Wats good y'all? Mz. Carolina here. I stay in Texas but am from Minneapolis (MN) and Madison (WI.) I am also engaged to a wonderful soldier in serving in tha US Army (SUPPORT THA TROOPS!!) Enough about me, ask your question n please believe ur gurl will get bac 2 u asap! Take it eazy.. ~1
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i need a dress for my 8th grade farewell dance!!
its semi-formal...and i was wondering if anyone knew where to get any dresses not too expensive..if it helps i live in michigan
5S FOR ANYTHING--NO MATTER WHAT!!
p.s. the theme is hollywood..so..any ideas??
THANKS SO MUCH!!
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check out department stores.. they have many semi-formal dresses there (jcpennys, nordstroms, kohls, foleys/macys, etc.) they usually have prom dresses on sale as well this time of year (you might be able to find one thats not to dressy since your looking for a semi-formal dress.) if you have a berlington coat factory near you check them out, they have good prices as well.
Hope this helps and good luck finding a dress!
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Well, i have been having it rough lately in life, and i am getting to the point, like now, to where i dont want to be here anymore, as in Yucaipa!
Yucaipa is so fricken gay, and how people are is gay too!
In Yucaipa it is not like most places, because in most places, there are not people that hang out in groups. Everybody almost everywhere else hangs out with everybody. Dont get me wrong, i have a lot of friends and know almost everybody in the school, but there are not many people like me, that like to hang out with everybody.
Also, at my dads house, i kinda live the cinderella story except for, i have a dad, but i dont have a mom! I have two step sisters, but one is cool and one is not! Anyways, i could go on about my household, but i need to get to the poin, because lots of people dont like to read the long ones.
Well, my step mom is literally psychic and she uses it to harm me, and not to help me, and i just barely found this out like a couple weeks ago, and it is scaring me, to the point to where i cried all night long.
My step mom wrewened my whole life basically to. She cheeted with my dad which made my dad cheat on my mom, and then my mom dies, and she talks crap about her. She is such a BITCH!
Anyways, i dont know what to do, because i really want to live with my sister, which i live with on the weekends, but i dont want to hurt my dads feelings, even though i really dont even know him very well, but still was forced in his power, to live with him.
Does anybody have any ideas for me to leave and live with my sister, i hate living there, because the things that i would see my dad do to my mother when i was younger, and my step mom is crazy.
I really need help, please! (link)
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You need to talk to someone who is close to you and who can understand what you are going through. You should talk to your dad and tell him you dont care what your stepmom is sayin about your mom and that you dont like it and she needs to stop talkin like that. He should care about what you have to say. YOU ARE his daughter. YOU ARE family. Mention to your dad about living with your sister (if he won't let you live maybe you could stay there longer than weekends.) If you don't talk to him he will never know how you feel. You could even ask him (your dad) to let you "try" living with her (temporary) and see how things go. If he allows this and things work out well maybe he will consider letting you move in permantly.
HOPE THIS HELPS!
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me-almost 13, f
guy1-13
guy2-13
today of all school days was very different. i've been pretty good friends (FRIENDS!) with guy1 and guy2 but today.. idk. anyway, in one of my classes i had to work with guy1. i was really into the work but then i noticed guy2 come over to check my answers. then guy1 got all territorial and pushed him back. they went on like this, kind of trapping me in the middle, for about 5-10 min.
they were being really immature and they even had an armwrestle to see who was stronger. guy1 got pissed off because guy2 was playfully grabbing me. not so playful for me.
well, things got pushed up to another level and guy2 was hugging me and grabbing my waist and legs. theeennn he would smell and pplay with my hair. you see, im the kind of person who gets taken advantage of, so i would just ignore it and pretend i didnt notice. other times i would slap his hand with a smile, because i didnt want him to think im mean. aahhh its hard to explain.
sigh
after that i soon found out that guy2 wouldnt talk to me if i was fat and ugly. i called him shallow.
time was running short and i didnt want the paper for homework so i asked guy2 (smart). he said he would give me the answers if i'd "be nice". i was like, define nice and he said forget it. i begged for the answers and finally agreed to "be nice".
he gave me an answers or two and then he got behind my chair and sort of put himself overtop me (representing thee position). guy1 (you should know the fact that guy1 & 2 are good buddies) told me that guy2 was most likely going to rape me some day--he was joking around. and then guy2 was like "maybe... i could probably think of worse"
wow ooookkkkkk.
next class: my assigned seat is next to guy2's. he was still being a jerk and he grabbed my ass when i didnt look. and he would stroke my back when the teacher was talking.
he doesnt ALWAYS do this; but today i guess he just didnt care.
dont you hate when you know a friend is doing something wrong but you dont want to tell on them? if i told a teacher/counsler anonymously, HE would know i sold him out because im pretty much his only target. its like i want him to stop but i dont want him to hate me as a friend because im such a people pleaser.
no ratings for people who say i have to talk to my parents. they wouldnt exactly understand and i hate talking to them about things like this.
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My advice to you is to let these guys know its botherin you (no not your parents, guy 1 and guy 2.) If you act like it isn't botherin you then there gone keep doing it. You should also inform them that you have a boyfriend and maybe let your boyfriend know that you have other guys smackin your azz and gettin ontop of you. That is disrespectful to your man and you need to let the other guys know that, if you can't then maybe a relationship isn't the best thing for you (at this time.) You have to let people know how you feel, you can't please everyone. I (personally) wouldn't talk to a teacher/counselor unless it gets serious (which you will have to determine.) If it gets to the point where you can't stand it then talk to a teacher.
Hope this helps you out a lil bit!
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soo i went to this site a while ago, and if you typed in a sentence, then you could make the whole sentence fade into colors. does anyone know what i`m talking about? if so, do you know the website? i reallly need it.
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Here are two sites i found for you with "color faders" I'm not sure if they are the ones you used before but they both do what you described in your question:
http://www.patorjk.com/ColorFader.htm
http://www.vex.net/~x/xfade/advanced.html
HOPE THIS HELPS!!
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14/f
Okay well I have this guy friend and...Ok so he’s not just a friend were A LOT closer than that but the prob. is he’s moving away...really far and I know I’m going to be sad and all but also he’s older than I am…not sure if I want to say or not how much so this way people cant be all on my case about it but its not like a bad age diff just something some people wouldn’t like is all. But yea I guess my question is if we should try and keep our "friendship" or just tone it down and be friends…because do long dist things work really? So yea thanks for your help! =)
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My advice to you is to tone it down and be friends. I have done the long distance thing many times, and let me tell you it is hard. Unless you think you can really make it work, i would stay friends not "friends". Long distance means you also have to trust him as well, do you think you could trust him to keep it real with you? And remember age is nothin but i number (since i was 13, im 18 now i was always talking to men who were 5-6 yrs. older then me... nothing wrong with it, just be careful and don't let yourself get hurt emotionally.)
Hope everything works out with y'all and hope this helps you!
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((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much shit.
any suggestions on what i should do?
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i feel you on this.. trust me i do! i had this problem a lot when i was younger because i was always dating guys 5-6yrs. older then me. my mom thought the same thing (that they just wanted sex.) however, she was more open into meeting them and getting to know them.
Heres what i suggest:
Sit down and talk with your mom, explain to her what you just said in your question. Suggest compromising with her. An example of this, maybe you could have him over for a "family dinner." or you could all go to the movies together one night. Show and prove to your mom that you are ready to handle a relationship without having to get sexual. I know that sounds bad but make the best of it. My point is that maybe having "family outings" with your boyfriend will allow your mom to get to know him better and see what he is all about. This will make your mom a lil more comfortable because she is there with you. After a few of these "family dates" maybe your mom will trust you and allow you to go out alone with him. Suggest this idea to your mom, see what she says.
Hope this helps!!
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i'm thinking about getting fusion hair extensions....i talked to my stylist and she referred me to someone at the same salon that does a lot of extensions. She answered most of my questions but she said she recomneds coming into the salon to have your hair washed every couple days. I can't make the trip to the salon every couple days and also when i go on vacation and stuff this will be a problem. does anyone have fusion hair extensions? do you wash them yourself? any other tips or advice on if i should get them?
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I'm not sure if this helps at all but this is a site that talks about matience and gives tips to taking care of hair extensions.
"After you have your hair extensions in place, you will need to schedule regular maintenance visits to check your extensions. How often you need to go back will depend on the type of hair and the method of attachment that was used. As your hair grows out, some of the hair extensions will need to be removed and replaced or touched up. On a day-to-day basis you should treat your human hair extensions as you would long hair. Brush, shampoo, condition and moisturize on a regular basis. Some hair stylists will recommend specific high-quality hair care products to use with your extensions."
Personally, from reading this article i believe you can wash your hair yourself (i know a few people that washed their own.) Here is the link to the website:
http://www.ezinearticlesonline.com/hair/human-hair-extensions-create-beautiful-long-hai.html
HOPE THIS HELPS!! (WISH I COULD TELL YOU MORE!!)
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14/f if that helps...I have two questions,
1.) What are some good techniques for making out with someone?
2.) What is a good way to avoid bumping teeth while making out?
thanks
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Here is a link that may be helpful:
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
It gives tips for "good kissing"
*Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
*Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
*Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
*Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
*Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
*Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
(THIS IS ALL TAKEN FROM THE SITE!!)
The site also includes kissing tips onto different "kinds of kissing" (french kissing, suck kissing, nip kissing, and suprise kissing)
HOPE THIS HELPS!
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okay i noticed that i was bleeding when i came home from practice tues & today. i don't get my period until later, but it wasn't "spotting" either. i'm not sure if it's from over-exercising er if something's wrong. my period isn't irregular but i have two workouts, weightlifting & basketball in a row. any idea what it is??
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Here is a list of factors that can cause an irregular period (as you can see "overexcerise" is listed) your body may not be use to excerising so much. Wait a little bit and see what happens. If it continues to concern you talk to your doctor, they can give you more advice.
~Significant weight gain or loss
~Overexercise***
~Poor nutrition (or a diet too high in carbohydrates)
~Smoking
~Drug use
~Caffeine
~Excessive alcohol use (interfering with how the liver metabolizes estrogen and progesterone)
~Eating disorders
~Increased stress
~Polycystic ovarian syndrome/Estrogen dominance
~Uterine abnormalities (fibroids/cysts/polyps/endometriosis)
~Hormonal imbalances related to perimenopause
~Medications
~Chemotherapy
Here is a link that may be helpful to you:
http://www.womentowomen.com/menstruation/irregularperiods.asp
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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Okay im 14/f and im about to graduate 8th grade.... well this year has been very stressful for me and i mean latly everyhting has been catching up with me and i think im begeninng to feel the early signs of depression.... i think i need to go to a counsiler.... but i dont know i mean how do i ask my parents to go to a consiler without them freaking out (link)
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My advice is be honest with them (your parents.) Tell them how you are feeling and that you would like to talk to someone about it. Believe it or not many (and i mean many) people talk to counselors/thearpists (i do when im feeling down to!) Talk to your parents calmly and tell them your situation. They should understand. Good-Luck! Hope this helps a lil!
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Do you know anything i can wear (besides strips) that can make me look taller?? (link)
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I found this for you:
Heres is the link if you want to see more:
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Dress-to-Look-Taller&id=13032
TIPS TO APPEAR TALLER (THAN YOU ARE):
1. Dress in the same color from head to toe. Choose a color that is dark and complements your skin tone. Dressing in black or navy is fine as long as the outfit is not tight. Even though black is slimming, if it worn tight it will show bumps that you would rather leave unnoticed.
2. Wear high heels 2 to 21/2 inches to give you extra height. Don’t wear heels that are too high or you will look out of balance.
3. Avoid wearing hats. Hats have a tendency to make you appear shorter.
4. When choosing a sweater avoid those of a bulky nature and opt for those that are thin. As well as bulky sweaters, fur coats or layers of clothes will also create the illusion of pounds and make you appear shorter.
5. Wear clothes that suit your body type and are form fitting. A lot of women believe that loose clothing will make them appear smaller but in reality it does just the opposite. Clothes that are tailored to fit your shape will have a much more slimming effect and will add height.
6. Wear clothes that have vertical lines, such as single-breasted jackets and avoid cropped pants and horizontal lines
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!
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me and my bf had sex about a week ago. i dont even know if you can call it sex though. like he couldnt put it in me. but anyways i am late on my period. he was wearing a condom except he took it off and was messing around and a lil bit of sperm fell on my vigina. could that mean i am pregnant? i had my period 4 a day and then it stopped and i started having discharge a lot of it. i need some help. i am scared and dont know what to do. (link)
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anytime anybit of sperm goes near vagina you are at risk of gettin pregnant. however (heres the good news) there are only a few days a month a female can get pregnant it is usually two weeks after your last period. some females during pregnancy will "spot" which is like your period but shorter and much lighter. if you are really worried go to the doctor and get a blood test done (blood tests can be done earlier then urine tests 2 detect pregnancy.) otherwise just wait it out maybe there are other reason why ur late (stress, weight gain or loss, increase in excerise, etc.)
If you want a free pregnancy test go to http://www.pregnancycenters.org/ there is a hotline to call and they will tell you a pregnancy testing center in your area.
Hope this helps!!
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I tend to flirt with alot of guys. I think its because Im very un-confident && it makes me feel better about my self but also it opens more opertunities relationship wise. The problem is that If one of them asks me out then it feels weird to me being in a relationship and also the guys get mad at me.
I haven`t been asked out but the guy that I fell deeply for is starting to talk to me again && its making me think that what if I do end up throwing all these other relationship possibilities away plus the friendships i have gaind for him && he ends up just using me or something.
I guess my problem is how do I choose one guy to like. But by choosing one guy what if he doesnt like me && i have no chance with him!
what should I do? I cant stop flirting because I do "like" all of these guys a little bit. I just kno ill get screwd over when one of them becomes serious && end up having a relationship
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Ok mz.pimpette u sound just like i was (a couple of yrs ago) i feel you when you say you like the attention from all these guys. you first gotta ask your self are you ready for a relationship? if your having so much fun with all these guys why settle for just one? if what you want is a "real" relationship than your gone have to chose just one of them (i kno it sucks huh?) get to know each of them better than make your decision. Don't hang around with the other guys once your in the realtionship (it's hard at first but you'll get use to it.. eventually!) And make sure to let all these other guys know that you do have a boyfriend (once you chose one of them) and ask them to respect that. Remember if things dont work out between you and the guy you choose there are many more guys out there you can hook up with. hope this helps!
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