Hey! I am Shianne! i can honestly say that i am completely sure that i can help you with any problem! this is what i do...ive help many people and ive done some amazing things!!
shianne
E-mail: y0or-honeediip@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Lynn Ma.
Occupation: Councelor
Age: 18
Member Since: February 1, 2005
Answers: 34
Last Update: March 16, 2006
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Are you able to use any sort of phone on a cruise? (e.i. cell phones & regualr phones)..or even the internet on a cruise? (link)
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absolutely...you may use phones on a cruise. they do not interact with machinery or transact with coastal equipment! however using a cell phoone micht be a problem becasue it may be hard to find a good signal in the middle of the oceans,. but cell phone companies have built many towers so you never know! have fun!
shianne
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I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me? (link)
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HEY! DONT FOCUS ON GETTING BOYS TO LIKE YOU! REMEMBER THAT BOYS MATURE ALOT SLOWER THAN GIRLS. I KNOW BOYS SEEM LIKE ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIFE BUT YOU NEED TO FIND WAYS TO PUT IT LAST ON YOUR LIST! EVENTUALLY YOU WILL BE AROUND BOYS WHO HAVE MATURED AND WANT O BE WITH GIRLS FOR WHO THEY ARE. RIGHT NOW THEY ARE SCARED OF GIRLS AND GO AFTER THINGS THAT SHOULDNT MATTER. TRY MAKING SOME GOOD GIRL OR GUY FRIENDS TO HANG OUT WITH AND MAYBE YOU'LL REALIZE YOU CAN HAVE FUN WITHOUT A BOYFRIEND! JUST STAY POSITIVE! EVEN THE PRETTIEST GIRLS HAVE TROUBLE FINDING BOYFRIENDS! SO STAY STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL AND LET IT SHINE THROUGH! AND JUST KEEP THINKING ABOUT the fact that eventually a day will come when boys will interact much better! you have all the time in the world, be patient!
GOOD LUCK,
YOURS TRULY,
SHIANNE
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Ok well i came on a trip to my cuzins house and i met his friend Robie well Robie is very cute and now i am going out wit him.Well that is all good and all for while i am here but ten again i live in California and he lives in Oklahoma. I am afraid that this is not going to work out but i want it to sooooo bad because i hella like him but what should i do i am considering moving back here but idk if i can so please help me!!! (link)
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Hello! LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE VERY HARD. I WOULDNT CONSIDER MOVING BACK TO OKLAHOMA SOULY DUE TO ROBBIE! IF YOUR HAPPY WHERE YOU LIVE AND HAVE ALREADY ESTABLISHED A LIFE WHERE YOU ARE...DONT THROW IT AWAY OVER A RELATIONSHIP THAT JUST BEGAN! MAYBE YOU AND ROBBIE SHOULD HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW YOU FEEL SAD BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BE AROUND HIM AND HE IS FAR AWAY! WRITE AND CALL HIM FREQUENTLY. ODDS ARE HE WILL ALSO WANT TO HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU BOTH CAN SEE OTHER PEOPLE. IF YOU FEEL THAT DEEPLY ABOUT MOVING BACK THERE.,.THINK HARD AND LONG ABOUT IT! AND COME UP WITH AT LEAST 5 OTHER REASONS WHY YOU WOULD MOVE THERE BESIDES HIM!
GOOD LUCK,
SHIANNE
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How can it be that you can have casual sex? I am a virgin and some of my friends have had sex. Those who have also have casual sex. I just don't understand how you can have sex without having a comitment. Doesn't it still end up being a comitment because someone will want a relationship. It's natural for humans to want to have a relationship. So why is it that people can have casual sex with different people without a more serious relationship?? (link)
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Hey! everyone has their own opinion! sex is a very confusing subject. to some people it can be one of the most important decisions in their lifetime and to others it doesnt mean a thing. it depends on many things. some people have sex for fun and others do it for love. some people just do it to rebel and others do it for affection or attention. you may be confused because you havent experienced it yet. you have a great outlook and theres not many people who take sex seriously. sometimes people get clouded by the media or their peers. you'll know when your ready and you know what your looking for. just becareful and make sure u find someone on the same page or you will get hurt! keep up the good out look and stay strong! respect other peoples sexuality and they will respect yours!
good luck,
yours truly,
shianne
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hi shiann i have a problem, everytime i think of you i get hard and i just wanna fuck the shit out of you everytime we talk. i wanna be with you an have mad kids. will u marry me? or at least can we hook up, if your a good advvice columist you'll help me out
love j (link)
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Dear J,
I think that i will help you out the best i can in the most appropriate and proffesional formation! I will give you some advice...if you think about the fact that i would never be with you in a sexual way...maybe you will lose interest! sometimes people have feelings for someone that are made on impulse. you probally dont love me or want to have kids...you just need attention...in fact J..in my line of work...i realized guys who crave this kind of sexual attention or display this explicit behavior...are usually hiding a secret. Do you ever feel attracted to men?
good luck!
yours truly,
shianne
P.S. please be appropriate in the near future!
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is there a such thing as two kinds of penises... my friend robert told me that evan has a something penis and i forgot what its called? does anyone know anything? like abnornmal or something? (link)
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when a boy is born his parents decide wether he should be circumsized or not. some parents do it because of religious reasons and some do it for hygiene reasons. If they are circumsized then they have a minor operation in which a peice of skin is removed.
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Prom is coming up next month. I decided a few months ago that I wouldn't go because I am at a new school and don't have any 'real' friends here (like I did at my old school), but now I am starting to think that it might be fun. I love to dress up and dance. No one has asked me though, but I know I can go alone (which would suck though). Do you think I can crash someone else's table? Should I go? (link)
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Excellent question! Go to the prom! I know you are in a difficult position...but you will regret not going more than going! You should go around and talk to ppl and maybe form a little group...ask ppl that you know dont have plans! or ask your parents if you can have a small get together at the house that way people will get to know you and will enjoy going with you! Bring someone like a cousin or friend from another school! just go and look great! let me know your decision!!!!
good luck!
Yours Truly,
Shianne
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i can talk to guys fine in person i just sound so stupid on the phone i need some pointers on how to like start in depht conversations oh im 13 female (link)
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Talking on the phone can be tricky! You get all those akward quiet moments...Think about what the other person is interested in. Talk about what you did earlier (so as long as its interesting) Make plans to do something...or if worst comes to worse say "hold on a second" and regather your thoughts or just call back at a later time!
good luck!
Yours Truly,
Shianne
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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing (link)
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Well...PMS effects ppl in different ways. Some ppl just get cramps, some get emotional and others get full of rage! I understand that you dont mean to "flip" out! You need to relax and let your hormones chill! You should talk to your doc bout the problem because you could have a conditon that is affecting your hormonal balance! If your feeling bad, you maybe should apoligize to the girl and maybe explain your girly situation!
good luck!
Yours Truly,
Shianne
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do you need a pap smear if you get fingered if so how bad and if not when do you have to get one (link)
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hello,..it is best to have a papsmear done after you become sexually active. however if you feel that you need to see one sooner it is up to you. it is not required to see a gyno if youve just been fooling around but there are many diseases and a gynecoligist can correctly explain diagnose or treat them! its up to you...talk to ur doc...
good luck!
yours truly,
shianne
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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!! (link)
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Well i understand your confusion! abortion is a very controversial subject. some people believe that if a woman is raped it is more ok for her to have an abortion because it was forced upon her and it wasnt her fault and she shouldnt have to have a painful memory by having a baby with someone who hurt her so much...on the other hand it still is an innocent baby who also wasnt at fault. Woman are going to decide what they want...everyone has different beliefs and sometimes others just dont understand, we arent in their shoes so i guess the best thing you can do is support your friends no matter what they do because its what they believe in.
good luck!
yours truly,
shianne
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okay so I'm 14 f. I haven't had a boy firend yet, is that weird. See I'm in french immersion, and theres only lik 3 guys in it and there nerds. so all of my friends are nerds. I moved here last year so I don't really no many other people, but still. I mean, I've been asked out a lot, but that was at my old school and I was in grade 5-6-7 so "going out" with someone was just holding their hand in school, so I don't count that. Is it sad that I've never been on a REAL date? How can I change? (link)
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Hello!I know you feel like will never be on a real date but you do have to be patient! Eventually you will find someone you like and they will like you back! I know u feel hopeless but we all go through it, but being a teenager brings enough stress as it is...so why add more nonsense that isnt even necessary??? You'll meet ppl! join a club or a sport! Meet new ppl! Even girls...hanging out with new friends will keep your mind off it and may help u get a date! Good luck and dont stress...your dating days are around the corner!
yours truly,
shianne
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I am goin to see the love of my life this weekend! im sooo excited! but im not sure how far i should go with him. we have talked about it and we want to wait for things like sex, but im still not sure on how far i should go. i am 14 and he is 16. he means the world to me and i want to show him that! how can i show him that other than sexual activity but still let a little activity take place? (link)
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I am not going to be one of those people who says..."ur to young...wait!" if you really feel good about this relationship...there are many things you can do besides having sex! before u let any "action" take place... let him no ahead of time just how far you plan to go and which lines you dont want to cross! kissing is a safe and affectionate way for you both to get close! good luck and remember....if u love eachother...it doesnt matter what you do!
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all my friends have boyfriends right now.. i feel so sad because i dont. im always around them with their boyfriends and see how loved they are. i just got out of a long relationship and miss just the feeling of being told "i love you" or just the feeling of being held in that special guys arms. i feel lonely and ive tried looking. theres no one for me to go out with that i like. please help before i go into a depression.
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Sometimes its hard to watch your friends experience something you arent! All i can say is dont rush things at the moment... why not enjoy your freedom! get a job...go shopping! spend time with single friends! focus on yourself right now and spend time making yourself happy! be a positive person and your optimism will shine through and will be noticed by others! they will see how much u take care of yourself and will wanna be around u! u will have a hunnie in no time at all!
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