The whole reason i made this column is for practice. I want to be a child psychologist. What better practice than this?!? I believe everyone deserves a fair, helpful, honest answer. I dont think someone should feel ashamed or less of a person for asking a question.Im pretty open minded. Whatever it is you ask me I will try to help the best i can. AND I CAN PROMISE IF YOU ASK ME A QUESTION... A REAL ONE... ILL ANSWER IT. (MORE THAN LIKELY WITHIN A DAY)
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stars/roses/minty gum/
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poetry/rain/summer/
/beaches/shopping/
pink/ I dont like..
sand/bugs/
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well on my travel team we get to pick a song when we go up to bat and i was wondering what are some good songs and like if anyone knows any songs like if your called stupid like and your getting even or like ha i bet youd never think i got this far stuff like that but also just songs that would be good and they cant be dirty like say curses. please help thanks in advance (link)
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Well i couldnt find softball songs but i did find that there is a baseball cd. You might want to check in on getting that. Or check out some of the songs. Its call Baseballs Greatest Hits Vol. 1
Here are the songs on it...
1. Take Me Out To The Ball Game - Doc & Merle Watson (excerpt)
2. Who's On First? - Abbott & Costello
3. Joltin' Joe DiMaggio - Les Brown & His Orchestra (with Betty Bonney)
4. Say Hey (The Willie Mays Song) - The Treniers
5. I Love Mickey - Mickey Mantle/Teresa Brewer
6. Van Lingle Mungo - Dave Frishberg
7. D-O-D-G-E-R-S Song (Oh Really? No O'Malley) - Danny Kaye
8. Did You See Jackie Robinson Hit That Ball? - Count Basie & His Orchestra
(with Taps Miller)
9. Lou Gehrig's Farewell Speech
10. Move Over Babe (Here Comes Henry) - Bill Slayback
11. Take Me Out To The Ball Game - Bruce Springstone
12. Baseball Game (Love Is Like A) - The Intruders
13. Willie Mickey & The Duke (Talkin' Baseball) - Terry Cashman
14. The Land Of Wrigley - Stormy Weather
15. Dying Cub Fan's Last Request - Steve Goodman
16. The Ball Game - Sister Wynona Carr
17. Baseball Dreams - The Naturals (with Mel Allen)
18. Baseball Card Lover - Rockin' Ritchie Ray
19. Tommy Lasorda Talkin' About Dave Kingman
20. We Are The Champions - Big Blue Wrecking Crew
21. Bobby Thomson's Shot Heard 'Round The World
22. Casey At The Bat - DeWolf Hopper
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My girlfreind wants me to eat her out after we have sex We dont use a condom so when i do it i know im eating my own sperm as well Do you think that people would think im gay (link)
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UMM FOR FUTURE REFRERENCE TO ANYONE....DONT ASK ME SEX QUESTIONS. Sorry,but go ask someone who has sex as a catagorie of questions they answer. I only answer ones on Friendship, Family and style.
Sorry i didnt help :(
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i've had this bump behind my right ear/on the back of my head for a really long time. i'd say a few years. the thing is, it hasn't gotten any bigger, it's hard, but stayed the same size & it's actually pretty small. it doesn't hurt when i touch it er anything. do you think it's something serious?? any ideas on what it could be??
thanks!! (link)
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Dear bumpy,
Have you pierced you ear in that spot befor. My neighbore pierced hers (shes 30) and it left a bump just like the one your describing. I wouldnt worry much about it. I wish i could find the name of the bumb, but i cant. Ill try and talk to my neighbore. If i find the answer ill edit this for ya to know
hope i helped =D
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Hi! i am from India. my baby is 2 yrs old and since me and my husband are both working i have arranged for a babysitter for her for 8-9 hours. my question is : how does baby sitting help her and how does it harm her? i am very confused and require advice on babysitting and what should i look in a good babysitter? (link)
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Dear mommy,
I guess this is more of advice than anything. I think you should make sure the babysitter is helping your child.
--At 2 they should be talking, or at least saying something. Tell your babysitter to work with her/him on speech.
--Incase your baby stops breathing or starts choking ..you might want to see if there CPR certified.
--If your really nervouse try requesting a background check or put up video servalence in your house.
--There are some negetives about babysitting....You might get a babysitter that appears friendly and someone whos going to watch after your child well...But when you leave, your child may get neglected.
--AND offcourse there is always a chance of someone stealing your baby. SO becareful of whos babysitting your child.
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I know this may sound evil, but seriously, how do you get your family member to stop smoking in a sneaky way if they are mad at you for asking all the time and are adamant in their opinions? Are there, like pills I can trick her with and pretend they're vitamins? (link)
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Honestly there is probaley not a way to get them to stop. However when i was younger i use to hide my mom and dads packs of cigerets behind the couch. NOT ALL THE PACKS AT ONCE but one here and there. They never noticed until they cleaned behind the couch. I know your not 5 but its an idea.
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My face gets so oily so quickly. I wash and wash and wash my face constantly, and it never ever stays oil free. My face never drys out because it's always so oily! Is there a certain scrub/wash that I can use that really helps and makes my face stay dry and clear all day?! Thank-you. (link)
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Dear Oily,
Don't always think that oily skin is bad. When you have a naturale glow or shine to your face. Thats healthy, and means nothing more than you have good skin.If it bothers you alot think about getting a powdered base.
Hope I helped =D
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How long dose it take for a girl to show signs of pregnancy? (link)
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Dear Pregnancy Inquirer,
I would say if your next period is late. That should be a big key factor. However you don't start showing in the stomach until you 4th month.
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So lyk i got this girlfriend, and i just wanted to know how did i get sooooo damn lucky to have her, i just got no idea. All i gotta say is "Wow" lol (link)
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Dear lucky,
Are you sure your lucky or is it your girlfriend that is? If you have the personality that makes her smile and her life worth wile..then you got her not out of luck but you won her heart.
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Is it better to excercise right after you wake up in the morning or right before you go to bed at night? Which one will give you more results? Also, any advice on what is the best type of excercise to do to lose weight and tone your whole body? Thanks! (link)
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Dear Excerciser
I would say excercise in the morning because to boost your metabolism. For loosing weight for your whole body, try going to this sight ~~> http://www.toneteen.com/ even if your not a teen it will show you good excercises to do for each part of your body
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im mad at my friend.well were pretty close like she knows alot about me and we hang out and stuff..but im like way mad at her she broke my trust (sounds cheesy i know) and stuff and thats like one of the most important things in friendship. well mine at least. and its not like she hasn't done this before. like in 7th grade and stuff but that was like when we weren't like close friends so i decided to forgive her... like give her a second chance. well now im not sure if i should forgive her cause i mean i don't think i can trust her at all anymore... and right now im like really don't want to be her friend at all... we've been friends for like along time...is it worth it to just let it go... and be her friend but not like we were...or should i just throw it all away? ..
confused (link)
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Dear Chancer,
it sounds like you know your options. To take her back as a friend or not. This has to come for your heart. If you take her back let her know that this is the second time and "three strikes your out!" This will give her a heads up and let her know she has been screwing up. However i wouldnt be to rude about the situation when you tell her that you want to be friends but shes screwed up...Because then she might going around saying "OMG he/she is freaking out about one little screw up. IT was an accident..or yada yada" So0 go easy which ever one you choose.
I cant choose weather or not your going to give her a chance or not...but i hope i helped some.
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Hey,
I've heard about a method where you can have the extra uterus lining removed every month just before your period so that you don't actually have your period. Does anyone know the actual name of this, or any more about it? Has anyone had it done? What are the risks? I have very heavy periods and I think it would help me. Could I get it done at a normal hospital?
Please don't answer if you don't know. Thanks. (link)
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Dear inquiring,
The method your refering to is called Endometrial Ablation.This procedure Removes the lining of the womb. Removing the uterine lining will decrease your menstrual flow or even stop it completely.
For more information you might want to check out this web site ~~> http://www.ivf.com/eablate.html
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OK i am 14 now and my hole life i have never cut my hair ewell i mean trims and when i got gum in it but thts diff. ok its dirtyblond brownish. and past my hips. and lots of people think i should cut it but others think i should leave it alown. and it looks really good when i curl it or what ever but i don't know cus i don't look at it from other peoples point of view so I don't know what i should do with it cut it or no. and also if you have any ideas about stuff i can do with it like styling it like other than down and ponytails. please help
~Goldylocks~ (link)
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Dear Rapunzel,
Dont do it!!! Keep it! I too had my hair down to my but. People at school were telling me i should cut it. I was curiouse on how different it would look short, so i did. Those same people were telling me later on that they use to be jelouse of my long dirty blond hair. This was in the 8th grade.I cut it on my 14th b-day. Now im 15 fixen to be 16 and I regret it so you might to0. I wouldnt cut it if i were you.
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ok.....i have curly/wavy hair...but i spend 30 mins. everyday straiting it and i'm afraid im straiting it and its frying my hair!! i like it straitened...but its dull and boring...i wish i could wear it curly...but its just frizzy and i try everythign to make it not frizzy...but i cant really find anything...any ideas? (link)
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Dear Frizzy,
My mom to had hair that wouldn't curl the way she wanted it to, and decided to straiten it daily. Last time she went to get it layeredly cut again the lady cut it then told her to stop trying to controle her hair and just let it be curly. It frizzes though. So the lady told her to go buy hair oil, gel, and moose. She first put oil in it then gel then moose.(it doesnt matter if you get the really expensive stuff or the cheapest. It will work the same) She fluffed all of them in her, but didnt go crazy to where he it was soaked with it. Now its curly..and pretty. NO FRIZZ!
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my boyfriend doesn't call me at all ever since we started going out. i am always the one calling him... im ok with it i guess, but what really annoys me is that everytime were on the phone he doesn't talk to me.. so i come up with stuff to say but he doesn't sound interested at all. what should i do?!
>< dazed and confused (link)
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Dear Dazed and Confused,
It sounds like a slight loss of interest. Its nothing to worry to much about though. What happens is that befor you go out with a guy you start talking to him, and want to know everything. He offcourse does the same. Then you end us going out. Each day there is less and less to talk about. It does get boring and makes you question if the connection is there, but its typical. If it really bothers you talk to him about it. The best thing to do in a relationship is to be completely honest. You dont haft to be rude...Just honest
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this guy and I have a history together. Yes, he's my ex. We both want to go back out but I just dont know if I should or not. I don't even know if I still love him or not. Latley I have been dreaming and in my dreams he was there(they have been about him). This is probobly the 4th or 5th dream Ive had about him. I know him pretty well, he is a flirtatious guy who loves women. Yet, inside hes caring and sweet.(i even know what his next move will probobly be). But every time we hang out, it just seems like he wants to just kiss me and to me there is more to love than that! I mean, does he lust me? or does he really love me? I don't even think he knows what love is. I really dont know what to do. I mean if he asked me back out I would say yes because I do want to give US a chance again, but im scared that ( like last time ) I will come out whith a broken heart. I know i should give him a chance because maybe he really HAS changed and if making an effort to change for me because, as he says, he loves me and cannot stop thinking about me. I already think that I am attatched to him and I have a big feeling that he will decide to give me up and throw me away like a used up tissue like he has done the last couple of times. Could that just be my hurt side talking or is he really going to do that once again. Either way if he does or does not i have my friends to help me through it all, but sometimes, you just want a boy to hold you in his arms and cry on his shoulder.
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Dear Confused,
When making a decicion like this, It has to come from your heart. If you feel he is willing to make a change or has changed..then go for it. But if you like him and you try telling your self that you dont; Your going to end up breaking your own heart. You cant controle your heart it controles you. Maby you should explain to him that your willing to give it a chance if hes willing to make it work. Make sure you have it clear to him that if he plans on using you for his sexuale side then ur not going to put up with it. Perhaps this guy needs to figure out that there is more to a relation ship that making out, and w.e. eles he plans to do with you .
There is a quote i found that goes like this...
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"Being together is more than just making out...
It's about understanding the other person...
Being there for them...
Talking for hours...
Making eachother's dreams come true...
Being in love....
& not needing anything to keep it worth while...
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It sounds like lust, but after you set down some expectations maby it will be love. Sit back though. Dont chase him. Let him chase you. If he wants you bad enough he wont sit back and let you walk out of his life.
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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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Dear Blue Valley,
Keep him. Everyone deserves a chance! If hes got that many good qualities hes in need of one. If anyone at school says anything bad simply tell them you want love not looks. Because if you were with this guy on a date you would be having fun..compared to someone who went out with someone just because of looks and the guy ended up having a horrible personality...which ment they had the worst time on there date.
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If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken? (link)
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Dear Dater,
It means hes interested in you. However you are free to date others that you are interested in(SINGLE). If you are boyfriend and girlfriend this would mean you are taken and only going out on dates with him.
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How do you get rid of the redness from a pimple quickly? Thanks, I'll rate. (link)
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Dear redness,
I did a little research for you. I came across alot of home remedies...Some of which you might think is compleatly wierd.
1) Put toothpaste on the area if your wanting to zap it.
2) To get rid of redness of a big pimple take 2 advil. It will get rid of the inflamation.(Ask a parent first depending on how old you are)
3) Apply visine eye-drops to area; for redness.
4) Take and egg and crack it. Use only the white/clear threw stuff of the egg. Dab it on your pimple and leave on for 20 minutes of overnight. This will help getting the yucky stuff out of your pimpel
5) if you would like getting help with your skin then put cooked oatmeal over it.It will help make your skin nicer
These home remedies were found at http://homeremedies4u.tripod.com/
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OK so today i am wearing jeans and my new ugg boots (short, chestnut) should i tuck my jeans into the boots? or have the jeans cover the boots? thanks in advance (link)
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Dear Fashion frenzy,
If you are trying to look for that TRUE cowgirl style..then tuck in your pants legs. If your trying to go for fashion then put them over your boots.
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13/m. I'm sorry if this is kind of long. you see, I have this sort-of friend: she's in all of my classes except for one, so we talk a lot. She makes fun of me sometimes, but I really don't think she means it, because things are regular again by next period. I kind of like her, but not really. And the acts as though she likes me sometimes. But, I really don't want anything to happen between us, since I've already made my New Year's resolution to get this one particular girl to like me.
So anyway, that girl, let's call her Jane, her mom died two weeks ago. I've never had to sit through a death before---I'm lucky enough that nobody in my family has ever died. And the only time anyone's parent has died other than Jane's is in 2nd grade, when I couldn't really grasp the meaning of death.
In all our classes two weeks ago, we were just talking about death and stuff. It was really depressing. In one class, things got so deep that half the class was crying. I myself was in tears, as I nearly am recalling this. But not because I knew and missed Jane's mother. Not because it reminded me of a dead relative that I had. Because I could finally grasp the meaning of death.
So, everyone's really depressed now, and she got to miss school two weeks ago the whole week---I would want to, if my parents had died. She's coming back on Tuesday, when vacation ends. One Thursday and Friday, all her teachers---which meant all my teachers except for one---received e-mails from her dad saying that we shouldn't talk about this "event" unless Jane brings it up first. But me, I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say. I don't really want to say anything like "we're right behind you" or "we got your back", because however true it may be, it may or may not give the impression that I like her.
So, I guess the whole point I'm trying to make here is that I'd feel awkward talking to her. I could've just said "i have a sort of frend whos mom died what to i do" but I feel that I can get a more personal answer if you have some background information. I will probably rate you. Smartasses get reported. Thank you, school starts again on Tuesday!!! (link)
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Dear Mr.Dont know what to do,
Your 13 and its ok to not know what shes going threw. Honestly i think you should write her a letter. You can get out anything you need to say to her. I had a hard time figureing out if you liked her or not but if you do then you should tell her. In the letter you might want to include (I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say.)SOMEThing like that. If you write her a letter ..EVEN if you dont know what to say..OR how to deal with things..IT will show her you care and let her know that your there for her. As a friend, a class mate, and someone that possibly likes her You need to be there for her, weather you know what to say or not. Because loosing someone close to you is probaley the hardest thing anyone could go threw.
ps...if you need help with letter or anything eles PLEASE fill free to go to my page and ask another question or leave me a message in inbox.
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