hey!my name is taryn and im here to help you with any of your problems!my friends are always tellin me i'm a great listener and advice giver so i thought i wouldn't just give them the privelage!hee hee!well hope you like my advice!lyf!
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There is this guy I like at camp and popular opinion thinks he likes me too,but I've gotten mixed feelings from him lately. Last year, he was dancing with some other girl and this year he locked arms with her. But then again a lot of girls like him and he likes the attention...he hugs them and stuff...I don't know what to think I need a second opinion. (link)
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if he flirts with you,holds open doors, and gives you gifts,etc., he probably likes you. if hes more intense with you then the other girls then that also means he prolly likes you. i had a situation like this with a guy who was kinda huggy with other girls but it was only cuz he liked to flirt.i could tell he did actually like me tho cuz he payed more attention to me.
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hey im a 14/f and i wanna knoe if this guy is into me he always smiles , winks , holds doors , laughs , jokes , stares i think he likes me but im no expert i realli like him but not in an obsessive way should i tell him how i feel ? please help me i realli need some advie cuz im gunna see him this weekend and i need to knoe if i should tell him or not . but the thing is is taht i think if i dont let him knoe he wont knoe i like him alot and hell move on to another girl (link)
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from wut you say it sounds like this guy likes you. you should tell him how you feel cuz your right, if he thinks your not interested, hell find a girl who is.
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Hey everyone! I I have this boyfriend, and he's cool, but I think we would make better friends than b/f g/f. But when I told him I want to just be friends, he ignored me and now he still thinks we are going out. No matter how many times I tell him, he won't accept it. Now he started to ask me to do inappropriate things and he won't accept no for and answer. How can I make him accept my decisons?? (link)
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tell it to him like it is, you-just-wanna-be-friends.if he doesn't except it make sure he hears you and understands.yell if you hav to and stop being miss nice girl,try to do it in front fo eyewitnesses so he can't deny it anymore.tell him your sre but you've been trying to be nice about it but he wouldn't listen. if he ignores you, you ignore him. if he asks you to go out on a date, tell him you hav plans with another guy or that you already told him its over.
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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad? (link)
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write your mom and dad a note a bout this dilemma. tell them you couldn't tell them in person because you were afraid of their reaction and you still want their approval. tell them you don't kno who the father is and thats what is making it even harder to tell them to there faces
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I did ask a question earlier, and i got some great advice, but i still dont know how to talk to this girl, because i am moving in about a week and if nothing happens i will probably never talk to her again. anyways, i am a guy, 15 years old, and supposedly i am this really nice guy, and i am not like most of the other guys, not like my friends that much either, but i just try to be really nice to everyone and be really helpful and caring and all that, and for this one girl, i know that i will do anything at all for her, but i dont think she knows that - and that is who i am. the thing is, is that, there is this girl that is really really nice and fun and exciting, like no one else i have ever met or known, and i really like her, and admire her and look up to her and all that because of who she is, she isn't like the other girls that much either, and she doesn't like the dating idea, so that doesn't work well because i can't ask her out, and i asked her to maybe go on a walk with me, (i sent her a letter and called her on the phone), and i dont really think she has it in for me or whatever, and i just really want to tell her how i feel, i just want to let her know that i care about her and that she is very special to me, and all that, but i want to say it face to face to her, because i think it means more that way. so far i have called her and we talked a bit and i think she liked it, i think it was a fun conversation, but it really didn't mean anything, just a fun little chat, and at the end of it i told her to get back to me about going on a walk or something, but she just said okay and sounded like she really didn't care, and it has been a week, i have waited to see if she will respond, and she hasn't contacted me at all, and i decided that i'll probably just go to her house a couple days before i move and talk to her that way and tell her how i feel, but i was just wondering if i could get some advice to see if there are any other ways or what i could do, thanks a lot to anyone who gives me any advice! (link)
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write her a poem or a song about how deeply you feel for her.give her time to think about what you said in euther one. try talking to her friends about how much you like her and ask them if you'd ever have a chance with her.
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I had a b/f for 9 months. We broke up b/c he wanted to go to drugs and I didn't want to be with someone like that. I told him at the beginning of our relationship if he wanted to do drugs I'm not stopping him but he won't be with me. So he chose drugs...week later he wants me back. I finally stood up for something I believe in, and I know I won't take him back...but what do I say to him? (link)
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tell him you told him once and you ment it. if he choses something as stupid as drugs over you, he must not really love you.
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Ok, so I like this guy and I wanna tell my mom, but I don't know how she's gonna react, because she overreacts to everything. One time I told her I liked a guy and she grounded me cuz she thought I was going out with him! If I tell her, Im afraid she'll do the same thing again, but I really like this guy and if I don't tell her, there's no way I'll ever be able to date him without her finding out!!! (link)
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you dont have to talk to her personally. try writing her a note and passing it under her door while she's watching tv,reading,cleaning, or changing.tell her that you wrote her anote instead of talkin to her personally cuz you were afraid she would over react and you want her to understand exactly what you sayin.say that theres this guy you LIKE,your not dating its just a secret admirer type thing that you havn't actually said anything about. a crush to be clearer. tell her you wanted her to know so you could get permission from her when anything happened and you just wanted her to know about it before hand so shes warned. tell her about the guy and why you like him and how you really hope he likes you too.this ill soften her up and she'll know that you guys aren't already going out.
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i like this one guy a lot but he doesnt know about it and im friends with most of his friends and hes friends with most of my friends and of course were pretty good friends and i dont know how to tell him that i like him because im afraid he will take it the wrong way and wont want to be friends with me anymore and ive kept this a secret for about a year and i havent really gone out with a lot of people and hes only gone out with 1 person which was my friend.. i mean i want him to know that i like him but then again i dont what should i do?
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hun, if you dont go up to bat, somebody else will.you shoudn't really tell it to his face but an easy way is to go to a friends house and three way him or just call him two way. tell your friend to ask him if he likes you and act as if your not there, if he says 'yes' or 'why?' then she should say 'oh, cuz she reeeaaally likes you a lot.' and if he says 'no' he doesnt like you your friend should say she was just askin. but thats only if its a definate no. if he says he likes you as a friend, that usually means a guy likes you he just doesnt wanna say anything if you don't like him unless he says it as if hes annoyed by the question.
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ok im about 5' and i weigh 106 lbs and my friends all say im skinny but i dont seem to think im skinny and i know that muscle weighs more then fat and im a gymnast and a softball player but i still think im gaining weight and i guess i eat ok.. but im still worried that im becoming fat.. am i fat? (link)
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you are not fat. believe me, if your 5' and you weigh 106 lbs, your normal.its normal to have problems with your body, its part of life. but if you wanna stay that size, don't over do it with fast food and junk. you can still eat it, but don't eat this stuff for every meal you have.
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ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused (link)
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don't suffacate her, write her a poem or a song about how deeply you feel about her and give her time to think about it. try talking to her friends about how much you really like her and ask them what is holding you back from a b-friend/g-friend relationship.the roses are really nice and are probably giving you an extra few points, but make sure you don't over do it.if you do end up in a relationship make sure that if you break up, you don't act bitter towards her because then she'll think she that you two should have never hooked up.
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