hi, im 13M and somtimes my sister gets on my nerves. when ever she gets upset she comes into my house with this (my life is bad so ihave the right to be rude) attitude. and somtimes she can really hert me.and everytime i tell her to stop it or try to get help they or her to stop being a baby and get over it. how do i get my sister to stop treeting me like i have no emiotions.
kauai2009 answered Friday August 19 2005, 6:16 pm: what i think you should do is sit her down and tell her how it is let her no shes not the only one that has it bad you've had it just as bad that sometimes life gets rough but your always there for her that you wont just ditch her. Let her know that things will get better little brothers and little sisters are always going to get on our nerves.
hope it helped
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emily [ kauai2009's advice column | Ask kauai2009 A Question ]
star-crossed answered Friday August 19 2005, 11:07 am: dude are you gay??? It sounds like your getting beat up by your sister!! Ok heres what i would say you should do. Sit your sister down and talk to her. Or you could mess with her and say your going to kill yourself just for kick.jk dont do that. one day act like she does to you. Maybe it will wake her up. Make her feel guilty that usually works.
Maybe if you come out of the closet about being gay she would be nice to you.jp
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since some ppl cannot take a joke i will actually answer this question with a psychological outlook, but before i do that let me say this: YOU CANNOT CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE'S ACTIONS OR EMOTIONS, YOU CAN HOWEVER CONTROL YOUR OWN REACTIONS TO IT.
That being said think about this, What exactly is it that she does that makes you feel how your feeling? How does it make you feel? Why do you think she does this? Why do you react the way you do? Why does she react how she does? Just because shes negative towards life(or whatever) do you have to conform? Why dont you avoid her? What do you think makes her force her "rudeness" onto you? IF you were her what would you do? Why dont yuo try and help her through trying times?.... Personally i think that nomatter what someone else does you should always be out of the way nice to them.
Oh and fyi my older brother is worst.
I obviously struck a cord when i said gay. My sincerest appologies if i offended you in any way. I was just joking and ment no harm. [ star-crossed's advice column | Ask star-crossed A Question ]
sk8trash answered Friday August 19 2005, 8:05 am: Sowwy its happening to you. you should try to be busy with other things and make sure your around people so that they migt have the chance to protect you. if you want to be i your room, i suggest you lock it. and tell your parents!!! [ sk8trash's advice column | Ask sk8trash A Question ]
xO0TR0PiCALTEAR answered Friday August 19 2005, 7:14 am: the best thing i can say really is to just ignore it. thats how it was with my 18 year old sister when she lived with me still. we fought about every lil thing and she rele hurt my feelings sometimes. but i just ignored it and let her have her lil moments.
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