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this guy and I have a history together. Yes, he's my ex. We both want to go back out but I just dont know if I should or not. I don't even know if I still love him or not. Latley I have been dreaming and in my dreams he was there(they have been about him). This is probobly the 4th or 5th dream Ive had about him. I know him pretty well, he is a flirtatious guy who loves women. Yet, inside hes caring and sweet.(i even know what his next move will probobly be). But every time we hang out, it just seems like he wants to just kiss me and to me there is more to love than that! I mean, does he lust me? or does he really love me? I don't even think he knows what love is. I really dont know what to do. I mean if he asked me back out I would say yes because I do want to give US a chance again, but im scared that ( like last time ) I will come out whith a broken heart. I know i should give him a chance because maybe he really HAS changed and if making an effort to change for me because, as he says, he loves me and cannot stop thinking about me. I already think that I am attatched to him and I have a big feeling that he will decide to give me up and throw me away like a used up tissue like he has done the last couple of times. Could that just be my hurt side talking or is he really going to do that once again. Either way if he does or does not i have my friends to help me through it all, but sometimes, you just want a boy to hold you in his arms and cry on his shoulder.
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Dear Confused,
When making a decicion like this, It has to come from your heart. If you feel he is willing to make a change or has changed..then go for it. But if you like him and you try telling your self that you dont; Your going to end up breaking your own heart. You cant controle your heart it controles you. Maby you should explain to him that your willing to give it a chance if hes willing to make it work. Make sure you have it clear to him that if he plans on using you for his sexuale side then ur not going to put up with it. Perhaps this guy needs to figure out that there is more to a relation ship that making out, and w.e. eles he plans to do with you .
There is a quote i found that goes like this...
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"Being together is more than just making out...
It's about understanding the other person...
Being there for them...
Talking for hours...
Making eachother's dreams come true...
Being in love....
& not needing anything to keep it worth while...
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It sounds like lust, but after you set down some expectations maby it will be love. Sit back though. Dont chase him. Let him chase you. If he wants you bad enough he wont sit back and let you walk out of his life.
<3amanda
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