I am goin to see the love of my life this weekend! im sooo excited! but im not sure how far i should go with him. we have talked about it and we want to wait for things like sex, but im still not sure on how far i should go. i am 14 and he is 16. he means the world to me and i want to show him that! how can i show him that other than sexual activity but still let a little activity take place?
Bellesono answered Saturday February 5 2005, 10:11 pm: Dear How Far,
If he cares about you as you do him and he respects you than you should not have to prove your love for him. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing. Do not do anything you are going to regret later. Tell him how you feel about sex and if he does not understand than maybe he is not the love of your life. We cannot tell you what you are ready to do, we can not tell you how far you should go. Ask yourself and your partner. Have fun and be safe. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon [ Bellesono's advice column | Ask Bellesono A Question ]
shianne answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 7:49 pm: I am not going to be one of those people who says..."ur to young...wait!" if you really feel good about this relationship...there are many things you can do besides having sex! before u let any "action" take place... let him no ahead of time just how far you plan to go and which lines you dont want to cross! kissing is a safe and affectionate way for you both to get close! good luck and remember....if u love eachother...it doesnt matter what you do! [ shianne's advice column | Ask shianne A Question ]
silverkissofdeath answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 3:35 pm: you don't have to have ANY activity take place to show someone you love them. just being there should show that, holding hands, cuddling, just holding eachother and maybe a few pecks on the cheeks, head, forehead, and occasioally on the lips shows quite a bit of affection. [ silverkissofdeath's advice column | Ask silverkissofdeath A Question ]
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