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Location: Virginia
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: November 15, 2007
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Hey there. Um ... I can't take a test until next week to see if i'm pregnant or not, but i'm a little anxious. What are some signs you should watch for if you are in fact, pregnant. Some things I've experienced in the last week is not having any energy, very sore boobs, body aches, stomach has been bothering me, and i'm just very ... tender. Also, my boyfriend and me had sex last night, and after my lower back and lower stomach pained. Advice please! (link)
umm i think if you get like nauseated however u spell it lol.. like sick.. when you feel bloated sometimes?.. umm yahh i dont reallie know of any other signs haha sorry i'm only 13 =P


Hi!
Im the on e who has a problem about a mom paying $5.00 per less than 4 hours.
Im thinking everybody who answer my question really help, so thanks to every single one of you.
But what if im only 14, maybe she think that im only 14 that's why she need me to pay less than.
What should I do help. (link)
well like i said, tell her you really need the money because your in need of it right now so ask her if she could pay you a little extra.. its not rude at at all-- n if that doesnt work then i'd just keep babysitting.. because to tell ya the truth 5 dollars isnt that much but i guess its beter than getting nothing right?


i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o (link)
uhm sorry but i dont think theres a way you could get an abortion without your parents knowing.. your gonna have to tell them--even if there was a way, the right thing to do would be to tell them no matter how mad they'd get!!


I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him? (link)
nooo way lol.. not unless you wanna take hte chances of being played! it sounds like you guys are "together" but not really going out.. i dunno but you should probably just keep it like this for now!


okay, my best guy friend has this gf, theyve been goin out on and off for like almost 2 years now....me and her have ALWAYS been sooo kool with eachother, like i usta hhellaa like her n stuff...but they like ALWAYS fight and she could be tha biggest bitch to him...ive never said anything to her about it like stuck up for my best guy friend cause his gf was being a bitch to him...so ive had all this anger built up inside of me against her cause she can be so rude to him...so neway acouple nights ago me and my best [girl] friend got drunk and my other best guy friend was there...and they were fighting on tha phone so i got on tha phone and said with some aditute..listen do u even know how MUCH he LOVES u..i sware he would like die for u...and i said allllllllllllll this good stuff but with some aditute cause she was pissing me off..then she got back on tha phone with him and she kept argueing, and i was really drunk and i was like yelling out fuck that n stuff..and then she was saying some stuff then i got hella mad and started going off on her....and now we arent kool nemore...he says shes scared but i dunno whut to do. i mean hes like my BROTHER weve been best friends for sooo long he loves her so much and shows it and shes just a plain BITCH to him...whut do i do??/ (link)
well i know what you mean thats happend to me before.. your just gonna have to let him be n when they break up be there for him as agood friend!! theres not much you can do because even though you see the bad in her, he loves her and he just wants to see the perfect side in her- so yah hes not going to see it. you just have to let them be.. n see what happens. mayeb in the future she'll change or something? well good luck n just keep bein a good friend to him--i think he realizes you just wanna be a good friend but he wont listen to you no matter how many times you tell him shes not good for him.


Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!

[I. R a t e. e v e r y o n e] :) (link)
eh he sounds like a player.. any guy who tells you their thinking about getting with their ex gf in the future isnt right for you.. so you should probably just break up with him.. n even if he had never said that i still would be sayin to break up with him cause you don't really like him n since hes been wanting to go out iwth you for so long he'd probably get hurt the more you use him like that you know.. just tell him that you don't think you guys should go out anymore because you just want to be single right now.. hopefully he'll understand that =)


My ex-boyfriend, and I really need 2 talk, and discuss our break up. But I dont know if I should or not cause we broke up on a bad key. And even if i did talk 2 him i wouldnt know what 2 say. Please help, and i'm 13.
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yes you should talk to him.. IM him or call him up n just say.. i really need to talk to you its about our break up... go from there. good luck!


Well, tomorrow night i'm getting my hair done and I'm thinking of dying it brown with some highlights. My hair is blonde right now, and I have fair skin. My natural color is a light brown, so do you think it would look nice on me? If not, what are some good colors for someone with fair skin? Thanks a lot!! I really need the help haha. (link)
yeah that sounds good!! i don't really know waht you look like or anything so i can't relaly tell you but that would be cute!


( 16/m/tx/junior in High School )
here's the deal: i've always been kinda...um...not cool lol or w/e u wanna call it but...i kinda found myself and figured out how to dress and do my hair to where i look my best...and now im starting to get noticed...but by all the wrong people...i mean i know the ugly weird chicks have feelings to but my god...i just want a pretty girl to finally notice me in good ways, because that's NEVER NEVER NEVER been the case, i mean every once in a LONG while there'll be a pretty one, but i'm just talking in general...i'm one of the nice guys, not one of the bad boys or w/e, and i know i'm not deadly good looking but i'm sure of myself...i mean i think i look better than most...that's not arrogance talking that's just confidence...a small amount but anyways...i'm really shy and idk exactly what to do when i'm around realllly good lookin girls...i mean i can talk their heads off online but in person i freeze up and stutter and all that stuff...lol...( jeeze i sure typed alot lol sorry ) any ideas on how NOT to be so shy...and how to get noticed in good ways? instead of ways like "oh god there goes that one kid...what's his name again? he's weird..." idk i'm just tired of the nice guys never winning...it's always the jerks and the bad boy types :(
thanks...
-Kyle
xxxkylestylexxx < my aim
fhc_moonligh7 < my yahoo
fhc_moonligh7@yahoo.com < my msn
vvvguardianvvv@yahoo.com < my email (link)
you should just be yourself- girls would be lucky if they had you but their not taking the time to notice you so.. thats their lost NOT YOURS! your gonna meet new ppl every day.. so just be who you are n dont try as hard.. all the "popular" people have had to be in your position before! but you could try going up to one of the popular guys or something n yah.. if you wanna talk more about it IM me xtoxickisserx


OK well there is a boy that i have gotten to know and he isso cute and so sweet.Well i like him and he told me he likes me but he has a GF!!!!!!well me and him flirt alot andhe knows how i feel about him and it seems like his gf and him dont really get along much cause they began going out the SAME DAY they met i mean come on get to know the person before u get with them but in there case they didn't.well when i c them togeather i feel bad because i REALLY like him and when he's with me it's like we belong togeather but i dunno wut to do because i feel like the OTHER gurl and he likes me but i dont see y he still with his gf.IM CONFUSED!!!!! (link)
hmm well it sounds like you relaly like this guy so id go for it! you did the right thing by talking tohim a lot n flirting ;) but when i first read it i was gonna tell you to just stay friends w/ him bc if he likes you enough he'll dump her.. but then i read the 2nd part n i say GO FOR HIM! =)


okay me and this guy tried going out but we realized we didnt really know each other. but the thing is i really want to get to know him, but i am so scared to call him, so i cant really do that.. i wait for him to sign online but lately , he really hasnt. so now all im doing is waiting for school to start. our homerooms are close, so maybe there? but the problem is we have no classes together for sure. what if i like get scared to talk to him around homeroom or something cause im real shy. idk what to doo plz helpp =[ (link)
well have a friend talk to him n tell him that you like him!! otherwise your just gonna have to talk to him yourself.. just be yourself dont worry about it! if he doesnt like you like that then just try to be friends with him n talk to him all the time n stuff so its normal for you!


hey ya*ll i really like this guy and he really likes me 2 ...but there is a bad thing.. he dosent want any1 to kno and i cant help thinkin its cause im not that pretty...please help me and tell me what to do...SiGnEd~DaNgErOusLy In LoVe~ (link)
ask him! if thats true n he really doesnt want anyone to know just cause he thinks your not pretty than i'd move on n tell him to go get a girl "that is pretty" since hes mr hotstuff lol.. =D


I just got kicked out of my moms house and i am starting off fresh at my dads. He doesnt trust me and neither does my grandma. I can t talk on the phone without them listening or i cant get on the computer with out them reading my stuff. I cant go anywhere without them spying on me. They dont let me go any where to begin with. I have to sneak on the phoen and the com at night. I ask if they can just ftrust me and they are like no. They dont even know me. My grandma thinks buying me things is going to keep me out of trouble and my dad thinks keeping me from the world is going to keep me out of trouble as well. I need some advice . (link)
well prove to them that their wrong! do your homework n get good grades- offer to help them out- do like volunteer work n stuff- get a job- all that stuff.. it'll prove to them that you really are a changed person now and you made a mistake- if you dont want to do that or it doesnt work then i'd just talk to them about it n ask them what you have to do to become a better person in their eyes n gain back their trust!


okay there's this guy at school...his names chris and i've liked him for a year now and last year we had 4 classes together and this year we have 4 classes together again! and we've been talking alot and he's sooo hot! and last friday night at the football game he sat down by me on the hill and i pulled out a pack of gum and he said "you know you wanna give me a piece of that right" and so i pulled out a piece and tried to hand it to him but he wouldn't take it...so i was like "uhhh" lol and he said "my arms are too tired i need you to unwrap it and put on my tongue" and omg he stuck out his tongue!!! i laughed and blushed and did it and then we just talked the rest of the night! does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? HELP PLEASE!!
~*lashes*~ (link)
aw well it sounds like he has a crush on you! you should tell him how you feel!! n flirt with him a lot n everything.. hang out with him n all that good stuff


If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..?? (link)
well if you dont want him to then i wouldnt let him.. its not that your being prude or anything but you should just put your foot down n dont let him do nething you dont want him to do bc you'll regret it later on in life.. guys are just horny n of course they just wanna do shit w/ girls so i guess thats a reason to do it =P haha


does anyone have any excersises to loose upper-arm fat or any to loose weight in your stomach/love handles.. thanks in advance (link)
hmm running.. doing crunches n push-ups n stuff? walking.. thigns like that


im 13, and my best guy friend asked me how far ive been with a guy. ive never been kissed and i told him i have but now im scared he'll be like WHO idk why i lied but i felt bad so what should i do? (link)
i understand.. tell him the guy doesnt go to your school n that you met him on a vacation you went on or something!!


Ok I was basically fwb's with this guy named Rick and We would chat online e-mail eachother everyday and he would talk to me in school and then all of a sudden after a month of telling me he liked me he says he doesnt like me after he wrote me the sweetest e-mail then he says I like you theres just a girl at our school I like and she likes me and ive liked her for about a year now. Then I started crying But I like myself but that night I didnt he made me cry for about 2 hours I mean I was in love with him and today he wrote me an email saying the girl who liked him doesnt anymore what should I do? (link)
even though its goign to be hard-FORGET ABOUT HIM! guys like that are just plain losers n they dont deserve ne girl.. u could have someone so much better so if i were you i'd move on! all hes doing is just trying to get a girl cuz he cant live without being single.. or having a girl to like him.. soo yah my opinion is move on =P


OK, well I've gone out with a guy multiple times, and he broke up with me one time. The last time we broke up we both decided to try to get a little comfortable around eachother..but the thing is..i really love him..and i mean REALLY love him. He is pretty much obsessed with me, it's just the communication when we're face to face that has a little problem. And that's it. But I really love him, and do you think it would be wrong to go out with him another time? Don't say "omg you went out with him a lot don't go out with him anymore" cuz that's not what I want to here. If it's what you're going to say, don't bother saying it. You can IM me on pinkxbaby 09 if you wanna talk about this more too.. (link)
aw yeah i say give it a try! if you guys really love eachother you can get passed it.. but hang out a lot so he feels more n more comfortable around you each time n he knows he can lighten up! ive been in the same situation n i still am.. i just was myself around him n that got him to lighten up.. like i showed him that i wasnt shy so that made him not be as shy too-- i duno its kinda weird lol.. but yah just be who you are n he'll get the point eventually! n i definitely think you 2 should go out!


okay well i like this guy but we dont really know each other very well. i mean we tried going out but it didnt last oviously. so i want to make plans wth him so maybe we could try and get to know each other better? but im really scared to call him. and i wait for him to come online sometiems but he hardly does sinse. so like i think she shud wait for school but we dont have any classes together. what shud i do!! (link)
aw well thats cool.. i'd get to know him better first- n then see cause you might realize that you really don't like him or don't want to get with him or your pretty sure it wont work out again or something like that.. so get to know him better first n then decide.. have a friend talk to him or something! otherwise, your just going to have to gain enough confidence to! theres really nothing for you to lose though because he probably likes you too and is just shy also.. however, even if he ends up not feeling the same way you do, there are PLENTY of other guys out there for you! so just go ahead n let him know!




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