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i am very religious but i want to masturbate and idk what to do because i know its a sin so i was wondering if its a mortal sin or a venial sin (link)
well put it this way, How many people were smote because they cranked one out?


Is there any make-up of some sort that covers up blushing so nobody can tell if you're embarassed? (link)
A paper bag should work quite nicely..just messin
Try a cover up.
or use a skin tone base.....im a guy so im kinda retarded in this field. but if it makes you feel better blushing is hott.
I bet your hott.


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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.

I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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ok i hear what your saying. I think its like this..
As far as teens, the guys say "i love you" to the girl because it sounds romantic and if he says it enough he thinks he'll get laid. The girl says it because its more romantic and secretly she wants to get laid too. What they are actually experiencing is attraction and raging hormones. My solution to this is to let teenagers just have a huge orgy and let everyone get screwed(safely of course). It is not true love they want. Its sex. I conclude that teens are just horney and only feel an attraction towards the other.
I believe "love" nowadays is a mutual agreement. The girl agrees to give the guy sex and the guy agrees to lose half his stuff....
Love SHOULD last a lifetime...and so should sex with a hot girl but it doesnt.
You dont see true love anymore. Not like it used to be. 2 weeks isnt enough to say your in love. Love is the brutalist of all emotions because until you experience it "truely" you only have disillusions of what you think it is.
As for the divorces, is it true that you have to be limited to one love. Also most ppl now adays just marry for sex and money, but mostly money.
I tried for a comical thing and it turned out serious. all well.
now mmy brain hurts from thinking because i was doing summer reading all day and now this.


me N my bro fight all the time, i mean all the time and every time i try to prevent a fight im the 1 that gets blamed! how can i stop gettin blamed 4 things that were 4 the better? btw im 14 and hes 8 (link)
you have too options:
1) give him the cold shoulder for like 2 or 3 days everytime he tries to fight
or
2) you could kick his a** so bad that he never wants to fight again. Your the older brother. wtf. 6 years difference. Nail him. just once get into a real fight with him. thats when it will stop.
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Woa hold the phone. You never said you were a girl. OK. in that case, are you hott...anyway, Since your soposed to be older and wiser and all that crap, everytime your about to get in a fight just leave. Just walk out. Or you could punch yourself and leave a bruise and show your parents and blame your brother.


hi, im 13M and somtimes my sister gets on my nerves. when ever she gets upset she comes into my house with this (my life is bad so ihave the right to be rude) attitude. and somtimes she can really hert me.and everytime i tell her to stop it or try to get help they or her to stop being a baby and get over it. how do i get my sister to stop treeting me like i have no emiotions.

please hurry, i'll rate super high (link)
dude are you gay??? It sounds like your getting beat up by your sister!! Ok heres what i would say you should do. Sit your sister down and talk to her. Or you could mess with her and say your going to kill yourself just for kick.jk dont do that. one day act like she does to you. Maybe it will wake her up. Make her feel guilty that usually works.
Maybe if you come out of the closet about being gay she would be nice to you.jp
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since some ppl cannot take a joke i will actually answer this question with a psychological outlook, but before i do that let me say this: YOU CANNOT CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE'S ACTIONS OR EMOTIONS, YOU CAN HOWEVER CONTROL YOUR OWN REACTIONS TO IT.
That being said think about this, What exactly is it that she does that makes you feel how your feeling? How does it make you feel? Why do you think she does this? Why do you react the way you do? Why does she react how she does? Just because shes negative towards life(or whatever) do you have to conform? Why dont you avoid her? What do you think makes her force her "rudeness" onto you? IF you were her what would you do? Why dont yuo try and help her through trying times?.... Personally i think that nomatter what someone else does you should always be out of the way nice to them.
Oh and fyi my older brother is worst.
I obviously struck a cord when i said gay. My sincerest appologies if i offended you in any way. I was just joking and ment no harm.


What energy food/drink gives you the most energy and makes you hyper? (link)
all the energy drinks like red bull are bad for you. DONT drink them. Gateorade and powerade are fine though.


15/f okay this is gonna be sorta long, so im sorry... but me and my bff (or exbff) are not talking anymore... the guy i like (he likes me to, just hasnt gotten around to askin me out...) decided to talk to her and get her to stop botherin me... she decided she wanted to talk to me last night and called my house... and my phone curfew is at 10, she called at 12...adn i was still on the phone w/the guy i like... now my mom is really pissed and said that i dont need to be talkin to him anymore!! is this fair?? and if you dont think it is (because i shure as heck dont think so!!) what should i tell her... im the oldest child... and i know i want to tell her to stop treatin me like im only an expiriment... which is exactly how she treats me... umm but what else should i say!! please help!!

will rate high for no dumbass remarks! thanks!! (link)
dont rate me down for this but as a 15yr old guy i think that it is fair. and your being childish and naive. Your going to end up with a lack of respect for yourself and just be another whore out there. and btw you have a lack of sense of humor.


OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks! (link)
That is in everyones school. The only thing you can do is walk. Stray out and be yourself. Be the alternative to a slut/whore/popular kids who drink. If it is that you are the unpopular and everyone fallows you in being an non slut/whore/drinker then guess what you are now popular. It only takes one to say no.


What is your opinion on religion? I've heard about the theory of evolution and it makes a lot of sense.
And right now the theory of god and heaven doesn't seem real. There's no proof.
Can any of you give me your point of view? I want details b/c i'm really troubled with this.
plz help
thanks! (link)
i agree with formetoknowandyounotto


no, not like that, don't jump to conclusions, gosh...

I recently had my "driving privileges" taken away, and want to hang out with a friend that does not have a license yet. My mom works weekends (my only free time), and this particular girl's father is a southern Baptist pastor that I'd prefer not to tangle with. Any ideas?

Thanks. I rate honestly. (link)
hmm let see...blue balls is all i can tell ya.
dont "sneek out" but try to meet her at the movies. tell your parents your going to meet up with a friend and tell her to tell hher parents the same


wat do u guys like in a girl
going fast or slow makes the fist move or you make the first going places or staying close taller shorter eye color hair color and anything else favorite thing and anythign else you want!!!
sign
what a guy wants (link)
whatever is appropriate for the first two.
heres a link for everything else.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=365918


do guys have something against redheads..im jw? (link)
I like red heads.;)


hey!! im not fat but ive got a little blubber on my tummy..well its not flat..and i want to loose it in three weeks before school any ideas how..quick and easy..if i run everyday will it help? (link)
only easy and quick way i know is to get a butchers knife and chop it off.
YOu have to work hard and do a ton of crunches, sit ups, leg ups, and running...running helps


My friend was forced to take a drug test by his mom and it he failed now shes callin his friends and tellin their parents to drug test their kids shes gonna call my dad soon and have my dad test me i want to know if its true that if you dont do marijuana often that it will clear out of your system faster than if you do it constantly? (link)
Whoever said it violates your rights for them to force you to take a drug test. Go jump off a bridge. Your parents have legal rights over protecting you and doing so as they (emphasis on they) see fit. As a minor you have no rights. In america your not free. If you think your free go to a dinner and piss on the cheese cake... anyway. Your screwed. Unless the shit you were smoking is fake which happened to so many ppl in my school its not funny. Its on you and if anyone wanted to see, even later in life that you ever smoked pot then they can assuming u smoked it a few times and they have thousands to spend on your rickity a**. Its better that you get caught now and get over the stupid crap then become an druggie. Unless its too late.


Ok what is a blowjob and a handjob or whatever?? Help signed
totally cluless (link)
a blowjob or giving head is when a girl sucks a guys penis and gives him pleasure with her mouth. handjob is when a girl jerk off a guy.(puts hand on his penis and goes up and down.


Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-
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Agreed.


Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell? (link)
thats the wonderful thing about god. POS. power of suggestion. God is whatever you want him to be. its you beliefs hun. Believe what you want to not what they want you to. OH and no i dont think ppl are bound to go to hell.


Umm plz help here! Can anyone tell me how to make my crush like me? He has a girlfriend!
Please Help! I rate 5's!
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i would recommend duck tape.
jp. uh actually guys hate it when there taken and girls hit on them.


One day I was home alone with my friend and we were playing truth or dare.... she dared me to download a sex video off the internet... i did... she watched with me... we watched like 12...now when i am home alone i have the urge to watch one... idk whats wrong with me!!! Is it just curiousity?
i hope so
13/f
ps. no1 but me and my friend knows about it
and im not telling anyone else (link)
ok first of all if you ever write about watching porn say your 18..jeez thats illigle. no your just horney and curious. its normal.


I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer. (link)
99%of guys dont even know what brand your wearing unless someone else points it out. we dont care. at all. Its not whats on the outside its whats on the inside...Thats right its not the clothes its the body thats in them.:).
Put it this way. if your decent looking within 20 seconds a guy has already mentally undressed you.
-for straight hair and curly hair, it doesnt matter. whatever looks good on the girl. my preferences are to straight but i like curly too.




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