again and have a serious long lasting relationship with him, I told him if thats not what he wanted then he could just forget about me because I already felt better once I found out what really happend between us. When I told him what I wanted he says that he would like to atttempt things again and take things slow, and start with a new beginning, because i know him so well, I dont think hes ever taken anything slow and I feel like he doesnt want the same thing I want. I dont know what to do I dont want to feel like im pressuring him, but i dont want to wait around for ever. I love him, but im scared that hes going to break my heart again. I dont want to relive what I went through, but I dont want to be away from him...please help i know this is long, but i feel like no one understands what im going through, and please dont tell me thers other fish in the sea. (link)
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How old are you exactly? If you're still in your teens the age thing could be the serious issue for several reasons. But I'm going to assume you are an adult. (it could be a problem even if you're in your 20s to be honest, just because the two of you are in different phases of life at that age)
He's obviously still unsure about how he feels. To be perfectly honest, there's no way for YOU to really fix that. It has to be something he wants. Something that comes from inside. Its clear that hes thinking about it, and definitely thinking about you.
Give this new start some time. Its not literally a new start, since the two of you already have a lot of history. But hopefully it is a better start, with more experience to back up the relationship this time.
See if everything flows. Sometimes you have to wait a little while to see how things go before making a real judgement. If the both of you want it to work, then it should have no problem working. Keep trying to talk to him, and do your best to be responsible and mature and not erratic, so that he can have a firm basis for his faith in the relationship, and in you. If you show that you are unsure and nervous about it as well, it could make him just as worried.
Just remember that in the long term, if the two of you don't want the same things, and that if you aren't on the same page, it will only end badly. You cant control people, no matter how much you may want to. That's pretty much why any relationships end.
It sucks, and it may hurt a lot if you actually do let him go. Just do your best to make it work this time. Realize that in the end he is going to make his own decision about how he feels, and let go of trying to make him want it to work. He either will or wont.
But from what I can tell, you definitely sound like you're worth it. And if he doesn't see that, its his loss. Don't give up, but don't let this relationship control your life either. In the grand scheme of things, you'll see that sometimes its not all that bad to let go.
Good luck.
xChaos
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Well when we r together he will hold my hand but he will look at me and smile some times he will bring his face close to miñe but ie does dare try to kiss me why (link)
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Yes. He wants to do much more than hold hands. Hes a boy. And hes attracted to you. He is probably just very shy and afraid of what will happen if he tries it.
If you want him to kiss you you can just ask for it, or talk to him about it, or even initiate it yourself. Don't be afraid. After the first kiss, all the ones that come after it become easier and easier, as well as more and more fun.
Good luck. xChaos
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about five months. He is my best friend. He showers me with love, makes me laugh constantly, and is my personal diary. I could talk to him for hours and never get bored. It's like I have everything I could ever ask for in him. He always makes me feel so happy. We spend most of our time together, but we've given each other space since the holidays are around and I need to spend some time with my family.
Lately, I have been feeling very down about the whole relationship. I feel like I'm bringing him down. I'm very sensitive and I get very touchy about some of the things he says, even if it's just a joke. I get upset over stupid things, like when he came over early as a surprise. I was really mad and I got very bitchy. Most of the time recently, the things he does that I'd usually find funny or touching, I suddenly find it unappealing. I don't even know why. I know for a fact I would go insane without him, because he's pretty much everything to me. My family is very hard on me and I don't have a lot of friends, so he is basically my world. Last night I called him and told him to break up with me because I feel horrible. He does everything he can to please me and goes out of his way just for me, yet I get upset and bitchy over EVERYTHING. I hate this feeling. I know he deserves better. But every time I tell him that, he's like, "No, I love you and I'm going to fight for you, and I will fix this. You deserve me, I bet there's not any other girl that treats me as nice as you do, you're out of my league..blah blah blah." I'm very touched by this and my tears all fade but then the next day I feel like complete shit because I am taking him for granted. I want out because of it, but at the same time, he tries so hard to fix things and I just don't have the will to make it work. I'm just confused and emotional and scared. I feel like one day he'll reach his breaking point because I'm so neurotic. He is always assuring me because I've been hurt so badly by guys in my past. Why can't I just ever sit back and enjoy this? I say I'd fight for him but when it all comes down, I just don't want to. I just want him to give up on me. I love him with all my heart but I just think things are crashing down fast for us. He believes in me, but I don't believe in myself. I can't break from this depression.
I'm sorry if I seem like a selfish idiot to you. I'm just a teenager, I'm only sixteen and I've never had such a good relationship before like I have now, and I don't know what to do about it. I'm happy one day, then depressed the next day. Am I just being emotional or is something really wrong? What do you think I should do? I'm not myself at all. (link)
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Listen up kiddo.
This guy loves you. He LOVES you. Do you understand that? Do you think every guy is going to come along and be amazing in your life? I assure you he is a rarity, and he is most definitely worth fighting for. If you leave him because "meh I dont feel like I want to jump all over him today Im so stressed omg maybe I dont love him anymore and we should break up for no good reason", which is, speaking from experience, something that a lot of girls do, you will regret it for a long long time.
Having said that, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, or with your relationship. You are 16. That is the problem. Teenage girls throughout history have been NOTORIOUS for having completely random, irrational, and contradictory feelings. So yes, you are simply being over emotional, and there is nothing wrong with that. Clearly he seems to understand that and love you anyways, something that makes him even more amazing, since most teenage boys are too thick and insensitive to get it.
Relationships, especially teenage relationships, go through phases like this, literally all the time. One day you wake up and love him so much and cant wait to see him, and the next day you could honestly care less. It goes up and down all the time. To some extent, that even happens in adult relationships. When you're around someone all the time, it makes sense to be less and less excited to see them.
Just don't get it twisted. Don't break up with him for a stupid reason. He could be abusing you emotionally, physically, cheating on you, or using you. Those are all reasons to break up with someone. He is doing none of those. Breaking up with him will only hurt yourself.
You don't believe in yourself? You're insecure? Welcome to being a woman (no offense). Its completely normal to feel this way. Just don't get it twisted and make a mistake like walking away from someone you love on nothing more than a whim during your period.
So my advice to you is, tell him exactly what you said here. Tell him how much you love him and appreciate him. Apologize to him for not making sense sometimes, for being insecure, and for seeming to lose your affection for him at times. If hes smart, he will understand that its basically your biology that's doing this to you, not your mind or your heart.
Once you've done that, calm down. Take it slow, soak it all in, and have a nice deep breath. Realize how good things are, and how many girls would kill to have what you have. Realize that in the end you really have nothing to worry about.
Everything is going to be okay.
Good luck.
xChaos
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Hello! I need help on trying to quit thinking my girlfriend is cheating on me :(.. I'm 20 and she is 17... I love her a lot and I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me! We have been together for 6 months and it scares me to think about it and I hate thinking about it! Its complicated to explain, sometimes she doesn't show that she loves me and every time I want her to hangout with me she says that she can't control it because of heer parents but yet she can still go and hangout with her friends! And when we do hangout we have a good time and sometimes we fight! I just don't know what to do :'(... Makes me angry! If someone could help me I can explain more! Thank you! (link)
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Usually I wouldn't talk to someone like this, but in this case I think I will.
Man up. You're 20 years old. You're not a 15 year old little freshman boy.You're a grown man. You're the adult in the relationship. You need to wear the pants. Try not to be so sad. You have power in this relationship, don't let her upset you so much.
With teenage girls, its often hard to sit down and have a serious conversation about things, especially when her parents are a huge factor in the relationship.
Has she done anything to make you suspect she is cheating on you, or are you just paranoid? Has she said anything that would imply there might be other guys? If she has, it would be best to confront her about it directly. And don't even think about letting her guilt you into the whole "how could you think I was cheating on you, don't you trust me?" routine.
If she can hang out with her friends she can hang out with you. Don't accept a stupid excuse like that. And when you are actually together, what do you fight over? Make sure its not over stupid ****. There are way too many couples ready to start yelling at each other over the smallest things. Make sure you're not one of them. The both of you should try to have some patience with each other.
It would help if you could explain more, but from what you've said it sounds like typical teenage relationship bull**** drama that a lot of people have to deal with. Hopefully she is turning 18 soon. The more freedom girls have, the easier it is to have relationships with them. Parents have a much larger influence on teenage girls than they do on teenage guys. Once she is an adult the whole issue might become a whole lot easier.
xChaos
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Hi!
My dad will not stop annoying me! He will stop at nothing to disturb what I'm doing. I can't take it anymore! He burps out loud, which is really disgusting, and I was just cleaning and he came in and went through the stuff in my room. I'm 13/m btw and I'm fed up with it. Help! (link)
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First of all, its important to note that a lot of dads can be really gross and disgusting at times. You may or may not understand this when you get older. Just know that its not at all uncommon and your dad really isn't weird at all from what you have said.
Apart from that, you're clearly at an age where having conflict with your parents is not only going to be normal, but may even be a normal every day thing.
I remember when I was your age (not to sound old, I'm only 20) I would get very VERY upset with my parents, both for not leaving me alone when I wanted some solitude, and also not showing enough affection when I felt the need for it. As you grow up, you start to realize that in the end, its really not that big a deal.
Your dad may be annoying, but as you get older, you will probably grow closer to him as he comes to respect you more. You'll start having serious conversations and get to know each other better. At 13 it can be really hard for grown men to really connect with their sons. Don't be too hard on him. Its all just a phase anyway. Sometimes you just have to accept it, and deal with it.
So I guess my advice is, don't take it too seriously. Some day he will be leaning on you and depending on you, even if the two of you have some problems in these next couple years.
Try to forgive him and understand him if you can. If that doesn't work, do your best to ignore him and do your own thing.
Good luck. xChaos
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16 f
Haven't had sex.. >.<
Well, I don't know what the problem is, but it seems like it's always sore in the back of my vagina, almost to my bottom. I guess the part that may be difficult to clean sometimes? I don't know how to describe it..well.
It sometimes get's really irritated back there, and I have no clue why. It doesn't really burn it's just uncomfortable. My mother's a nurse and she tends to have problems with yeast..and I believe I've had that to..but I use the cream for it like she says.. it does help, but not always. It doesn't really itch, it's just slightly irritated.
I do shave down there, but I don't shave completely everything. I think it could be that when it the hair grows back in, it could irritate it? I'm not quite sure..but I'm getting tired of it.
I don't think I need to go to the doctor, I feel fine. I have my periods & nothing really bothers me.. I'm not sexually active. ;3 I don't know if I don't clean well enough or not? I try my best to.. I'm a germaphobe like my mom. haha
Could this be a real problem? My mom hasn't felt I should get checked out, and I really wouldn't like to go.. DX I hate my doctor.
Does anyone have the same problem? What could I do to clear this up? Any ideas?
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This is definitely a question for a doctor. How long has this problem been going on? It might be a bacterial infection of some sort, or simply some ingrown hairs.
If you are even wondering whether or not you clean yourself enough, the reality is you probably aren't. I suggest you continue with the creams and washing yourself in the shower or bath with a warm washcloth thoroughly.
Everyone has to go to the doctor from time to time. And if you really aren't sure what the problem is, or whether or not its going to go away, your best bet is to speak with an OB/GYN.
The sooner you get this taken care of the better. You don't want it to turn into something worse.
The good news is that if you're a virgin there no way its something really bad. Yeast infections/ingrown hairs/razor bumps really aren't that big of a deal compared to the alternative, but you should still contact a doctor just to be safe.
Good luck.
xChaos
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last night my bf sent me to hell on the phone,we had an argument and he just hung up on me,I spent the whole night crying,What can I do???? (link)
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Things like this happen from time to time in relationships. Sometimes pent up frustration and little things can build up until you explode and take it out on your significant other.
I suggest you take a step back and spend a few days calming down and thinking about whether or not you want to be with him. What are the pros about leaving him? What are the cons? What are the good things about him and what are the bads? If the bad things outweigh the good things, its probably best to let him go. Staying with him will only make things worse in the long run, and keep you from being truly happy.
Time is a great healer. After a while you wont feel so bad about being without him anymore, especially if you weren't happy in your relationship. There are probably other guys out there who will love you more and treat you better anyway.
Good luck.
xChaos
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I was just wondering if anyone thinks my laptop will be able to handle the Sims 3 [plus expansion packs] without my laptop slowing down and such. My laptop specs are better then my home computer. It just makes me weary because i need my laptop for classes & I'm afraid it will break it.
my laptop specs are 2.5 ghz, i3 core processor, 4gb 500gb? i think more actually.. sorry i don't know how to find my specs.. its windows 7 and the graphics card is intel hd
I've only had my laptop for about 5 months now.
I know the website canyourunit.com & the sims 3 specs, and it says i can run it, but honestly, i just want some additional insight from someone who really knows computers & if it's worth putting it onto my laptop.
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Sims 3 takes up a fairly large amount of gb storage, especially if you are planning on adding the expansion as well. If you really have 500gb open on your laptop then you will be able to install it, but it might slow down your comp since the i3 core isn't all that new anymore.
The bigger problem you will likely face is your cooling system (likely the fans inside of your computer). Most laptops have serious problems running high quality games because of overheating issues. They simply aren't built for it.
You can purchase cooling pads/fans on amazon, or at a computer/technology store, that can help your laptop run it smother, so you wont get any frame-rate dropping.
Other than that, the graphics card should be good enough for you to run it on high, so you don't have much else to worry about. Remember, the more hardrive space you have open, and the fewer programs (including background programs) you have running, the better, since more of the laptops processing power is funneled directly to the game.
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why do women go oh oh during sex (link)
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If you don't know why, then you probably don't need to worry about it.
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Hi,I'm 13/f,and I'm a vegan/vegetarian.I've been one for some years now.But there's only one problem.My parents hate it.My mom said my doctor said that's not healthy for me,cause I need the protein,but she doesn't wanna hear the other ways I can get protein,while still remaining vegan.My dad just flat out says no,without hearing me out.I'm also a Peta supporter.How do I tell them,and get them to hear me out,and agree with me? (link)
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Explain to them why its important to you. If they don't like it, stick to your guns anyway.
Its normal to go through phases like this at your age, since you're discovering everything you care about. If you really believe in being a vegetarian/vegan, then you will continue to hold your beliefs in the future.
Your parents have to deal with it if they love you, since its a part of who you are. Don't let them control that part of you. They don't have the right, even if they think they do, or try to tell you they do.
They don't like it? Tough. They have to deal with it. Over time they will have to accept it and wont mind so much.
Good luck.
xChaos
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I have had sex with my boyfriend now for about a year. He recently started going away for university so I only get to see him about once a month, which means I have sex about once a month. Lately, my vagina has been very itchy. It is not a yeast infection because i've had one before. The skin around my vagina is sometimes itchy, but hurts when I scratch it, yet feels relief at the same time. My boyfriend is home again and we've tried having sex but it hurts me so much. I also don't feel as aroused by him, like I have to close my eyes and try not to picture his every flaw. I don't know, something just isn't right! Please help (link)
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See a doctor, those are all very clear signs of an infection of some sort. Its probably not going to go away, and might only get worse with time.
After speaking with your doctor, and getting yourself taken care of, its to to have a serious talk with your boyfriend about how you may have gotten your infection. If you find out hes been cheating on you, dump his ass.
Good luck.
xChaos
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Hi all... Here it is I have been with a guy for 6 years,recently just got engaged. We have has issues around drinking but they were never addressed I always looked past it - finally I have met someone else and decided to call it quits - this guy is wonderful I actually thought he was my soulmate. He takes care of me and life with him would be so different and stress free financially. Since I called it quits now my finance or whatever he shall be called at this time has decided he wants to change, not drink , be affectionate what I have always wanted. He always has a little 5 year old who I have. Know since infancy. Looking on some advice here ... Do guys ever really change , The new guy is head over heals for me and weI think deep down we r soulmates. Not sure what to do from here go and try living an awesome life or stay here out of guilt bcuz he is trying - also financial stability is ok. Please give advice ! I want to get married and have a
Child soon and now it'll be put off even longer ! When I am with my finance I feel nothing anymore but I feel if I tried I could make it work- I just don't wsnt to make the wrong decision.. (link)
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Screw the old guy.
Stick with the new guy.
Guys don't change completely. We pretty much are the way we are going to be. We might say that we are going to change, or even make steps towards changing, but deep down we are who we are, and if you don't like that, then you shouldn't be with that person.
It might be hard to say goodbye to him for good, but just do it. You have someone better in your life now, and you have your whole life ahead of you.
Good luck.
xChaos
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first off i'm a 17yr. old female i have a regular 28day cycle and i'm really confused on when i ovulate and how long it last..My last cycle came on,Dec.6,2011 and went off on dec.11,2011 .when do i ovulate? and how long does it last? my next cycle isnt suppose to come on til Jan2,2012...is it possible that i can be preggo?? someone plz help me
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If you were pregnant, you wouldn't have a period at all.
Its normal for teenage girls to have weird cycles, or cycles that seem normal and then switch up from time to time. Don't be too worried about it.
If you don't have your period in the next few weeks you may want to talk to a doctor, but my guess is it will come back, though whether or not its on "schedule" is another matter. You cant time them perfectly. You're not a robot.
But the fact that you are worrying about being pregnant is a sign that you might want to use protection in the future (unless you want a baby of course).
Good luck.
xChaos
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So being in a dilemah right now I have a couple choices ... Just out of curiosity which would any of you pick ???
A). A finance you have been with for 6 years, financial stability is not the greatest - he lives paycheck to paycheck. I pretty much pay for any extra things we do and he
Smokes , never been on any vacations, he never is motivated to do anything fun but now that I wsnt to leave he wants to change and do things. The only problem is guess who is gonna fund these fun things ! Pretty much had to beg for a ring but he claims he wouldnt of given me one if he didn't wsnt to , also he has shown me no affection for a while and now he wants to show me all kinds of it ahhh. Took me 6 years to get where I am .... Wanting him to have a family with me , marry me and ect and now i am throwing it all away ... Is it smart??
Or....
B) new guy , makes more - pays for everything, hard working , loves to go places, it's only been 4 months but we are so similiar in everything - college graduate - good family - wants to have a family soon , I know $$ isn't everything but it does help
So it seems like a no brainer but why can't I let choicd a go ??? I feel so bad to the point where I'm not sure I can leave because he would be lost without me ! (link)
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The fact that you are even asking this question shows that you shouldn't even consider staying with Guy A. Especially if he is your fiance. This is someone you're (potentially) going to spend the rest of your life with. If you aren't completely satisfied with him in almost every way, don't set yourself up for serious lifelong disappointment.
He'll be lost without you? You've been together for 6 years?
Boo hoo for him. You had to beg for a ring? He doesn't show you affection?
I mean its pretty clear this relationship is (or should be) over. I understand that its hard to let people go sometimes, especially people you have been with for so long. But you will only be hurting the both of you if you stick around with him any longer.
I have a feeling you already know what to do, and just want people to agree with you, and give you a little push towards what you have already decided in your head.
My advice, go with the obviously better choice, Guy B. You have nothing to lose but dead weight. And its much more likely that you will be happier anyway.
Good luck.
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I just need adive on what to do if ur 15 nd u dont wana have sex and wana be a virgin (link)
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Don't have sex then. Wait till you're ready.
Problem solved.
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I think I'm depressed,I'M SCARED,I don't know what to do,How do you know if you are undergoing this?I need some good advice on this,thanks (link)
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Depression is a clinical disorder which comes in many forms that only a trained psychiatric professional can accurately diagnose.
That being said, the major indicators of a major depressive disorder is not merely sadness, but a loss of emotional sensitivity. If you have depression it is likely that you may lose enjoyment in many or all aspects of life, including activities you once enjoyed.
Depression has biological causes, and can be inherited or developed physiologically, which is less likely. If you have a family history of depressive or mood disorders, it is possible that you have inherited it.
Based on the limited information you have provided, no one will be able to make a truly accurate assessment, but what I can tell you from personal experience of having Major Depressive Disorder(MDD) is that my depressive phases last for months at a time, and can be brought on by small things, such as not being invited to hang out with a friend, or watching a sad movie. All my emotions seem to numb, and I recoil socially, not wanting to associate or talk to anyone in my life who I don't have to.
For many people who think they have depression however, the truth is just that bad things happen to people all the time. Bad things that happen, or being emotionally hurt can make you sad for long periods of time, and even make you have existential crises, where you question whether or not you are even worth anything. At times it can even lead to thoughts of death and suicide.
Everyone goes through bad periods. What you have to realize is that these bad periods don't last, and sometimes all you have to do is wait for them to pass. Perhaps you can even bring yourself out of it, and take steps towards making your life better, since its unlikely someone is going to come and save you.
If you really have a constant numbness, or sadness in life that lasts for a long time, I would encourage you to seek counseling, while also trying to sort through the problems going on inside of you by confronting them. Don't be afraid to reach out to the people around you who you know you can trust, and who love you.
Just remember, things always have the potential to get better. Even on the cloudiest of days, the sun is never too far away.
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There's this guy, his name is Adam. I've really started to like him ALOT. he's so nice to me. Every morning i'll wake up to a "good morning gorgeous" text or something cute like "good morning sunshine. Thing is i'm to shy to make the next move. like if he doesn't text me we go all day with out talking. We've never actually talked in person, he used to go to my school until he moved and we have mutual friends on facebook. We've been planning on hanging out the next time he's in town, but I feel like my shyness will get in the way of everything. I fear rejection too, like I feel like he's just kidding when he texts me and tells me i'm gorgeous, alot of it has to do with my self esteem, and the fact that last guy that asked me out ended up doing it out of a dare then when I said yes, he said he was just kidding and it was a kid I really liked too. so now I feel like every guy that asks me out is going to do the same thing. I'm not the only girl that kid asked out though, it was a game between him and his friend, but I now feel like every guy plays that game.. weird I know! any who, i'm tired of my shyness getting and self esteem getting in the way of my relationships with people. What are some cute things I can do to show adam that I like him? and what are some signs to know if a guy really likes you or if he's just messing with your head? I don't want to set myself up for embaressment or rejection again! (link)
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To let you inside a guys head for a moment, when I say playful things to girls, especially things like "good morning dear" or "nite babe" I only do that because I want to be her first thought when she wakes up in the morning, and the last thought she has at night. Its a way of making me an important part of her day and life, even if its just indirectly. I don't think this guy would do that if he didn't genuinely like, or at the very least wasn't attracted to you. What motivation would he have to do that if he didn't like you? Don't expect guys to always be super aggressive and direct. We can be just as shy as girls are, its just less expected in society.
As for the last guy you dated, he was clearly immature and a jerk. I highly doubt he asked you out on a dare, it was probably just a convenient excuse to hurt your feelings or break things off.
Anyways, if a guy genuinely likes you, he may joke with you a lot, or say little teasing things just to put your attention on him and what hes saying. Also look for involuntary things, like smiles or laughs that you cant really fake.
If you want to show him you like him, smiling and laughing always do the trick, just don't overdo it, let it flow. If you like him, you wont be able to help but smile at him if he smiles at you. Also playfully hitting or tapping him on the arm after a joke or tease(not hard) is a clear sign to a guy that a girl likes him.
Remember, most signs of attraction are programed into peoples heads. If you can feel that he likes you when you're around each other, he probably does.
Good luck.
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