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i dont know what to do


Question Posted Thursday June 12 2008, 7:42 pm

i like this guy and i am friends with him, he is preppy and as a nice personality. but i dont think i am all that pretty and i want him to notice me. What do i do? help i am a female. teenager

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wisemen answered Thursday June 12 2008, 10:09 pm:
well if you are friends with him he would have already noticed you and he thinks you are pretty because you are friends with him. you should just be yourself and tell him that i would like to get to know you a little better maybe go somewhere and get something to eat, or see a movie. Hope all goes well!

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Cux answered Thursday June 12 2008, 10:07 pm:
I'm not sure how useful this will be, but here was a question I answered that is... similar to yours. If something doesn't apply to you, just act as if I didn't say it, but I think it covers for the most part what I would say:

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From there:

[T]he best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.

I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.

Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].

--Jack
(16/m)

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