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ok so here i go before i talked about this guy i met at school at registration and he was so kl. well i saw him the other day and all he said was Hi!!!! compared 2 before when he talked for like 1 hour and 30 mins.... im not sure what 2 do? i really want his number and email or something but im so not the type of girl 2 ask a boy for there number! i heard he hangs around in the common room shall i just go there and see if he talks 2 me. someone advice me i will rate u high.thanx in advance. (link)
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How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? Is there any kind of physical movement or gestures? (link)
yeh they smile at you, look at you, talk alot always want to be in the same room as you, make loads of eye contact with you im not sure what else hope i helped.


hey now before you read this and hate me u should hear the story..... we grew up together! are mothers were bestfriends and a kids i was always his girlfriend! we grew up telling eachother that we were going to get married! he was "my boo". when we got older our relationship got seriouse and we had grown apart but still had feelings for eachother that we kept alive. we would kiss and hug and call eachother on the phone! when i truned 16 i met this guy and he took me to my prom! and of course he got jelouse and went and slept with my friend. i was so hurt sghe knew how i felt about him and did it anyway! they ended up going out for 2yrs and there still dateing! i thought our realationship and everything we had was over! i was so sad and depressed! but then like 4 months ago he came and told me that he was still in love with me and he cant stand seeing me and not being able to hold me so we did a few things together!! but nothing sexual! i swear!!! but he is still going out with my friend! i feel so guilty and i wanna tell her but at the same i dont wanna hurt her but i still have deep feeings for him! wat should i do? should i give him up? should i keep sneaking around? or should i tell her the truth and leave them both alone! i know im horrible and you guys are gonna hate me but i feel guilty and im looking for help for the right thing to do! (link)
Ok there is no real answer to this question but i will try and help you. The first thing you must do is leave them and let them be. I know it is hard but if you continue the way you are going you will get more hurt and also be feeling guilty and hurting your friend. So what you could try is tell him if he loves you he needs to explain that to your friend because if you told her she would never be your friend again because she would think you are jealous and want them broken up. The thing with love is you can't control it so basically if he really loves you hes going to come back 2 you in his own time but you need to be strong and walk away now even tell him you have someone and you can't creep round to see him anymore. Its the best thing 2 walk away because you might end up losing them both, plus he will have more respect for you if you do. i mean he knows u know he is going out with your friend. so leave him plus think about it this way if he never comes back 2 u. he was not worth it. Do not tell her the truth she will hate you i promise you it happened kinda 2 me. so hope i helped lv sweetcorn need anymore advice inbox mex


I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it? (link)
The best thing i can advice you 2 do is go to the hospital and get it sprayed off. It will not hurt at all. Its just cold because It will not go away on its own. In fact they spread! because my friend started with one and ended up with 4 on her hand and it was disgusting. Then she got it sprayed off at the hospital and they all went. Its quick and its better than mucking about with creams and things If you don't fancy the hospital you might be able to buy some paste called( Salactol) this is what i am using on a verocca on my foot. Its a paste and its quite good it might be ok for ur wart aswell. Hope i helped love sweetcornx plus i had a wart on my arm and its gone when i went 2 the hospital and sprayed it off. Or try your GP they can do it aswell.


sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok

please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it. (link)
yeh don't worry about it just go for it. I know you probably don't want to but maybe you should after all he is your father. I don't see my father but still Its not wrong not to love your father! You don't even know him. So just go and say hi i mean take it with a pinch of salt. I don't blame you i would not want to go. i would feel ashamed aswell so don't worry. good luck lv sweetcorn


Is there anyway i can find out if my ex still likes me? because I still like him a ton. & hes been IMing me a lot lately & saying like some of our old insiders. Is there anything i should do? & i Dont know if he has a girlfriend because in his profile it said i LOVE U SO & SO. & Now he took it out. So im not sure if they broke up or whatever.
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I am in the same boat as you lol. Well go out with him and see how he acts? Then ask him in convosation if he has a gf but talk about other things first. I am sure he will answer and if he does not then just flirt with him alittle to show him that you like him. I mean tell him he looks nice!! ask him what hes been up 2? Im not sure this is what i did so im trying to tell you what i did. but i am still not sure if my x likes me im waiting for him 2 contact me. Umm if he contacts you alot, asks you out, chats, i am sure he still has feelings for you hope i helped lv sweetcorn x


I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this? (link)
you obviously don't like him 2 have cheated on him!! the one you like is the one you cheated on him with. he should dump you because you did wrong.


is it wrong for a 13M to have been never been kissed. (link)
nope its not wrong at all in fact its better to wait until someone comes along that you really like. Don't laugh but i never kissed until i was 16 haha thats because i never thought about kissing at 13 i was more interested in having fun and doing as you do when your 13. Its not a big deal to kiss so don't worry!! hope you get your kiss soon. lv sweetcornx


heyy =] im trying to find a really cool belt - the ones that are in style now that like have those circle plate things - and i want to try to find it online, and not for a ton of money. does anyone have any idea where i can find one ? ive checked delias, urban outfitters, etc.. and please dont say ask or google =] (link)
im not sure where you live but i bought mine in camden lock and i got it really cheap also its leather which is really good. it was 3 pounds, but im not sure about online sorry.


I had an boyfriend in 6th grade but he left for Canada. But before he left (like 2 months before) We has a huge physical fight. I talk to him like 3 times a week on MSN and i totaly forgive him. I love hime and he loves me and i'm planning to move to where he is. But the problem is, his absece has made me depressed, i love him so much!! And my school grades have dropped significantly.. is there any way to cure that missing ingredient?? (link)

ok so he loves you and you love him thats good. i think the only way you could stop feeling depressed is to think you will see him soon. Think of how you will be moving to where he is. Its not good to let him get to much in the way of your grades and things. Try and work and when you work take your mind off him. Im sorry there is no ingredient but i think what i said could be the only way. Or go out with some other friends so that it helps you to not feel depressed.hope i helped if you need any more advice inbox sweetcornx gd luck


what are some good ways for a thirteen year old to get money.

dont bother saying do chores around the house.my moms a bitch about that, it's like signing a deal with the devil (link)
could you get a saturday job? im not sure what else to suggest! i think thats all you could do sorry i did not help much but i tried
lv sweetcorn


how does weed affect your health? I mean, can you get lung cancer from it? What illnesses can you get if you're a pothead? (link)
it can effect the brain and make you act very stupid also it effects the cells in the brain hope i helped lv sweetcornx


How can i be more affectionate with my bf. He thinks i dont like him as much as I do so yeah what kind of stuff can i do to make him more convinced? (nothing that involves taking off clothes) I RATE REALLY GOOD! So please give good advice. (link)
try kissing him more hugging him and asking him if he wants to go out more. i am not sure what else you could do try explaining to him you like him i think thats the best option.hope i helped lv sweetcorn


okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.

Please help me. :( (link)
Ok don't listen to people they might be jealous and if the people are girls they might want your man! you never know. If you think this is true then you need to ask your bf no one else if he says its true you dump him not him dump you. If he does say he wants to break up find out why he wants 2 otherwise it will always play on your mind why did he break up with me ect. Make sure when u see he is going to dump you dump him first! Don't let anyone who is jealous break you up especially if you are happy i let someone break me up with my bf and i wish i never now. but i realised he let the boy break us up so he never loved me. Hope i helped and btw if he dumps u he is not worth the bother and don't show you miss him or anything hope i helped sweetcorn
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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.

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If i was you i would tell my boyfriend so that he gets what he needs because after all he hurt you so he needs teaching a lession. If your bf does nothing or does not believe you then take it to the police because it is a serious asult people can not go around rapping people. If i was you i would stay away from this boy he seems agressive & a bully he is obviously going to be jealous of your bf so i think your bf needs telling!!! but you must explain to your bf there was nothing you could do to stop him as he was to strong. He obviously said he will do it again if you tell because he is affraid you will tell. I think put a stop to it and tell the police but also your bf needs to know. hope i helped if you need more advice inbox me x


There is this guy that was my best friend last year. We always used to do stuff together and have fun but over the summer he got distant. At the beginning of the school year, it was fine. But then we stopped seeing each other for awhile becuase we weren't in any of the same classes. I always waved to him in the hall and sometimes he waved, others he gave me a dirty look and walked away. He has changed a lot, now he is very selfish and goes for girls by there looks. He is mean to mostly everyone and he changed so much. At the beginning of the year i had a crush on him and he understood but he wouldn't go out with me because i wasn't pretty enough. Now he won't even be my friend anymore. I miss him sooooo much how do i get him back? I'm sick of crying over him. (link)
First thing to do is try and talk to him and ask him whats wrong and is he ok? usally people go like that maybe when they have a family problem and they take it out on others.If he wants to go for girls with looks then let him because looks are not everything. Just text him and say ( hi (Name of boy) i was wondering how you are? if something is wrong i want you 2 know i am hear for you!) maybe he will answer and maybe something is wrong. Usally boys are mean 2 you when they like you! So don't worry i am sure he will be fine and you will be friends again soon.


I gave you a three 'cause that advice you gave me didn't help. I would only give fives to people who helped me, and everyone else who gave me advice did, so I gave them fives and you a three 'cause you only typed one stupid sentence! (link)
well don't ask him out let him ask you out simple! and its short and good. Don't say you will give 5s and don't


I just have a question...what happends when people kiss? People say that when the two like eachother, they just start making out or something. I've never been kissed, so I want to know how to so when the time comes, I'll know how. The guy I like will probably break up with his girlfriend when she moves in July, and from what he says, they kiss a lot. I'm nervous about what will happen when I ask him out after he breaks up with his girlfriend. please help!

I rate fives! (link)
You should wait for him 2 ask you out! you don't rate 5s


How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon! (link)
Ok i suggest you make lots of eye contact and keep looking at him so he knows you like him.Then wait for his 2 kiss you Good luck lv sweetcorn


this might sound really bad but how do you get a boy to break up with his girlfriend. i like this boy a lot and i really think he would like me if he broke up with this other girl. what can i do to make him break and get him with me? please help!!!!! i rate high for anything! (link)
You can do Nothing,First of all it would be mean on the girl secondly it would be mean on him because he will always get at you for breaking them up!!! You will have 2 wait for them 2 break up on their own.Other wise even if he did get with you he might want to go back with her. A boy tryed to break me up with my bf and in the end it worked because of his lies but afterwards i hated him,Although he did get me in the end till i dumped him and he wanted to come back.I know its hard but do Nothing apart from wait of find someone else.Hope i helped lv sweetcorn




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