Hey I'm wisemen, I'm 15, I'm single, my yahoo i.d. is wiseguy_2011, and I'm always here to help ask anything and I'll try to answer the best i can so that you will be happy. I'm a very peaceful guy so i don't get mad often, any relationship problems ask me, because most likely I've been in the spotlight once. Thanks!
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well for theater arts, me and a partner have to come up with a good skit. we are going to make a video of it and make it into a movie and stuff. but my drama teacher seems to hate every single idea we propose to her. i really need some good ideas that would be easy to preform in about 5-6 minutes. it can't have anything dirty in it. and maybe about 3-7 characters.
it needs to have a good plot and resolution.
thanks so much.
i would really like to get this answered by thursday. because we only have 1 day left so PLEASE HURRRRY!!!
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Abbot and Costello Who's on First or 7x13=28. Hope all goes well!
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Hellooo
I'm 15/F and a sophomore
I was wondering if I should go for this guy I like.
He's my age, he's super sweet, really cute, smart, funny, and respectful. The only problem is, his best friend is my ex boyfriend and we had a REALLY bitter break up :/ to our friends, it would be really wrong if anything were to happen between us but I have really strong feelings for him and I don't know what to do.should I go for him, or not? And if I should, how do I let him know how I feel?
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If you like him like you say you do why let anything stop you. If they are really your friends they would understand and not be jealous. To let him know i would suggest two things 1. if you are shy write a note saying you like him and write back and stuff. or 2. if you are straight forward just go up to him and ask if he would like to go see a movie sometime. Hope all goes well!
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15/f
Well i heard this guy thinks i am pretty and he wants to get to know me because one of my friends knows him and is very good friends with him. We will call her (Mayla). Anyways mayla told me all this a week ago because we were off school for winter break. At first, i didn't know who he was, but now i do because i saw him when we came back to school. We came back to school today and i realized that we are in 2 classes together. I want to make a good impression on him because i think he is sorta cute. He isn't the best, and is different from all the guys that i have dated before and usually not my type, but i think he is somewhat cute. Well today to school i wore a really cute black shirt and i painted my nails black to match (i swear i am not gothic, i like bright colors also). So, tomorrow i wanted to wear another cute black shirt that i have and my nails would still be black, but i am afraid he will think i am emo or whatever because a lot of guys i know hate black nail polish. Anyways, im worried about that, so i might just wear this turquoise colored shirt tomorrow. I am still confused on the guy though. I didn't even like him before i knew he liked me (well i really didn't know who he was anyways, but still) and he won't talk to me. All today, he didn't say a word to me. I want him to make the first approach because if he supposedly likes me, that's what he is supposed to do. I won't do it. But if he dosen't i will be sad, because i really am starting to like him kinda. I want to actually talk and get to know him first and text him or something. Anyways, what should i do?? (link)
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I'm a guy just like him shy to talk to someone i like. He could be afraid to approach you, because he might be afraid of rejection. You should make the first move go up to him and say "Hey, I don't think I've talked to you before. What's your name?" Go from there and on the nail polish guys don't think too much of it. Just wear what you are comfortable in. Hope all goes well!
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bottom line:
he calls or texts me maybe twice a week if im lucky
we hang out once a month
and i only see him at school between classes for two minutes once a day
we have been together almost 3 months
but liked each other for over a year
every time i talk to him about how we arent close he gets mad and tells me to end it
what should i do?
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well don't end it right away, because i am sure there is someway to see each other more often then this. Try and work out a schedule and if that fails have a nice talk to him about how you feel and see if you still want to break up with him. Hope all goes well!
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i'm making some kick-a grpahics to go with some photography i took a while back. and i'm looking for some awesome quotes to put on them. i don't want anything cliche or over done. i mostly use a lot of random lyrics, or small bits of quotes i find every now and then. here are some examples:
"be young, think smart, stay true, and just follow your heart."
"live like you meant it."
"happiness will only come to those who already appreciate what they have."
"i need you like a lyric needs a melody."
"it's not faith if you use your eyes."
i'll all for the whole "i'm happy to be alive and thankful for what i have" kind of thing. any takers? (: (link)
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"Speak softly but carry a big stick" is one of my favorites it's from Theodore Roosevelt. Another one i like is "If we were to talk more than to listen then we would have two mouths and one ear." those are the best i got.
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Ok,my problem here is that I've had this crush on this guy for about a year now.In my 8th grade year I told him how i felt about him((which i wish I should've never done))he told me that he did'nt feel about me in that sort of way((even though he would give me signs that he liked me))
All he wanted was to just be friends which was not true either because when I waited for him to add me on myspace((he dosn't have a computer so he has to go to like a friends house))he was on one afternoon I waited for him to add me but instead he did'nt add me.Which got me really depressed that day...
I'm in High school now and I have him in one class&i sometimes see him in the mornings when im on the bus or just walk around campus with a friend of mine.i thought I got over him in the summer but turns out that my feelings are still there ((sadly)).Now on the((I think im not sure..))2nd day of school one of my guy friends were with this really cute guy((lets call him Jack)).On our frist weekend my whole group of friends went to the mall to say good-bye to a guy((that I still dont know very well))who was leaving to Virgina.Well Jake suprised us((mostly me))with a little group of other friends with him((who were mostly girls))who also came to say good-bye.
The whole time at the mall all I wanted to do was to be together with Jake((which I was able to do a few times))What I noticed was that during the whole time when I wanted to get near Jake my crush never even entered my mind&I also felt more happy with him((I know chessy but what can I say?))Also he's the 2nd person to make me smile non-stop((Jake noticed that so I tried controlling myself))
Well a few days ago when me and a few good friends decided to go walking to Starbucks right after school I was talking to one of my great friends((you could say like a bf but i dont like using that term at all))both me and her were talking of some drama that was/is going on in our 'little' group.Well somehow me and ((lets call her Amy))Amy then just changed the topic to my crush then to Jake.
I told her that I thought Jake was cute and that maybe I liked him but I also said I was'nt sure.Amy then said that she too thought Jake was cute but she could'nt say that she liked him since she barely knew him.But this whole week at school during lunch I've noticed that they are usually together now and she does look happy when she is with him.As for me I try dealing to get over my crush which is soo hard.People say im in love or something but I know im not in love with him...i just..can't((love is too much of a strong word for me))...As for Jake I just came to a conlusion that if Amy really starts liking Jake then I better back off.Because if I too start having strong feelings((which I wish I had that option)) for Jake well,drama will unfold and thats the last thing I really want.
All im asking is how to get over my crush???&try being patient and wait for the right guy to come into my life???
i know this sounds like a silly question((& sorry for changing the topic a little or alot))
All i want is to get over my crush but I think my feelings for him get stronger every day... (link)
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It's hard to stop liking someone and it takes a while, but you just need to think about something or someone else for a while and maybe this Jake guy isn't what you thought he was all cracked up to be and you could move on. Hope all goes well!
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so i only have one week left of school and i really wanna talk to this guy. we've never talked before and he's a year above me. he's quite shy and often cant bare to look at me. i can tell that he's nervous. and he often DOES notice me after all. but he only notices me when he's walking by me very close. but when he's far away and i try to make eyecontact he never looks. and he also smiles at my mom when he sees her (she picks me up from school sometimes) and my friends tell me that he often looks at me when i'm totally not looking. i REALLY wanna talk to him soooo badly but i cant because i still dunno if he really likes me. and i've never talked to a hot guy ever in my life, never had a bf and dont have ANY experiences (cos i'm extremly shy, not cos i'm ugly which i'm not :P)
the problem is that he's the same. atleast with me. so what should i do?
ONLY ONE WEEK!!!! :O
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well even if he doesn't like you, you can still talk to him its not against the law so just try and talk to him as a friend or something. Try and see if he has like myspace, aim, or yahoo so you could chat to him over the summer. Just try and get a conversation going in any way, like if you have things in common talk about that. Hope all goes well!
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Im 13 Years Old I've Had Many Bad Boyfriends.This Year I Met A Guy Named Freddy He's 14.I've Liked Him For 10 Months Now.We Really Got To Know Earlier In The Year & EVERYONE Was Saying He Was Into Me.The Day I Was going to Ask Him Out He Started Going Out WIth Another Girl Which Got Me Really Confused because We Started Out So Strong &Had Everythin In Common.Throughout This Year I've Had Many Guys Ask Me Out & I Said No because I Cant Get Over Freddy. Im Still Not Over Him & Now He Is Single & Im Too Scared To Ask Him Out because I Dont Know If He Likes Me Anymore Or If He Ever Did Like Me.Im Really Heartbroken because This Happens To Me Everytime & I Really Think He's The One.I dont Want Another Guy because I See Everything In Him. Now I Hurt Myself.I Began Cutting Myself About 2 Weeks Ago because The Year Is Ending & I Wont See Him Next Year. Im Also Getting Sick Over It Lately I Havnt Been Eating Well & I Cant Sleep & Im Always Crying Or Throwing Up From Crying So Much.I Just Cant Let Him Go.He Doesnt Know Im Upset Or That Im Cutting Myself Really Badly.I Cant Get Over Him I Feel Like Dying Is The Way Outta This Pain That I Feel. How Do I Make It Stop.
If Anyone Wants To IM Me On AIM Its 2:25 AM Right Now & Im Still Up I'll Probually Be Up The Rest Of The Night But Feel Free To IM Me My SN is
XxLuv HaRdCoRexX
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o.k. listen or read whatever the only way out of this pain is ask him that way the cutting, throwing up, loss of appetite, and the crying stops. Just tell him how you feel and hopefully he will feel the same. Hope all goes well! if u want any more advice just drop one in my inbox.
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I'm 14 and getting braces and I need to get 2 bicuspids pulled. Does getting them pulled hurt? I had 6 baby teeth pulled when I was 8 or 9, and they gave me laughing gas and some other stuff and I didn't feel anything. But is it different for adult teeth? How long will they hurt after I get them pulled? (link)
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ok well i got some of my adult teeth pull about a couple of months ago and they used some numbing stuff and you wont even know that they pulled your tooth its pretty simple don't worry about it. Hope all goes well!
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i like this guy and i am friends with him, he is preppy and as a nice personality. but i dont think i am all that pretty and i want him to notice me. What do i do? help i am a female. teenager (link)
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well if you are friends with him he would have already noticed you and he thinks you are pretty because you are friends with him. you should just be yourself and tell him that i would like to get to know you a little better maybe go somewhere and get something to eat, or see a movie. Hope all goes well!
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do guys like athletic girls? i dont know...i just want to know what guys look at in a girl. i mean, guys like me. but i want them to like me for the right reasons so i want to try and see if i can break down those stupid "looks" barriers at all... not sure how yet but haha, i just need an overview of what guys like. both inside and out please and thank you!! :) (link)
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if you want guys to like you for the right reasons such as what your like and stuff unless you like athletic stuff then i wouldn't do it because its not you. If some guy asks you out ask them why he is interested in you then you will know if they like you for the right reasons. Hope all goes well!
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im asking you cuz your a guy so.
if you hooked up with a girl or whoevs who you thought was hot, would you care if they were bad at like making out or would you just be like whatever.
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i would be just like whatever because who cares what they're good at you obviously liked them for a reason so it wouldn't matter to me. Hope all goes well!
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Okay, so heres my story. Last year in february my friend asked me out by a note and i never responded and felt really bad. we're stll friends but never see each other and i realize now that i should of said yes because i want to go out with him soooo much now.But i dont know what to do or if he would still like to go out with me. he is like the sweetest boy that i have ever met but i just dont know what to do n e more because i really want to date him!!! please help me! (link)
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Just go up to him and say sorry i didn't respond sooner to your note, then ask him if he still feels the same way and if he does say yes. Hope all goes well!
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ok so ive been friends with this kid jake and everything and all of a sudden this week hes just been ignoring me and stopped talking to me all together and i dont know what i did and i m almost positive i didnt do anything bci n ever say anything bad about him or anything
and theres this other kid dylan and he liked me btu was always mean to me and yelled at me the other day so i ignored him today and now hes really upset and mad at me and i know i shouldnt worry bc he did it to himself but i hate making people sad
what should i do with both of them??
please helpp.. thankks!! (link)
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For Jake you should ask him if everything is alright and if not ask him what is it. For Dylan you shouldn't stop talking to him just because he yelled at you maybe he was just frustrated with himself. Hope all goes well!
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I'm 16, and i plan to play wide receiver. I think i have good hands, am 6 feet tall, 155 lbs., pretty fast. My teacher who is like a mentor told me i should be more aggressive to do great. how can i become more aggressive in practice and in the game? (link)
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to make yourself more aggressive i would build some more muscle in your shoulders and legs, because you want to plow through people with your huge shoulders and want to jump higher to catch more balls.
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It never fails. Everytime I find a guy, who I think is
Perfect, it never works out. If they’re cute, they’re almost always taken. It never fails!I know I got to work hard for what I want, yeah I know, I’ve heard it way too many times before. But I just don’t want to try that hard for something that will never work out. What is the problem? I don’t get it. Is it me? I need some serious help, Oh man. I wish it came easily to me like it does to every other girl. What am I doing wrong??? Its like every cute guy is totally wrong for me and all I can get are the ugly ones. Should I just settle for that? I need help!!!
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There is a famous quote that goes "The perfect person is the imperfect person and when you accept the imperfection they become perfect." If you aren't ready to work for the perfect person then your not ready for love, because love takes a lot of work just to work. Don't call the other guys you dated ugly, because you dated them for a reason. All I am saying in just wait and the perfect guy should come along. Hope all goes well!
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I really need help see i like this boy at school and hes's like really popular and im like normal so he really doesnt talk to me how should i approach him or should i just leave it alone and stick wit my kind. (link)
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Are you saying he's not your kind when you say stick with my kind, but I'm sure that's not what you meant. Well i would find out a couple of topics to talk about before you approach him and when you do just start off by saying like happy new year then just start talking. Hope all goes well!
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Anyone know any good songs about moving and leaving someone you love behind? like literally moving not moving on cause im moving and leaving my best friend who is practically my bf. thanks so much :) or any songs about always remembering them or sumthing like that right now i like Better than Me by Hinder but it doesnt even really mean what i am looking for. thanks again :) (link)
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time after time by Cyndi Lauper is a good one.
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Whats a good song for when a guy has totally played you and messed with your emotions? Thankss (link)
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perfect by simple plan
bother by sour stone
through glass by sour stone
are three good ones that do the trick for me if I'm down. Hope all goes well!
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Ok well my bf is taking me to the book store and hes buying me a couple books but i dont know what to get him and I am going to a hockey game with him so idk i guess our gift is just spending all day with each other. We actually arent dating yet but we r best friends and have taked about dating (we can talk about anything :] ) and i think hes going to ask me out before the game at his house anyways so bascially im calling him my bf in here. Back to the question: i asked him if I had to get him something and he said no of course not i dont care if you do and i told him i want to write him something instead. he knows i looove to write (want to be an author! i've already published a couple poems!) so i told him i was going to write something instead. i wanted to write him a note and the words to 'our' song. Does that sound ok? he sometimes just tells me when hes listening to it and loves it and that he loves me and so i thought writing him a note and the lyrics would be a good idea. i want to show him i care and i dont think a gift would work. plus im terrible at getting guys gifts! also is giving him one of those big solid hershey kisses cool too? its not the huge ones but the bottom is like 2/3 the size of the palm of my hand. and then maybe give him a real kiss? thanks SO much and if you have any other ideas PLEEEASE share! :] and he always wants pics of me so maybe a picture too? again THANX (link)
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that sounds great i have also wrote a couple of poems and people say they're good but if he doesnt want a gift and he thinks the poems great and since you like to write i would go with the poem. The two kisses sounds great and just about you two are all done with the night give him your picture. Hope all goes well!
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