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So every year me and my guy befriend get each other Christmas present. Normally he just asks me to make him all kinds of sweets and he buys me something funny referring to one of our inside jokes. But this year he wants me to buy him something and idk what to get! Haha I coul get him something referring to an inside joke but I can't think d anything funny... Hes 17, a senior, LOVES football (playing) he doesn't have a favorite team. And hes super mean to me on a joking way. Any ideas???
(I'm a girl, 16) (link)
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What kind of jokes do the two of you have? You can get him a football bear stuffed toy so he could cuddle. Try also to check out www.lifo.com. It's a free fashion hub which includes an online wardrobe where you can create outfits and get fashion feedback from friends.
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lately i have been dealing with severe drama. i'm 16 years old and i am talking to a guy who is much older than me. but thats not where the drama is. lately ive been being harrassed. and im working on telling someone. but i keep having this awkward feeling on the inside. its like anxiety. how do i just relax and get this feeling to go away? (link)
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I think you need to open up to somebody that is close to you. It might help the feeling go away a little but you should also seek a professional help to deal with. it in the proper way. Try also to check out LIFO.com It's an online home for information and comment on girls' interests whether it be the latest Hollywood gossip or tips on the trendiest fashions.It a fun site.I hope you can try it there.
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24/f, my boyfriend is 23/m.
Please don't think I'm ungrateful, it's just that I'm... not used to being treated well, or being appreciated.
I've been in two abusive relationships, one right after the other. My last ex liked to buy me things out of the blue, but somehow always held it against me (e.g. "I got you [blank] and you didn't [blank]! How could you be so ungrateful?"). The guy before him never gave me anything without getting or wanting something in return.
My current boyfriend is beyond wonderful. He somehow treats me like a princess and an equal; we don't play mind games with one another, and I really trust him, which is surprising, given my history. He loves to get me little things to make me smile. For instance, he picked up on me feeling kinda down one day, so he showed up after work with a stuffed animal, saying he thought I could use a fuzzy pick-me-up. I know, "why the heck would anyone complain about that?" But that's part of my confusion...
I feel so... strange about taking presents from him. He talks about all these things he wants to give me, and it's sweet, but it's not practical.
It also frustrates me a little, because while he's living with his parents, working part time, and able to spend his money however he likes, I'm living on my own; I have a cat to take care of, I'm working full time, have medical problems, and can barely pay my own bills. There's so much I want to do for him; so much I want to give him, but I can't. He understands perfectly, so far, but I guess I'm a little afraid he'll start holding it against me, or something.
I haven't mentioned any of this to him yet... I'm not really sure if I should, or how to do so.
What should I do about this? Should I even do/say anything? Or is it time for me to shut up and enjoy a healthy, happy relationship? Is this part of a healthy relationship? After my ridiculous past and boyfriends from hell, I'm not sure I know anymore.
Help a girl out? :) (link)
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You're bless to have a very loving and caring boyfriend. Maybe you should start to appreciate what he gives you. Not every boyfriend is like that. If you feel awkward about it you can talk with him in a nice way and explain it to him.Start leaving the past behind so you can have a better future with him. Try also to check out LIFO.com. It is a social network for girls that focuses on the latest fashion trends, celebrity gossip, social causes, beauty and health and lifestyle issues.
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hi, i was a virgin 3 months ago and lost it to a virgin too, and so i am wondering if i can get phv from that he has never had sex before and the same goes with me , so can i get PHV which later on causes to cervical cancer? (link)
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Do you mean HPV? An HPV is easily transmitted during intercourse. You can get if the person involve in the intercourse is infected. Try also to visit www.lifo.com. It's an online home for information and comment on girls' interests whether it be the latest Hollywood gossip or tips on the trendiest fashions.
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my mother has lots of fur coats & such, and i just found them. there is this one white rabbit fur vest, & i know the fake fur vests are in right now, and i really like it.
i want to wear it, but i'm afraid people will be able to tel its real & like beat me.
i know the mink ones & fox ones look obviously real, but i also don't think many people will expect a 19 year old girl to have real fur vest either..? right? (link)
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Why not? You'll be the one wearing it not them. You can't avoid to hear nasty things but don't mind them. It's your life and style. You can check out www.lifo.com. It is a fun site for girls that has a virtual closet feature which allows you to upload your own personal closet and create outfits you can share with friends.
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I despise Christmas with every bone in my body right now. I never ever have any money, and my grandma sometimes lends me money, but that's not the whole of the problem.
I am horrible at giving gifts. I'm creative at other times, but Christmas is always a curse... I can never come up with anything to give anyone. I want this year to be memorable, but I don't know what to get my mom, stepdad, sister, or baby brother. And more importantly, I have no idea what to get my boyfriend.
These people always do nice things for me and get me good gifts, and I want to do so in return. My boyfriend is so sweet and he likes video-games, pumpkin pie, and a lot of movies. He says he'll like anything but I want to treat him to a nice, thoughtful gift. My mom is very hard-working and she likes to read, and my stepdad really enjoys video-games like Red Dead Redemption and such, and he'll be satisfied with just about anything. Babies are easy to buy for, so I'm not as struggled with that, and my sister likes toys and trinkets and such, but I need help with finding a good gift for my boyfriend.
Tough having no money... :/
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I just know the feeling but I've learned to do some alternatives. I am a member of the DIY club.lol. Please do visit www.lifo.com It is a social network for girls that focuses on the latest fashion trends, celebrity gossip, social causes, beauty and health and lifestyle issues.
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One of my good guy friends is turning 18, I'm only 17 so i cant get him anything you have to be of age to get. I'm pretty short on money, so im kind of just looking for a cool idea of something i can make maybe? I don't know. Something specail, that he'll like and can keep. He told me not to get him anything cuz he'll feel bad but i want to atleast give him something (:
btw, I am going to make him a birthday card or something, thats just not good enough :P (link)
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You can give him a perfume so every time he sprays it he'll remember you. The birthday card is also a sweet idea. Try to check out LIFO.com It is an online hub for girls that let them have their own virtual closet, read and write about the latest fashion, beauty and celebrity trends.
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18/F
So the beginning of this year I had long brown hair, I got bored of it and one day I had it tied back and my friend said he thought I looked good with short hair (my hair looked like it was short) Well he said to let him cut my hair, he said if I didn't like it he's pay for extensions. Well He cut my hair off and I didn't like it, he bought me extensions and I wore them for about two months before I need to replace them. I decided just to let my hair be short. Having it short it was easy to dye, so I would dye it all sorts of crazy colors using vegan hair dye. It didn't damage my hair. Well I dyed it this dark green and after about a month I decided I did not like it. I started using products that weren't hair color safe to strip the color and using a spray in hair lightener. I bleached it after it got lighter and it went to white blond. I then used Aphogee hair treatment and it made my hair feel amazing. This was about four weeks ago, You are only supposed to use the product every six-eight weeks. Well After I got it blond I took a vegan dye and did it a natural pretty red. But the problem is my hair is starting to get dry again, I really want it healthy because it hasn't grown very much. I am keep it at this natural color and I am not dying it anymore, I want my hair long and healthy. I use hot oil treatments once every other week, I use a leave in conditioner and I try not to wash my hair more than twice a week. It has been helping and my hair is feeling a lot better. But does anyone have any beauty advice? I want to know if there is any at home treatments I could do. Preferably cheep, I'm kinda broke right now because of Christmas. Also I am looking for tips on how to get my hair to grow fast. I am debating if I should just save some money and get extensions...Please help! (: (link)
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You can use conditioners with UV built in. They are good for dry hair. Also check out www.lifo.com for more beauty and hair tips. It's an online home for information and comment on girls' interests whether it be the latest Hollywood gossip or tips on the trendiest fashions. If you're not to busy you can try visiting them.
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I'm looking to dye my hair soon but I JUST bought new shampoo and conditioner that I really need to keep using (strength & length). Is there any sort of color shield product I can use that won't conflict with my shampoo/conditioner? (I have Garnier Length & Strength.) When do I use it? (link)
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Try the Garnier Fructis Color shield. It effective. For beauty tips please don't forget to visit www.lifo.com .It's an online home for information and comment on girls' interests whether it be the latest Hollywood gossip or tips on the trendiest fashions.
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