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I need to get my life together. I have all the tools...just a little push. The next year and a half is going to make or break me. I'm a junior in college and I'm trying to get into graduate school. If i don't get my act together, get straight A's, and make my resume as amazing as possible...I don't see that happening...and my lifeplan will be shot to hell..
SO....this is where you come in...
ANYONE
its not much i would appreciate ANYTHING from ANYONE.
I just need some motivation...
It could be a movie that really inspires you...a song...a book..a quote....something your grandma said last week.
I need a trigger to get me started
I have been so depressed lately that I can barely get myself out of bed. Mostly because I've been very lonely... but I can't whine about being alone forever I need to DO SOMETHING.
HELP A GIRL OUT! (link)
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how is saying your life's plan will be shot to hell not enough motivation to get your shiz straight?!!!
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I am deeply in love with my teacher, I am obsessed with her and crave her immensely. She is such a beautiful and perfect lady and I know she likes me as a person and student.
She is about 26 or 27 and I am 16. I fantasize about her all the time, I go out of my way to walk past her room or see her, check out her Facebook page all the time to see her pictures, and I can't stand the thought of not being with her.
I was thinking of one day staying after class at the end of the day for help and then when no one is around just grab her and kiss her on the lips and caress her body. I will also have my sister and one of my friends stand outside near the door so he can look out if anyone is coming. Also to immediately close the door when I go for it and then open it again after.
another way of doing this is this way. Disguise myself with a mask and change of clothes. Rush in and blindfold her and then start kissing her. However, this seems like more of a risk than the first way since she won't be so surprised if I come in as myself and talk to her normally first
some reasons why this can work
If she tells anyone about it I will just say she did it to me and they will likely believe me since I am the young one and still considered a child so what could she possibly do?
I hear just a claim from a student would immediately cause a teachers career to be over.
And would she really want to spend money on lawyers and crap with her teacher salary? And also have to go through a whole investigation and her name being everywhere?
. She can also be kind of flirty sometimes with her male students so therefore it won't be hard for people to believe she is the one that came on to me if I need to tell that story.
I'm also not the type of person people would believe would do anything so rash.
Also, if she goes against me without any proof she might look like a bully.
Also, I won't tell anyone anything unless I can tell she is thinking about telling someone first
some have made some counters saying the plan won't work, I think though these criticisms have no weight
-they say that they would believe her and not me. But the thing is though she will have no EVIDENCE, or witnesses. So I find this hard to believe they will automatically go after me just on her word. If this was true, what is to stop any teacher from telling that a student did something inappropriate and getting them in trouble?
-they say the police will be called in to question me and make me take a lie detector test. First, I don't think it will have to go that far since again there is no evidence. Also, I already know that lie detector tests are considered unreliable and are not used in court.
-they say she will be more than willing to go through with pressing charges and getting lawyers and stuff to defend herself. But the thing is if she doesn't tell anyone then she won't have to in the first place. And it is not just the money, she will have to deal with the whole investigation and publicity and having this all being gossiped about
I will also make sure there are no cameras or anything in the room in advance, and if there are I will call this off. Also, I will make sure there is nobody else around so there will be no witnesses. We will take a look at the area and plan everything in advance. I think this is a fool proof plan. I wish it didn't have to be this way but I am too obsessed with her to the point where it is affecting my life and can't stand the thought of not doing something with her, it is killing me, my heart pounds just thinking about her (link)
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you have issues you should probly work out with a professional...
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17/f,
So I was wondering as I know it happens to everyone at some point, how do you like overcome getting talked/bitched about?
Today, theres this girl I knew from school a few years ago (we didn't even talk) and as soon as I sat on the computer next door but one to her in the library, she started OBVIOUSLY talking about me to her friend. Within a minute, I made sure I gave them a 'look' to know I knew they were talking about me, and I got up and went downstairs. When I got home I deleted her of my fb friends. But I don't know why she was bitching?
I can't ask her why, because she'll just get her friend to gang up on me, and I really really dont get on with her friend as it is-she always used to bully me. Incidently, after the computer thing I went to the toilets and cried my eyes out. So how do other people just 'get over' what other ppl say negativly about them? (link)
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next time fart in her face when you walk off and tell her to go f*** herself...
people always going to try to drag you down, F*** em'. you dont need people like that in your life, ignore her and go about your buisness.
no more crying either, i used to draw pictures of people who bullied me. like them driving a car off a mtn, i dunno, whatever i wanted. it helped
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Okay so I live in Canada, I am a 16 year old girl. My gym teacher has a student teacher that has come in to study for his apprenticeship and get his teaching degree. He is 25 years old and is really nice to me. He is great looking and I'm not talking from adolescence but he truly cares about me. He shows it in an every day activity. He has said I'm his favorite student and we talk in a very intelligent way. He has helped me with my problems and we always have harmless flirting. For instance, I'm a competitive soccer play and am in the soccer module this semester. He is my teacher and we always go one on one. Of course I always get the ball but its really cute. I know this is illegal but we have developed feelings for each other . He's really not my teacher and he goes back to school next month. What do I do next? Any advice accepted. Negative or positive (link)
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I wish I could slap sense into you child!
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i like a boy and i know he likes me back should i make the first move or should he (link)
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just make the first move, if he rejects it then you know he didnt feel the same and you can move on with your life.
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I've known this girl since the beginning of college. To me, she was like no other. During orientation, everyone was walking around, talking, running, and when I saw her, everything stopped for a moment and I only saw her. Since then, I couldn't stop thinking about her. I got to know her and for the first few months, we actually got pretty close. For the first time in a long time, she made me happy. But there was one major problem. She had a boyfriend. Since she knew I liked her and wanted to be with her she grew distant of me. Any attempts I made to even talk to her were stopped. So I gave up and grew depressed. Went like this for a few months..up until February. We came back from winter vacation and we're all together in a room (me her, and two other friends) and she tells us her boyfriend broke up with her..through a letter. She told us that about a week from Valentine's so I went and get her flowers and all that stuff. She called me a dork (which was a good thing) and said she was flattered. But she didn't want a relationship just yet (and I get that) but to not wait for her to be ready. Now we're getting close yet again, but one of my friends (who's closer to her than I am) say's she just being friendly. I would think he's right, but what does that mean for me? Should I give up completely, or "wait" for the opportunity with her? Mind you, she's the only person whose opinion I actually care about. She's the first to actually make me try to be with her (I've never had a girlfriend) and she's the first to make me..happy. I don't know what to do anymore. Should I just get over her (which I'm trying to do, isn't working out too well) Or should I wait for my chance while at the same time not letting other opportunities pass me by (Like I'd get any) like she wants me to?
Sorry for the long question, but I really had to explain everything to avoid getting the same response I've gotten from other people. I'd appreciate all the help received. (link)
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If she told you not to wait, uh...dont wait then.
You can just be casual with her, but if thats just going to keep you from "getting over" her then maybe you shouldnt even do that.
Find you a hot girl, forget that fool, have some confidence in yourself gosh!!!!
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We're in college, but my roommate has been saying minor things that are a little aggressive whenever she has a friend over. I really don't like it when she acts like that and it pisses me off really bad. She'll say something rude, then say just kidding. The friend will also egg her on by being like.. don't let her talk to you like that. I'm not the type to joke around with hurtful things and she knows that. I don't know if she's just taking advantage of that fact but I'm starting to get really annoyed with her behavior. They say that people who say hurtful things and joke around after it usually are harboring something similar inside them. This is perhaps the second or third time that she's behaved like that and I think one day I might just explode, but if I do that it looks like my fault or that I am crazy because she was "just kidding". How can I deal with this situation? (link)
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Ummm.....F your roommate..
Can you put in for a different roommate?
I mean, you could be civil about it and straight up ask her what her problem is with you and why she continues to speak to you that way and how you dont appreciate it because it makes you feel like she is being aggressive, and did you do something for her to feel she needs to be that way towards you... blah blah blah...
or you could do what we used to do back in the day and put a lock in a sock and beat her when she falls asleep, or put rotten cheese in her bed sheets....or piss....
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I am 13 I've had white discharge for a while and recently it turned dark brown(a couple days ago) I have been getting cramps. When I looked at my underwear there was a stream of brown this happened 3 days in a row . Did I get my period or is it still discharge ? (link)
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Did you already have your period or are you about to start? If you havent had it you are probly about to start. If you have had it, its just the cleansing process of your crotch! If it's neither, you may want to get that looked at..
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So I'm 13 and I'm not really comfortable going to school because of the people there (And I can't do anything about it, so please no answers on that). I was thinking homeschooling; And yes, there is someone at home that can homeschool me.
The thing is, I don't know how to tell my parents in a way that they'll understand and say yes. Can you guys please help me?
P.S. Please don't say that I'm "Missing out"... I already thought everything through. (link)
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Start putting make up on you face to look like you got beat up so you can tell them people at school are bullying you and you would like to be home schooled.
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If I ignore a guy for like a week and have not herd from him because he's always busy with work and never has time to really talk. When he finally does email, shouuld I ignore it a couple of times or should I only answer back on the emails he gives me. Also should I wait a while before responding. usually I answer right away. My age is 31 and I'm female. (link)
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Why are you talking to a guy who is "too busy" to talk or email? I'd ignore him, because it sounds like he really doesnt seem committed or interested
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I'm 13/F and му friend is 14/F I'm not sure if this goes in this thing but ya. So we did blodoy mary and nothing happened but we both felt a bad pressence or like something watching us. Then at 12 pm(10 min after we did it) we heard a big bang and got scared then we went down the street and there was a car accident and the 1 car was on fire. If му sister didn't go put in petrol it wouldve been her. Мє and му friend feel that its out fault cs we read something about bloody mary dying in a car accident and another 1 saying in a fire and both of those happened. Is it our fault? (link)
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Yes it is your fault
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Okay, I am doing a project at school and its on the titanic. The point is, my partner and I don't get along and I already asked to switch and we cant! Any ADVICE WHAT TO DO?? (link)
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Invite them over to work on the project and put barbitals in their drink. When they pass out draw on their face and stick the Titanic out their butt and take a picture and slip it in the power point unbeknownst to them.
Sometimes if you take the time to really get to know someone your opinion may change, if not then you have valid proof as to why you hate them.
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Im 14/f and ive been depressed for quite a bit of time. I started having family issues and then my friends started talkig about me behind my back. I have about 2 good friends now which havent changed their opinions of me like everyone else. Although, the smilig girl at schooll is tired of hiding behind a smile. I started thinking abiut suicide and self harm and then at the end of february, i started it all. Its been hard and everyday has gotten maybe a little better but not much. I hate myself. I act before i think. I feel numb. Unwanted. Useless. Stupid. I used to only cut with scissors. It got away the emotional pain but tonight i mangled a razor blade and used it instead. It wont stop bleeding. The pain was nice. I needed it. I dont want therapy and my parents dont know anytjung. What do i do and how do i overcome my addicion? (link)
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A. you are too young to be scarring up your body
B. If your "friends" are talking about you, f*#* them. walk up to them and say F YOU, aint nobody got time for all that.
C. The whole depression thing is a hard one for me. Because I myself struggle with it and I did drugs as a result. That is not the correct way to handle it obviously so, we have to do constructive things. Do you play play sports? Join any clubs at school? Do you have hobbies? painting, drawing, writing, sketching? Do you like to sing, dance, act?
D. If you still feel like you need to feel some type of pain, Id say get tattoos but youre too young so, Im going to suggest you go to a gym. join boxing or some mma type crap and just beat the shiz out of someone.
But in all seriousness don't ever let anyone make you feel less than you are. you are a beautiful, important,smart being put on this earth for a purpose and if anyone says differently dismiss them. nobody is ever going to love you as much as you love yourself, so start loving yourself!
Right Now!!!!
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15/f so the other day my guy friend told me to sit next to him in class but it wasnt really like a classroom it was like a little theater where we watch movies. sometimes we get along and sometimes we don't. im not trying to act conceded or cocky or anything but i know what guys say about me like im hot, blahh blah but its like im not gonna flip out everytime a guy hits on me so i know he talks about me and hes said like i think shes hot, she has a nice ass, i would f*** her. but i really dont think about that stuff when we talk and i dont like him at all. but when i sat next to him i honestly didnt think he was going to try and hit on me.. but he did. usually almost everytime im like stop or i hit him im like one of those girls like i dont sugarcoat it and i tell you like it is and he calls me prude. but we were sitting there and when the lights were off he was just rubbing my knee so i was like whatever and then it was my thigh and then it was my inner thigh and then it was like my groan area next to my vjj. i didnt say no and he just kept doing it but i didnt really care. im just wondering what this means? because i know hes fingered girls before but we were in school so obvioulsy he knew that wasnt going to happen but what was he trying to do? and why didnt he just want to make out or something..its confusing. thanks (link)
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It means he doesnt want to date you he just wants to *&#*. You should probly squash that next time he tries some nonsense up in class, respect child....respect yo-self!!
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I just turned 13 a few days ago and beat my moms 30 year old boyfriend wrestling and armwrestling. He's acted embarrassed and sour ever since. I'm wondering if it was wrong to beat my moms bf wrestling in front of her. I'm only 105lbs and 5'0" and my moms boyfriend is 160ish and 5'10" but I'm strong for size and age and can wrestle some. It was for fun but competitive. Maybe I should let him win one time to help his self esteem.
Girls/ladies any advice would be helpful. I just need to know if my mom is ashamed about it. Would you as a mom be ashamed? (link)
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Heck No! Better tell that dude to hit the GYM!!!! And then tell him if he hurts your mom in any way, your going to slam his face on the table like you slam his arm!!!
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Ok. Where do I start.I lost my 7-8 year long best friend because of things out of my control. In other words, she hates me for reasons that I didn't do, but she thinks I did. My father died about 11 months ago. Other than my brother, those were my two closest people to me. Losing my best friend was hard, but I had my father there to keep me on my feet. I lost him slowly and painfully. I moved far away afterwards with my brother and a few other friends. I really love my household and they mean a lot to me, but anytime I try to talk about my emotional problems I feel as though they take it personally. Like they need to say the right things or they need to tell me how to fix it. I don't want to bring them down just because I feel down, but now I don't have anybody else to talk to. I have taken up working out which has been a great stress reliever, but I still have this underlying feeling of hopelessness. I feel like I have grown up too fast, I feel as though there are pieces missing from me and I can't find them. Lately, I have been getting better, but in the mornings I would feel no reason to get up. I keep trying to do things I like doing, but everything even that feels so pointless. I felt like everything was meaningless before losing my father, but in a good way. It freed me. I felt enlightened and carefree, but now I just feel so empty. I just want to feel alright again. I have suicidal thoughts, but it isn't that I want to kill myself. I just sometimes think about the relief of it, but I know I am going to get there someday and I am in no rush. I am not looking for you to have all the answers. I just need someone to tell this to who isn't going to be hurt by my words. Even though I love the people around me. I don't feel close to anyone anymore. I know it sounds silly, but in this world of 7 billion I feel alone. I am sure we all feel that way though. (link)
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Well, my answers def.not brilliant but I can say that I most completely understand how you feel.I myself had lost a very close friend and a year later I lost my Father. Although I wasn't as close to him as you were to your Father, I still take it pretty hard. The only thing I can tell you is to keep your mind occupied. Going to the gym is awesome. Keep doing that. Are you in school? Join clubs, play sports, anything to keep your mind occupied on positive thoughts. If you cant talk to your family or friends because you don't always want to be the debbie downer you can try a counsler. If that doesnt work, Ive tried writing things down in a journal.
But basically keep positive and keep occupied or you'll end up like me some, washed up druggie always looking for the next buzz and youll go to rehab, and get arrested, and do a bunch of stupid crap and then you really wont want to wake up in the morning and face what youve become.
Grieving is going to take awhile, its natural. But dont let it overcome you. Thats all I can say. And I should be taking my own advice but I sometimes feel Im beyond that point of being fixed. But if I can help you to not get to that point, then I can say Ive done something in my life for once.
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