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my name is ashley! i don't really have anything to say except that i love volleyball...oh and my favorite color is pink!!! i can answer any of your questions! i will help you the best i can!
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Member Since: January 2, 2005
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Last Update: January 23, 2005
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I work at a restaurant and there are some really nice guys there that are about 20-25 years old. a lot of them have been kinda flirtin with me and i told my mom! my mom said that i'm not dating them! should i obey or not? i'm 17 and I'm a female and she said i should only date 17, 18, or 19 no men over 20! (link)
obey your parents, they will always find out. trust me.


Ok. My freind has a boyfriend and i suport them on that. But i feel like i am being used. like.. my friends boyfriend (who is my good friend) calls me and then we call her. and I ask if she is there. and when i have to hang up they still talk. But my friend didn`t tell her mom she had a boyfriend and so i always ask if she is there and they talk ..(but i tlak too.) i just feel like they are useing me to talk to eachother. this has been going on for...weeks..idk what to do..please help...i will rate high if ur good. (link)
that is wrong that they are using you. your friend should first of all tell her mom that she has a boyfriend. that way, you won't have to be used. if that doesn't work, talk to your friend about it. if she is a good friend then she'll understand.


im 15 and offered to watch my brothers instead of going out with my friends so my parents can go out. Its now 1:00 AM and they still have not returned. Im annoyed because its not fair that they think they can stay out til all hours of the night while i sat home on a friday night for THEM. If they were planning on staying out this late they should have told me. Honestly i have no idea what their out doing putzing around about..Am i wrong for being mad? How should i express how im annoyed at them? i understan that they are adults and a child has no right to yell and act like their parent..but im just annoyed with the lack of consideration i guess (link)
try talking to your parents about it. tell them that you should have your rights also. remember, conversation not confrontation!


i think my best friend and i are slowly becoming a person you just say hi to in the hallways. she only hangs out with her other friends and is dumping me for them all the time. what should i do?
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i have a friend like that. we used to be best friends, but now she only hangs out with these other girls. i have realized that she is not a very good friend and we are just acquaintences (sp?) if you really want to be friends with this girl then talk to her. if she doesn't listen then she isn't worth the trouble. hope i helped!


My best friend Olivia invited me and this girl Whitney, her 2 best friends, to go get a manicure with her for her birthday. The only problem is that we're going on the 23rd, and it's the 14th, so i want to stop biting my nails but i don't know how-------any suggestions???????
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!$$$babiid$$$$$$ (link)
i bite my nails alot too. i use this bite no more nail stuff. it just looks like regular nail polish and its clear.


i really need help!!! i cant seem to stay organized at school and i have possiable tried every method out there. So does anyone have a suguestion that might work ??? (link)
i use a planner. i can write down all of my subjects and what i have for homework. it really helps.


ok so i have this friend... we were best friends last year and the year before but when school started this year she ditched me for this new girl even though i did nothing! and so now- shes moving in march! and she called me and im the only person that knows and she hasnt even told her new best friend and she told me im still her best friend forever and she just was hanging out with that girl because we are on different teams and she is all alone! and so yeah but then we got back to school and she started ditching me again so i am thinking about just telling her wtf we are not best friends but i dont know wahat to do!
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last year, my best friend (lets call her jane) who i was friends with since the 1st grade ditched me 4 this new girl (rachel)also. rachel even told jane that another one of my best friends told her that i said i didn't like rachel just to try and break me and jane up. me and janes friendship is practically over. we still talk and we sit together at lunch and stuff. rachel and jane are not even aquaintences. jane realized what a hag rachel was and so they are not friends anymore. have you talked to your friend about it? if you have and she just won't listen then she isn't worth waiting around for.


ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend. (link)
talk to him about it. tell him that you want to accually be treated like his girlfriend.


Ok this is weird but i want to get my ear pierced and my friend has a peircing gun. But my parental unit had a problem with it. But i am 17 i should be able to pierce my own ear. So the question is should i just go pierce it and come home to see what happens or not? (link)
why can't you just go to a local place and have them pierced? that would save alot of conflict


ok so me and my bf have been fighting a lot lately... nothing major but still i dont like the fact that we fight .. do you have any suggestions for me to help us resolve all this ??? (link)
i fight with one of my friends alot also. it helps me to talk to her about it, so that we can resolve our differences. you should try that.
ashley


There is this boy at skool who is really hot, and he has a twin brother, and his brother is going out w/ my friend. I think that he is going out w/ my other friend, but I don't know. I also think that he may like me. He is always smiling at me and when he walks by me he slows down and at luch he is always looking at me, and i know that I don't have food on my face. Do you think he likes me? What happens if he does will my friend be mad at me? I'll rate high. (link)
if this guy is going out with your friend then you should respect that. also you could talk to your friend and see how she would feel if they were to break up, and you make your move. hope i helped!


well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!

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i think you should tell him how you feel. respect is feelings and his relationship with his girlfriend, but if he likes you and you like him then you should go for it!! hope i helped!
ashley


Sorry for the length. Yes, I know that weed is bad for you, but I kind of got pressured into smoking a ganga(sp?) today. It was like a crash burn type of thing, I took two hits, but on both of them I messed up, I sucked in, held it, swallowed but only a little swallow, then blew, so I didn't really get anything. I was wondering, if I had gotten something, what are the chances of getting hurt on the 1st try? Can you die from the first try of weed. I think next week my friends wanted me to try a black and mild (the one's that smell really good) I know it's illegal and all that, I just wanted to know the chances of like dying or passing out, or blacking out on the first try, and only one or two hits. I know this kid at our school who had extesy, and about 30 of something, but he was like forced it or something, and he blacked out and when someone else woke up, the kid (Winston) had no pulse and had died from OD. Can you OD off of only no more than 3 hits of weed? What are some consequences besides death, or like consequences and how long it takes for those consequences to come in effect. I know it's a dumb question, and I could probably google it or something, but I'd rather ask it here. Thanks. (link)
don't do it again! any kind of drug is very bad for you. you could very easily get hurt.


i straighten my hair in sections and like the bottom layer is always nice and straight but the very very top layer always turns out frizzy looking. its straight but i always have little pieces of hair sticking out or it just looks frizzy. how come? is there anything i can do to make it look non frizzy? ive used some frizz free stuff and it didnt work! (link)
i staighten my hair all the time so i know what you are going through. your straightener could be the problem. you could try several different gels and stuff to flatten it, or just buy a new straightener.


O.K. My problem all started when someone was prank calling my house. I then found out it was one of my best friends. I got mad at her twice. Once for doing. Twice for lieing about it. I'm in junior high and it's so hard for me. Then, my closest best friend took up for her. Then, my other close best friend took up for her too. I don't know what to do. I live in Deer Park and I'm illegally going to Laporte Junior High. My close best friend is threatening to kick my butt and I don't know what to do. Should I switch to my legal school or continue illegally going to a school where EVERYONE hates me. I rate 5's for anyone who can really make a difference in my life! THNX TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! XOXO

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~KaYlA

Sorry So Long But I need Help ASAP (link)
that is a tough one, i have been through just what you are going through. i always try to ask myself if i over reacted or not. if you did then they have a reason to stick up for your other friend. you have the right to get mad at your friend though...especially for lying to you. you could try talking to your friends about it. tell them that your sorry for getting mad and that she shouldn't have lied to you. also tell her that you will forgive her and ask for her forgivness also. hope i helped!




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