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this might be long, but i neeed help!!
((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much shit.
any suggestions on what i should do?
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i feel you on this.. trust me i do! i had this problem a lot when i was younger because i was always dating guys 5-6yrs. older then me. my mom thought the same thing (that they just wanted sex.) however, she was more open into meeting them and getting to know them.
Heres what i suggest:
Sit down and talk with your mom, explain to her what you just said in your question. Suggest compromising with her. An example of this, maybe you could have him over for a "family dinner." or you could all go to the movies together one night. Show and prove to your mom that you are ready to handle a relationship without having to get sexual. I know that sounds bad but make the best of it. My point is that maybe having "family outings" with your boyfriend will allow your mom to get to know him better and see what he is all about. This will make your mom a lil more comfortable because she is there with you. After a few of these "family dates" maybe your mom will trust you and allow you to go out alone with him. Suggest this idea to your mom, see what she says.
Hope this helps!!
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