well..i sent the pictures..but only because he said hed be mad if i didnt. he really pressured me. but they were only pictures of my butt in jeans and a low cut cami picture. but anyways..i think he has a girlfriend who loves in new york. they WERE going out before [i didnt know until my friend told me two days ago] but now i think there togethor again..she writes on his wall "I LOVE YOU TOO!
thats exactly what happened to me. the guyu i was talking about has a girlfriend now. its going to be hard but what i would do is i would just leave him alone. hes not worth your time. just slowly not talk to him anymore. hes just going to keep using you for pictures. thats what this kid is doing to me. and now we arent even talking. hes not worth your time anymore. im sorry for the pain he has caused you because i know what its like. well good luck. keep me posted.
-Tamera
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16/f please please read this and help me..
well, you may have seen many posts about this situation i keep mentioning/bringing up. but here is something a bit different. if you havent already read about this, i met this guy at my friends house, hes chill. but hes kind of an asshole who only wants sexual things from me.
anyways, we talk on facebook and lately hes been asking almost every week for me to send him a picture. first, he wanted one of my chest. i never sent it. then he wanted one of my thong. so i did send a picture of my thong just by itself on the floor, it didnt matter. then last night i saw he sent me a text. it said hey are we still gonna do those sexual things still? and i responded, yeahh haha why do you ask? and he said, i dont know lol so send me a pic of you in your panties.
..hes asked me multiple times for this. hes really pressuring me..i feel like i cant say no because then he wont talk to me anymore or want to do those things with me and he'll find some easy slut who will. i know im being stupid but i dont wanna lose him like that..but i just cant say no..i dont want to send one though. 1.) he will most definitly show it off to his friends.
i know this because when he was texting me last night, he said he was chillin with people. and i said, so you ask me to send a pic while your with people..? and he goes, haha no im leaving now but send a pic i want it bad
..i feel so slutty talking to him. i cant believe i even say half of the things i say to him. he pretty much asks if he can play with me and asked me to give him a lap dance and moan and all of this other perverted shit like that and i said yeah i would. i dont know why im being so stupid. i do somehow still want him though..but i dont want to send a picture. people could find out..even if its just of me wearing a thong, only down there though. but still..
:/
well first off i know what your going through because the exact same thing is happening to me now. if i were you dont send him the pictures. if anything make him send the pictures. make him work for it. i know he may be very tempting but just say no. hell probly say i might send one if you send one and all this other crap. but he wont. the guy thats doing this thing to me is the exact same way. i know you dont want to loose him because im the exact same way because i love this kid that wants me to send pictures. (and i was stupid and sent them). he only wants me for sexual shit. but becareful. dont let him think your essay and dont let him know he can get any thing out of you. please keep me updated:)
good luck i hope you are ok.
-Tamera
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Okay so this is kind of an akward question
But are vaginas supposed to be wet?
I really want my boyfriend to finger me
But I don't know if something wrong or not.
dont worry about an akward question. being wet is very natural and is good. it shows that your turned on. your boyfriend can finger you but make sure his hands are clean and that you go to the restroom after words because if you dont then you can get a very painful infection. but dont worry about him fingering you. its not bad. just make sure you are safe about it. have fun :)
any other questions just let me know. :)
-Tamera.
P.s dont be afraid to let him finger you :)
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this guy who likes me is kinda cute but he's gay and he is a bisexual he wears women clothes but he dosen't think i know what he does he just asked me out on a date what should i do and say i am 20 and a female
well, what i would do is tell him you know how he dresses. talk to him and tell him you dont know what to do. do you realy like this guy. and some bisexuals arent that bad boyfriends. and if you do decide to go out with him tell him that you would like him not to dress like a women.
good luck hope i have been a help.
-Tamera.
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I want to give my bf a bj and am wondering if there are any signs hes gonna cum so ill be ready for it thx
well, for me theres realy no sign before he cums. you should ask him to tell you when hes about to cum, you may feel his penis get a little harder but besides that theres no other signs. good luck. im sorry if i wasnt that much of a help. :)
any other questions just let me know.
-Tamera
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Ok so I'm 15/f/virgin.
I've been fingered but lately my you know whattt has been itching and burning and there's like little bumps everywhere. Idk if it's from shaving or not? So I was wondering if I can get an STD or infection from my bf fingering me? Thanks
well when your boyfriend was fingering he could have had some kind of virus on his fingers. you could just be having razor burn. but my sigestion to you is to talk to your mom. i know it will be hard but just say you have somekind of rash and you realy need to get it checked out. the burning could be from a urinary track infection.
hope everything works out for you. any other questions just let me know.
-Tamera
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So i lost my virginity almost a year ago it was extremly painful and my guy barly got his penis in because it was too painful for me. The second time i had sex with him it hurt again really badly i was starting to get frustrated then i had sex a couple weeks ago with a differn't guy and it was also extremly painful now i do not have any std's and i do not have a urinary infectionn or anything like that i already got that checked out but i want to know why it is so incredibly painful when i have sex i want to be able to have good sex is it because i don't trust my partners and i'm worried and afraid does it cause me to be uncomfortable i just need some advice im 17 and Female
well your first 3 or 4 times are going to hurt. the nervs arent going to cause the pain it could be making you unconftable. just give it a few more trys and the pain will turn to pleasure :) good luck and hope you have fun. if you have any other problems just message me:)
-Tamera
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im almost 15 and ive been with my bf for almost 6 months and we make out and that but he doenst do much else the other day we were making out and i went to undo his pants but he stopped me i then asked him if i could see his penis and he said its too small i told him i love him and it doesnt matter hes still nervous about me seeing his penis
i dont want to push him what can i do?
well its happened to me before. guys are usualy nervous about showing off their parts. i would say just talk to him about it and if that doesnt work say im not going to rush you because i love you. ill wait until your ready.
most guys who think they are small usualy are bigger. but just let him know how you feel.
my question is, is he a virgin? because for most virgins they are nervous.
hope you guys work things out. :)
-tamera
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I'm 14 and don't know If itsbok to masterbate?
I want to but I don't know if it's wrong
its not wrong for someone to masterbate because everyone does it. guys do it all the time. you shouldnt feel bad for doing it because its a natural instinct. you are trying to get pleasure in anyway you can. so go ahead and do it and dont feel bad about it:)
-Tamera
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ok so im only 15/ female in April i will be 16 but Dec 26th me and my boyfriend had sex and we used a condom but he ended up lopsing it anyways we found it and what not but now im 2 weeks late for my period and we starting to freak out right about now especially since hes a year younger than me now should i go to the doctor or will a home test tell me the same thing i dont know what to do please help im so confused and i cant talk to my parents..
what you need to do is wait like another week and you should get a home test and if it says you are pregnent then make an appointment with your doctor to make sure the test is right.
-Tamera
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Sorry, I dont know if this is in the right category. Is masturbation bad if you are a Christian?
masturbation isnt unusual and alot of people do it. its not a sin. you have to get pleasure any way you can. you shouldnt be inberrest about it.
its not a sin. because guys have to do it or they will get an infection down there. lol. :)
so dont feel bad about yourself.
-Tamera
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Hello this may be a little bit of a weird question.
But during sex when a girl is on top is she meant to move her whole body or just her pelvis area?
And also does she move up and down towards the ceiling and floor or slide up and down his body??
I'm not a virgin but I've never really been good on top because i dont know what im doing.
Can anyone please help me.
well usualy people move their pelvis but some guys get a kick out of the whole body. you also can do both when your on top. you can go up and down twards the ceiling and floor or slide up and down his body. which ever one is more confertable for you. :)
-Tamera.
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so say that ur parent wanted youto get checked out to see if you had sex. i hear that they cant tell and such. but i want to know if they really could or not i havnt had sex but, if i have masturbated with my fingers wouldnt tht still break stuff w.e or not and wit tampons like i tryed using them a couple of times. and say that you tried having sex but just the tip of the penis went inside you could they still see that???
the doctor cant legaly tell your parents if you have had sex you have to ask your doctor not to and they wont. and they dont to the test anymore to see if your a virgin because it is a risk of poping your cherry. they only do a check up if your not a virgin any more.
-Tamera.
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im 15 yr old girl my bf and i went to have sex and he couldnt get his penis in it hurt a lot so we stopped we tried again and he same thing happened am i really tight his penis isnt real big
im a bit nervous to try again because it hurts what can we do?
well your first time always hurts. and it will stop hurting after like the 3rd time. and your realy tight because youve never had sex it doesnt matter how big or small he is. you can continue trying if you want. it will take him a little bit to put it in but after about 3 mins it feels realy good. :)
-Tamera
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Hi im 17/f. I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I forgot to take my birth control for two days when we did it. I have no appetite, really bad headache, and whenever i eat i get sick to my stomach. Could i be pregnant???
well, depending on how long ago you had sex would determin if you can take a pregnancy test. and it also determains if your boyfriend pulled out in time. all the things your going through could just be paranoya because you know you forgot your birthcontrol and because your boyfriend didnt wear a condom. Write back and ill try and help you as much as i can. :)
-tamera.
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15/f. I had been talking to the one guy C, but before I was talking to M. C goes to another school, M goes to my school. After we came back from christmas break I heard another girl i didn't like liked M, & had said if I tried to come between her & M she'd be so pissed or something like that. So I started talking M again. But I realized he was really really into me, not the same way I was. The C found out I was talking to M & we stopped talking. But I wanted to be with C, so I kept making up excuses for M to stop talking to me.
The first time me and M stopped talking was because he never had time for me like with football, and friends, drinking, and smoking, things im not into, and the second time it was the same story. While C is the type of boy thats plays to many games, & talks to other girls.
Well now I'm talking to C. And M & that girl from the beginning are going out now.
I feel like i've made the wrong decision, any adive?
If you think I have how do you think I can make it right with M again?
well it all depends on how you feel for M. do you wish you still talked to him? and if you dont then you made a good decition. if your more into C then talk to him. even if hes not into all the things you are. its better to have a relationship with someone who is their own person. guys are very confusing but if you stop and think about it then im sure youll decide who you want to be with.
write back:) and ill see what else i can help you with.
-Tamera.
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Ok so I might be going to the movies with tis guy I really like
All my friends say he likes me
I denie it. But KINDA think the same thing
Im kinda on the chub side & I think Im unattractive
But thats off topic;
In case he DOES like me
Im afriad he might kiss me
I want to kiss him
But first kiss = I have KNOW idea what to do
How to move my lips
Just. Im clueless with the WHOLE thing
Help?
Links to websites and bideos would be LOVED
you should never put yourself down. even if your not beautiful in your own eyes you still can be beautiful in someone elses. i do it all the time and some major problems have happend because i put my self down. but the first kiss thing. if you do go to the movies with this kid try not to show him that your nervous. just keep your cool to the best you can, and dont kiss him let him make the move on you. and your first kiss is always interesting. just let him do most of the work and once you think you have the hang of it just try to do what he was doing. and hopefuly it will come natural. :)
-tamera.
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my boyfriend and i are about to have sex for the second time like tomorrow maybe. and were always going to use protection. but im not on birth control cuz my mom wont put me on it yet. he has these trojan-enz spermicidal lubricant condoms right, and its a one size fits all. what are the chances of the condom breaking of there is any? i mean i know theres always a chance there could be, but im just worried about that.
i know its hard not to worry about it. its happened to me. if it comes to it then just ask someone to take you to the health department if your mom wont take you. they cant tell your mother about you going there because of the patient doctor law. i know it seems sneaky but what its better then taking the chance of getting pregenet. or your other choice is to talk to your mom about it. say something like mom im having sex and i realy want birth control because i dont want to get pregnent. i know to you i might be to young but its my decition, wether its a good one or not. i have to make my own mistakes and my own memories. and im not trying to be sarcastic or get smart but i dont know how else to put it into perspective for you.
its going to be ocward for you i know. it almost always is. and if you dont want to say it to her face then write a note to her. i know it sounds korney but hey you have to do what you have to do.
-tamera.
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My boyfriend and I really want to see eachother more because we go to different schools, but my parents are being really annoying about it. They know I have a boyfriend because they have hinted that they know, and I think that it only made it worse. Normally, I'm not allowed to be at a guy's house or a guy at my house. But now, it seems like they are making a big deal about us even trying to hang out alone at a public place. I think that they think that we will sneak off and go to his house. And obviously I get that they are afraid of pregnancy or me getting hurt, but it just seems like I'm getting a little old for this. I'm 16. Lately I've been pretending to hang out with groups of friends but I actually don't hang out with them, I just sneak off. My parents are getting smart about it though because now they want to see who I am with. And my friends are never available and they are bad at making plans, so it's just getting increasingly frustrating. My parents can not be convinced against their beliefs. So what can I do?
hey my name is tamera, i think you should try talking to them.
just be like look, you know i have a boyfriend and usualy you wouldnt mind that i hang out with guys. you should trust me im your daughter and you realy dont have a reason to not trust me. i realy like him and its hard because i almost never get to see him. im 16 and i know its hard for you to give me a little bit of freedom but you have to learn how to trust me.
- thats what i would say. or something like that. :)
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