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should i forgive him? what should i do?
so this guy crashed my bat mitzvah and he thinks i wanted him there (thats why he came). We dated about 8 months ago. He told me multiple times throughout the past month that he really likes me, but he leaves my bff comments on her myspace telling her thats shes pretty, smart, blah, blah, blah. My bat mitzvah was last weekend and he showed up and it was a black tie affair and stuff so all the seating had been done and no one can get a seat unless they were invited. Security took him out and he when he got home he started posting myspace bulletins about me saying i was a whore and stuff like that. he says that if anyone owes an apology, i owe him one for the security. About 5 hours before my bat mitzvah service (before the party) he promised me that he wouldnt crash it. As you can see, he lied. Its been about a week since it happened but im still mad at him for what he did. Hes always trying to talk to me or kiss me to "try and make up for what he did wrong." What should I do? at school we all have advisors (theyre actually teachers but theyre assigned to four students and we all meet every week). i told my advisor about the incident and she is not only my advisor, she's HIS teacher. the school knows about what happened and everything and theyve talked to him. He still doesnt think he did anything wrong and he wants me to have a relationship with him... I like someone else, but hes insisted that i Cant like the someone else. hes a freshman in high school and im in 8th grade. were both 14, but im older than him. i have a myspace so if u want it just give me urs and ill add u... so if u could help me out either there or on advicenators, that would be amazing!! do you think i should forgive him?
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eh jake is just a loser.
<3 jessica
but i love you anyways. lmao <3
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Well it seems like he wants you back to me. he is trying to make you jealous by hitting on your best friend, which is wrong on so ma ny levels. And by crashing your bat mitzvah he shows that he didn't care about your feelings and your big day at all. My suggestion: Forget about him. He is obviously a loser and isn't worth your time. You can forgive him and tell him what he did was wrong but you will forgive him for it if he apologises, but after that, stay away from him. seems like to me, he is nothing but trouble. Best of luck and if you need any advice note my inbox.
~Sberah
PS:) I have myspace too so if you want note my inbox with the link to yours and I'll add you.
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