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Boyfriend problems
Hey everyone! I I have this boyfriend, and he's cool, but I think we would make better friends than b/f g/f. But when I told him I want to just be friends, he ignored me and now he still thinks we are going out. No matter how many times I tell him, he won't accept it. Now he started to ask me to do inappropriate things and he won't accept no for and answer. How can I make him accept my decisons??
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tell it to him like it is, you-just-wanna-be-friends.if he doesn't except it make sure he hears you and understands.yell if you hav to and stop being miss nice girl,try to do it in front fo eyewitnesses so he can't deny it anymore.tell him your sre but you've been trying to be nice about it but he wouldn't listen. if he ignores you, you ignore him. if he asks you to go out on a date, tell him you hav plans with another guy or that you already told him its over.
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Then you MAKE him take "no" for an answer. If he's that clueless, then he needs a dose of reality. Look him in the eyes and say, "We're NOT going out. We are NOT a couple. Stop it, before you ruin our friendship." That way, there's nothing vague, nothing he can misconstrue, and if he ignores you again, then it is in your best interest to walk away.
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You're going to have to put your foot down. If he doesn't accept no for an answer to your relationship, then you're going to have to down right demand that your relatiohsnip come to an end. You have control over your life, not him. I would try to pull him to the side and tell him seriously that your relationship is over. You may have to scream it, throw a fit, or SOMETHING that makes him think "ok, there's no way that we're going out anymore." Speak up, and if he doesn't listen then I guess he's not a very good friend either. It sounds like this guy is really stubborn. If worst comes to worst, try to give him the silent treatment for a while. That always works.
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