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I promised my boyfriend I would get him a Rolex for Christmas, since he is buying me a new iPod Nano and a bunch of other stuff. eBay doesn't have any that I like. Is there another site like eBay were I can get one for under $50? Thanks. (link)
sorry, but you cant get a real rolex watch for under $50. any expensive brand name watch is not going to cost under $50 unless you're looking at imitations, mostly broken ones, or knockoffs. you can look at other brands of watches like Rado. theyre amazingly nice watches. Theyre very expensive but theyre fantastic quality. look at other brands if you have to or something. Best of luck!


so this guy crashed my bat mitzvah and he thinks i wanted him there (thats why he came). We dated about 8 months ago. He told me multiple times throughout the past month that he really likes me, but he leaves my bff comments on her myspace telling her thats shes pretty, smart, blah, blah, blah. My bat mitzvah was last weekend and he showed up and it was a black tie affair and stuff so all the seating had been done and no one can get a seat unless they were invited. Security took him out and he when he got home he started posting myspace bulletins about me saying i was a whore and stuff like that. he says that if anyone owes an apology, i owe him one for the security. About 5 hours before my bat mitzvah service (before the party) he promised me that he wouldnt crash it. As you can see, he lied. Its been about a week since it happened but im still mad at him for what he did. Hes always trying to talk to me or kiss me to "try and make up for what he did wrong." What should I do? at school we all have advisors (theyre actually teachers but theyre assigned to four students and we all meet every week). i told my advisor about the incident and she is not only my advisor, she's HIS teacher. the school knows about what happened and everything and theyve talked to him. He still doesnt think he did anything wrong and he wants me to have a relationship with him... I like someone else, but hes insisted that i Cant like the someone else. hes a freshman in high school and im in 8th grade. were both 14, but im older than him. i have a myspace so if u want it just give me urs and ill add u... so if u could help me out either there or on advicenators, that would be amazing!! do you think i should forgive him? (link)
eh jake is just a loser.




Hey, Im a guy, still a virgin and i was wondering how reliable a condom is. Is it a recommended Idea to double up. I know the chances are like 2-3 in 100 but would doubling up make it like.001 percent chance. Thanks answers are appreciated (link)
DONT DOUBLE THEM. EVER. theyll rip more easily and ull have a better chance of getting pregnant even though ur using a condom. hope this helps!


i have been throwing up or starving myslef for a very lonf time...i do it in periods...one week im really good and healthy and then i let myslef slide and i eat all this junk and throw it up...it makes me feel very dpressed and i withdrawl from everything...is there any health ways ...like small things i can do to get better or make soem kinda of change (link)
cravings for sugar could be doing this. instead of eating healthy all the time, eat mainly healthy, but allow yourself to have something sweet maybe as dessert after dinner. maybe frozen yogurt... yogurt is great for you and frozen yogurt can help to replace cravings for sugary sweet stuff like ice cream!!! hope this helps!!!!!!!
♥ arlyn


ok tomorrow night is my 7th grade dance. its with the 8th grade too. anyway, me and some friends are going and i want to make a good impression on the 8th graders. i would normally wear my straightened and down, but i want it to look different, but cute. my hair is red, down to my boobs, and i have bangs at a little longer than my chin. does anyone have any cute, flirty hair styles that i could do in no longer than a half hour? thanks in advance.

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u can straighten your hair, and on the top layer do some loose curls. do a few curls very loosely and dont just do the at the ends. have someone help you do the back of your head because its never good to burn yourself and its very easy to do that when curling the back of your hair. hope this helps! or u can scrunch your hair with some gel f u dont have a curler :)

♥ arlyn


Does anybody know a site that has a animation maker, its kind-of like a cheap off verizon of psp8 only no downloading included?

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theres www.mytheme.com its kinda cool. u can redesign ur pics with different effects. its totally free. if you have a myspace, you can create layouts and put them on your site, so thats pretty cool. ♥ arlyn




good luck!


Well, im not ugly, But im not the prettiest person in the world.i just feel ugly.How do You be pretty, I mean those girls witht eh pretty eyes and guys are all over. how do they do it? anything is apreciated (link)
smile a lot and maybe wear some lip gloss. a smile is oh so pretty and is always gorgeous. every so often a main makeup focal spot is "in-style" eventually people will start accentuating their cheeks, etc... but a smile is always in and always attractive. a smile will NEVER go out of style. hope this helps! ♥


Well, I wasn't planning on going to this Halloween event, but I am because my boyfriend just asked me. The problem is that I have no costume, and I'm not creative like that. I want to look cute, but not skanky.

Does anybody have any ideas for a 19/F who has short hair and is a little on the heavy side? I'm not wearing anything slutty, and I'd prefer a more creative and unusual idea. It has to be easy to make and come by, and I'd really rather not buy it, because I'm a penniless student.

I'm incredibly nerdy (and so is my boyfriend), so anything that's kind of nerdy is a good thing. (link)
if you dress up as a sheet ghost and use a brightly patterned sheet and wear a sign that says "its laundry day," that might be cute. its classic but has a twist and some added comedy! hope this helps! ♥


Alright, so basically there's this guy who you could say is interested in me; i'm interested in him too. The only bad this is, his mom has made it clear that she'd rather he date someone else than me. I have no idea what i've done wrong. She's constantly encouraging him to find another person to hang out with, call, or whatever. They've already gotten into a fight because she was trash talking me.

I have no idea how to deal with this.
help? (link)
as long as you and the guy are happy together thats all that matters. if hes fighting with his mom about dating you, im thinking he likes you a whole lot. :) follow your heart and dont let his mother influence your relationship. good luck!


if i put my straightner on a higher temperature, will my hair stay straighter for longer? because it straightens fast so im not sure if itll make it straighter longer (link)
it wont do anything for your hair except burn it. there are higher temperatures for people with thicker or curlier hair. the heat has nothing to do with the length of the result. it can just make your hair frizzy, then it will be harder to tame. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


My homecomming is comming up soon and i dont know how to do my hair. I want something simple. If i could do it myself at home that would be good. But i can go get it done too. I have a straightener and a curler at my house. I have longg hair and side bangs if that make a difference.
also pictures would help
thankss (link)
if you normally wear your hair straight, curl it. do loose curls rather than waves or tight curls. this always looks great. if you have wavy or curly hair, straighten it and if you want, put in a couple of curls. good luck! hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


ok well my parents have split and my dad wont takl to me.He said that it would be best if we didn't talk Bu thow am i supost to life without talking to the one other person who gave me life? (link)
ur dad has absolutely no right not to talk to you. you're his child and you should keep in contact. u can tell him that u love your parents equally, and you want your relationship with them to stay strong. remember that none of this is your fault. all tension is between your parents. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


my gf recently broke up with me and i really need someone to tell me some good ways to get my mind off of it. it really hert me cuz i really did love her and i just cant stop thinking about it plz help!!!! (link)
go somewhere quiet and read a book that has absolutely nothing to do with romance. watch tv, go online... there are a lot of things. oh, and dont ask questions about how to get over her, being youre bringing her up.


is crest whitestrips or the rembrant brnad bad for braces? my mom says it will dull the metal and bleach the colored 0-rings on them i dono. (link)
dont whiten your teeth until your braces come off. you will get marks where your brackets are, and they will be EXTREMELY hard to get rid of. if you want to whiten your teeth, wait until after your braces come off. whitenting (with braces on) can dull the metal and bleach the o-rings life your mom said. ♥ arlyn


I've seen ads about this product called Easy Straight and its supposed to make you hair straighter and "frizz free" for 3 months. I was wondering if anyone had tried it or heard anything about it. I have super curly frizzy hair and I'm sick of strightening because its time consuming and is damaging my hair. I also don't want to get my hair chemically relaxed.

Does it work at ALL? (link)
ive never done it, but straightening your hair can create more frizz, fry your hair and do a lot of damage. if you want, put a dime size bit of hand lotion (yes hand lotion!) or conditioner in one hand. rub your palms together and wipe one off. rub them together again and then smooth over hair. dont apply too much! hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


so im a 15/m and im goin into sophmore year and i havent made out with a girl yet ive gotten close so many times but someone has always come over that she's friends with and messed everything up and ive tried other times and just kind of avoided it what should i do to get over the fear of doing it once so its not a big deal anymore?

thanks in advance (link)
dont be embarrassed if your friends make fun of you. have any of them stayed with the girl they first made out with? probably not. its not a big deal. if it bothers you that much, just stop looking to get kissed. it will happen at exactly the right time. it will be really special compared to theirs. if you want to hook up, have a party with some friends and girls that you would want. play spin the bottle. if they say its a little kid game, tell them "thats why its fun!" but dont seem to eager. believe in urself. when ur kissing or about to do it, dont start thinking "what if im a bad kisser? what if i do it wrong?" theres no wrong way to kiss. just follow ur instinct and do what feels right. hope this helps1 ♥ arlyn


so my bf gave me a hickey and my aprents dont know were dating and my parents saw but didnt freak out but my boyfriend actually did

saying i shouldnt have done it. it got you in trouble and i told him it didnt

does anyone have any other way to tell my boyfriend its ok without him freaking out??

-thanks (link)
tell him that you can cover it up with makeup and you can actually get rid of it really easily. tell him that its ok, but pick a place where it wont be seen... if you want to get rid of it, try this link: http://wikiehow.com/Remove-a-Hickey hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


i am 13 and i pretty much have alota zits, but only on my forhead. i wash my face 2 time every day AND use acne medication. its working well, but i really want something to get rid of them FAST or some kinda cover-up that will hide them reallly good. any suggestions? (link)
if you want a coverup, try a neutrogena product. their cosmetics wont clog your pores or create more acne. set up an appointment with a dermatologist. they may prescribe you with some acne medication. stuff that you can get without a prescription may not be working. be really gentle with your skin. dont scrub. this can create more acne. you can pop or spread your acne this way. also, if you use more than the prescribed or recommended amount this can create more problems. some people think that this will cure the problem faster, but it takes time to heal. the meds from the dermatologist can take weeks for results to show, but do it ritually and your face will eventually have perfectly clear skin! hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


i bought these jeans from urban behavior yesterday and they are the ones with like the abercrombie sign on the back pockets.. okay well i really like the jeans but the problem is that when i wear them, the butt is like loose so it makes my butt look flat? what should i do? because the rest of the jeans fit me, its just that i dont have like a butt to fit in the jeans... so if i like washed them and then put it in the dryer do you think that owuld work??? if not, what should i do?! cause i relaly like these jeans (link)
dont try to shrink them in the dryer. it will just wear out the fabric and make it prone to tearing. take the jeans to the tailor and have them fix it. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


Hi I was at a was at a sleepover and my friends dared me to cut my bangs,and i think they look horrible! my mom and my aunt say they look so cute, that is just because i had them when i was like 7 so can you give me any advice on how to make them look better?If you do....thanks a lot!! (link)
ggo to a hairstylist, and if they cant do anything about it, get some clips or something to pull them aside and out of ur face. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn




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