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home+school arguements. I really need help, please! I will r
Well, i have been having it rough lately in life, and i am getting to the point, like now, to where i dont want to be here anymore, as in Yucaipa!
Yucaipa is so fricken gay, and how people are is gay too!
In Yucaipa it is not like most places, because in most places, there are not people that hang out in groups. Everybody almost everywhere else hangs out with everybody. Dont get me wrong, i have a lot of friends and know almost everybody in the school, but there are not many people like me, that like to hang out with everybody.
Also, at my dads house, i kinda live the cinderella story except for, i have a dad, but i dont have a mom! I have two step sisters, but one is cool and one is not! Anyways, i could go on about my household, but i need to get to the poin, because lots of people dont like to read the long ones.
Well, my step mom is literally psychic and she uses it to harm me, and not to help me, and i just barely found this out like a couple weeks ago, and it is scaring me, to the point to where i cried all night long.
My step mom wrewened my whole life basically to. She cheeted with my dad which made my dad cheat on my mom, and then my mom dies, and she talks crap about her. She is such a BITCH!
Anyways, i dont know what to do, because i really want to live with my sister, which i live with on the weekends, but i dont want to hurt my dads feelings, even though i really dont even know him very well, but still was forced in his power, to live with him.
Does anybody have any ideas for me to leave and live with my sister, i hate living there, because the things that i would see my dad do to my mother when i was younger, and my step mom is crazy.
I really need help, please!
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Reading between the lines, I see a young person who is bitter, angry and hurt because of the cards that have been dealt to her. You will not find happiness by leaving town and moving in with your sister, because happiness starts from within. In other words, what I am saying is, work on your problems, with a therapist or counselor and then decide what direction you want to take in life. You need to learn to put the past behind you, or you won't have a future....no matter where you live.
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I'm really sorry that your having such a hard time with everything. I didnt really understand much of what your saying (maybe you could send me something with a little more detail so I could help you out better), but from what i did understand i really think you should sit and have a talk with your dad and with your sister. Maybe your sister first, to make sure she would be alright with you living with her, and then both of you could go to your dad and talk with him. I don't know if he will agree with allowing you to live with your sister (most dads i kno wouldnt) but you really need to let him know how your feeling. He's your dad and your his daughter, and he will (or should) always put your feelings ahead of anyone elses.
and if u wanna tell me a longer version of the one above then juss let me kno and ill give ya my email address...I really hope things do get better for you.
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You need to talk to someone who is close to you and who can understand what you are going through. You should talk to your dad and tell him you dont care what your stepmom is sayin about your mom and that you dont like it and she needs to stop talkin like that. He should care about what you have to say. YOU ARE his daughter. YOU ARE family. Mention to your dad about living with your sister (if he won't let you live maybe you could stay there longer than weekends.) If you don't talk to him he will never know how you feel. You could even ask him (your dad) to let you "try" living with her (temporary) and see how things go. If he allows this and things work out well maybe he will consider letting you move in permantly.
HOPE THIS HELPS!
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