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Heyy! My names Sara. .Im a cheerleader and i love to dance I also rantrack for 4 years! Im 13 and like all other teenagers need help with my choices! If you need help let me know and i would love to help you because ill try my best and i give pretty good idvice and dont forget to rate! ;-) Dont forget to please anwser all my questions!!

Love ya!

x0ox. .--> Sara*

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ok i really like this guy his a year older then me and i think he's really hot, i don't really know him that much and im to shy to go up to him and start a convo. What should i do write a note, what???

confused

find the courage and go up to him...whats the worst that can happen...? u guys end up being friends! He will proubley talk to you and get to know you then the best thing would be talk it out togther and find out how he feels to! x33Sara

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Im a female 14 and i live in California.There is this guy i liked a ton last year and we would always flirt at school and id come home and talk to him for hours. we had alot im common. Then this summer he told me he liked me too and he come over acouple of times and we fooled around. he never asked me out or anything and i got kindof scared he might be using me. we got together again and did everything but sex.. which was alot more then i wanted to go before having a relationship with him. then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know.. i got pissed off and started accusing him of using me and finally he admitted to it. i was devastated. i yelled at him and we got in a huge fight and we both said some pretty mean things. its been about 4 monthes and we still dont talk and im over the fact that he used me and i just want to be friends again, not because i like him but i cant STAND being in a fight with somebody that long & its been bothering me for about three monthes now - im also scared that if i start talking to him hes gunna still be mad about everything and im going to make a fool of myself... sorry this was so long but i really need help! :o)

I kninda no what u are going threw..the best thing to do would be trying to ingore it and more on! Good Luck! *Sara* x33

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15/f
Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!!

Dont worry dont Worry! I just got my off and it they never hurt that bad! They will hurt every once in a while tho! you will get use to them pretty fast! One thing that does hurt is when a wire pops..u wont no till it starts cuting the inside of ur mouth but that donst happen much at all. Good luck! love ya ! *sara*

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ok, i have a boyfriend. and i thought i loved him to death. but the other day i was at this club thing. and me and this other guy who is a good friend, we started flirting like crazy. and i realized i have feelings for him. and then later he told me he had feelings for me. he doesnt know i like him too though. but i don't know if i should stick with my boyfriend cause i truly do adore him or should i give this other guy a try bcuz hes so nice and everything.

This one is up to you! Who will make you happier who do u like more who will treat u better who will love you how u will lvoe them! ask yourself thoes questions! Tell your boyfriend the truth tho! Good Luck! x3_sara*

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ok these TWO guys like me..... well im not sure about one of them but im definite on the other .... the first guy's name is lets say mike well he likes me... but hes kinda a loser.... plus hes a big jerk.... ya this is the guy who likes me and i no that he does. the second kid lets call him tyler.... im not sure if he likes me but all of my friends say that he flirts with me... but i dont even try to flirt with him!!! so the real question is does he like me??

o ya by the way i sorta have a crush on him but i dont wanna tell my friends bc last yere he wassa humongous loser and now hes all hot and sexy lol!!

plz dont delete this i really need advice!!

~*l0sT aNd CoNfUsEd*~

If you dont like mike then forget about him...dont be a bitch to him or anything but let me know that u have feeling for another guy or what ever! Butt Tyler..who cares about last year thats in the past! Let him know you like him or nothing will ever happend! Good Luck! x33_Sara*

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How long would you be willing to date someone before you either left or proposed marriage to them? You being a 30 something female he being a late 30 something male.

2 or 3 years! But you have to make sure hes the one! Thats one of the biggest mastakes you can make in life so make sure hes rite! x3_ sara*

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i like 3 guys ons name is patrick on is miles and i dont exactley no if i like ryan, patrick and miles are both in the 7th grade like me ryan is in the 8th but we talk more ...Help im so confuzed..cause i really like them..but patrick is what i ant the most.....well patrick knows i like him..............but i dont no if he likes me he flirts...some times but so do th others....HELP

Sounds like you and ryan would be the best but you stories a lil confusing n really hard to understand...make it a lil more clear and ill love too help you more babe! Love ya x33 Sara*

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ok on monday I was dumped and I'm really unnhappy about it but now my ex keeps slagging me off to all my friends one of my friends told me what he'd said when I got to school he was being really nasty to me he kept calling me a ho slag slut and a bitch and said he regrets going out with me and that he never even liked me but when we were going out he text me saying I love you so did he have feelings for me but now he's being really nasty to me and now he's going out with his ex ex and I'm really stressed now what can I do please help me!

Sounds like he might miss you a little bit and this is his way of forgetting about you! Dont worry..his lose! Dont let it bother you! one this for sure is dont go back with him if hes treating you like this! Take a break from guys for a little bit and get you head cleared! Then go out and find a guy that deserves you love and that will love you back the same way! Good Luck! x3_Sara*

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alright ..w ell i'm a freshmen and last friday was our homecoming dance - the kid i originally liked who's a sophmore .. well i tlked to him a little but we didn't dance i don';t think he even like danced at all .. well my friend was there too and he came at a slow song and was touching me and was like me and my gf broke up and i talked to him .. but he's very touchy-feely and he was touching me and stuff .. a little while later he came and danced w. me for a song and then he left .. near the end i came over and he was dancing w. some ugly fat girls but he stopped to tlak to me - and like we wnet to a corner to talk and then we danced and like he was touching me and stuff like that .. but when we were talking his friend was like nudging him like i dunno that way wher you know he's talking about you but like isn't saying nething .. well i sorta like both these boys and i thin they both do .. like i have the feeling but i dunno how to find out b.c one is my like best friend and we''re together a lot in school .. but the other one is more like tlkin to me in geometry and flirt with me a litl during class .. i wanna kno how i can like find out if they like me er they jst wanna be friends .. i can usually o it myself but i can't now for some reason ..

Sounds like he likes you too babe! Let him know you like him to and talk to him about it! Tell him how you feel and that u would like to become closer! Good Luck! Love YA!

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My guy friend and I just started liking eacother..( begining of thanksgiving break )..and we just told eachother * which is something I like NEVER do * but I am so afraid that he'll just change his mind..and I'm gonna feel SOO weired on monday at school. Ahhh what do I do..we're not like BEST friends but we're pretty close..and I've never felt this way about another guy before. Please Help!!

Give it a chance but make sure that u really like him before! Me and this guy liked eachother for about a 2 month before we started going out and when i do that it seems to last so much long and i seem to feel much more compertable about the whole thing. So just make sure its rite and then give it a chance! But tell him that if it dont work then you still wanna be friends and put that in the past...but hopefully it works! Good Luck Babe!! x33. . Sara!

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I need something for my face that will make it more clear and make my skin more heatly and almost flawless. Any one know of anything good?

I had the same proublem my face was getting really bad! But i was able to stop it before it got like that and now its perfect! You should get PROAVTIVE...it works! its kinda expensive$ but it works and its worth it! Good Luck! xoxo *sara*

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im going out with this guy that goes to a different school. i see him only about twice a month and i dont think our relationship will last. is there anything i can do to see him more often because i really really like him.

thanx.

You should talk to him every nite on the phone and that will make you feel closer! But start asking him if he wants to hang out more! He should say yes and try to make it work! If not let him know how you feel and im sure he will feel the same way then i think you guys should take it from there! If you really love him dont leave him because ull miss him and u never know something good might happend! Let me no what happends! xoxo *Sara*

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i am a female giirl 14 yr.s old(9th grade) i was just wondering ... wut color eye shadow and eyeliner would look good with me ... heres some details of wut i look like.. i have Long brown hair blue eyes my skin color is average... i just need some kind of makeup on myself because i want a new look...and like i luv hip-hop im not into the punk or rock kinda stuff so if you no wut a lotta giirlz where on their face to give them a good natural style but also something that you can notice please giive me good advice i rate hiigh !!

I would try different things! I have long brown hair with alot of blond (more blond then brown) and i have very light brown eyes and i wear a dark brown eye liner and a light brown eyeshadow with some shimmer in it! It sound like that would look cute on u to! If not i would do a black eyeliner! Hope I Helped! x33 Let me know! x0oX . . Sara!

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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿

I would try and work things out because u really dont no what u got till its gone! I think u should sit down and talk to her and ask WHY! she proubley does it because she dont not want everybody to think you have her around you fingers (even thought u proubley know you dont she might just feel like that) let her know u love her and how you feel! Talk to her then see what she says then i think you to should dicide if you should break up togther!

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My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?

Let him know that u think hes change and that you are worried about him (when hes not drunk) tell him everything that you told us! Let him know that u still care and that you dont understand why he is changing so fast! The anwser will proubley b that hes trying to fit in! Let me no! Love ya! *Sara*

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my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?

Sorry i didnt understnd ur question then!...Well if i were u i would find new friends that dont make bad disicions like that!

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If I walked on a tredmale (however you spell it lol) for about an hour almost every morning, then ate healthy and also did pilates... How long do you think it would take for me to notice results? (Especially a flat stomach and skinnier legs/thighs) Thanks!! :)

Longer then you want it to! Sweetiee it will take about a month but its all worth it! Good Luck! *Sara!*

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I am looking in to losing about 50 pounds. I'm not one of those people who we wants to lose it all in a week or a month or anything, but i need some tips. I know i need to eat healthy and in moderation and excersize regularly but is there anything else i can do????
Please help me, i have tried atkins, weightwatchers, and southbeach and none have worked!!!

anything anyone could give would help!!!!
I rate if you want!!!

I wanted to loose weight to but all my friends yelled at me and got mad @ me because i just dicided to eat NOTHING! Bad idea i weighted about 96 and got down to 89 in 1 month by just drinking and eating when i had to because i felt soo sick i might pass out ((i did pass out a couple times though)) Bad idea NEVER try that! I suggest that you eat 3 meals a day breakfast, lunch and dinner and nothing in between! Yes it will be hard but yes it will work! Let me now what happends and good luck! Love ya! *Sara!*

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