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^yes or no?

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no


i weigh 200 pounds...and i'm 15 and a girl is that fat? ((this is serious))
please help♄

i dont want advice on how to lose the wieght, cause i didnt ask for that advice.i just want to know if that is seriously overweight. (link)
Well it depends on your height... but i'd say that you're a little overweight. Not like "you're gonna die if you dont lose weight soon" overweight though. If you lost like 20-30 lbs or so, you'd prolly be fine.
hope i helped!


ok..i'm more of a tomboy..and my best friend is a tomboy too. but lately, all the preps and 'popular girls' are getting all the guys. haha. and so me and my best friend decided we were gunna act preppy and shit. and so she got kinda pissed that all the popular girls started liking me and the hottest guy started talking to me. so shes like forget it im not goin prep. but i still like the feeling of being preppy and shit...and so i signed up for basketball cheerleading...im wondering...was this the right thing to do? i mean, she still likes me and everything but i kinda feel weird...plz help. (link)
I dont think it was right. You shouldn't change yourself for guys to like you. If a guy falls for you when you're pretending to be a prep, he'll be falling for a lie. Then it'll all crumble. You'll end up getting your heart broken, just stop what you're doing now. Before it's too late. Tell your friend it was a mistake and that neither of you should change yourselves.
The right guy will come around, don't worry.
hope i helped!


what do you think of meeting people off the internet...

im 16 and hes 17 weve talked online and he is totaly cool and sweet. asked me if we could sit and meet in person..

bad or good idea?

HELP ASAP (link)
i'd say it's a bad idea... but if you really want to, when you meet, bring a friend or two just in case.
good luck!


I have a question concerning a male friend of mine. Well he just had his birthday and me and my two best friends decided to sing a song about him infront of all his friends. He was really touched by the whole thing, and after the song ended he went up to us and gave my two girlfriends a hug, but then when he looked at me he wouldnt give me a hug and he looked really uncomfortable. Well I knew everyone was staring so I gave HIM a hug, otherwise people would have thought something was wrong.
I can't figure out why he had no problem hugging my other friends but wouldnt give me a hug. Then it occured to me that maybe he had feelings for me? Does anyone else have any ideas? (link)
he likes you
unless he was mad at you for some reason.
ask him about it


Hey peeps. I am thinking of becoming a goth. But I have some dilemmas.

1 my mom wont let me be what I wanna be. I know the consequences. I told me mom that I wanted to dye my hair black, and she freaked.
2 I cant get past the metaphores. To goths, gothic sayings may have a meaning but when I hear or see gothic sayings or quotes or whatever, all I see is stuff about blood, guts, and death.
3 Idont know any chain stores that has a lot of gotic clothing and silver jewelry with the gothic sighns.


Help. (link)
ok i know this isn't advice. But you can't just decide to become goth. If that's not something you just DECIDE. And why do you want to become it anyway? b/c it's COOL? b/c it's ALL THE RAGE? Well i guess you're just a fake like everyone else. Why do you want to be labeled? People like you get labeled as POSERS so
GOOD LUCK


Okay well I had this boyfriend and we were only going out for two weeks and then he called me and said that we cant go out anymore. I wasnt that dissapointed because we hadnt been going out for too long. But then my best guy friend sent me their conversation and the kid that dumped me was really mad he did. He only did it because someone told him it would be weird to go out with me. He just asked me out again and I know that he will dump me again because that is what he did last year too. What should i do (link)
Well, i'd have a talk with him first. and ask him if he's willing to do what HE thinks is right and not what his friends think. If you're satisfied with his answer, then say yes. If not, say no. Hope i Helped!


Can anyone tell me what the song "she" by greenday is about? (link)
http://www.greendayauthority.com/TheBand/songmeanings.php

Go there and look for "she" under their album "Dookie"
This site has all of their other songs meanings too. hope i helped!


does anyone have or know or know where i can find any good love poems for teens?
im searching google, but i cant find ones that arent so....for older people. lol.

5's for good assistance =] (link)
www.best-love-poems.com


I got some hatemail in my inbox today. What would you say to the jerk who sent it if it was sent to you? The jerk said I was gay and ugly. Can you help me?
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just ignore it. the guy will get frusterated when you dont respond and he sees that you're not affected by his words.


Hey I know this song is by Fall Out Boy but I just can't figure out what song it is. I've looked and searched but none of the lyrics are right. Can you guys help? Here the only parts I know.

"The pepper something something.." I'm not sure about that part. Heres the other part I know.

"Nothing comes easy when you lay in your bed all day"

Thats all I know. THANKS SO MUCH! I like the beat to the song but I can't figure out what the song is!

Xo Kristen (link)
Nobody puts Baby in the Corner
ROCK ON i love FOB


Anyone now any good songs to play on the guitar.(Acoustic)
We have semester finals,in about 4 weeks.
And we have to play,a song so any ideas?
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Ode to Joy
It's sooooooooo easy
or if you want a faster song with strumming, i reccomend Time of you Life (good riddance). It's easy once you get it. Good luck!


i have this freind that was one of my bestfreinds and now we are as far appart as you can amagine and i have no clue what to do and i tryed to talk to him but he wont take the time to talk to me
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Hmm, well get him in a situation that makes it impossible for him to be talking to anyone else. Call him or something and ask him what's going on and why you've gotten spread apart. But if he doesn't talk then, try again. i'd try at least 3 times but if he still disses you then i'd just give up on him. he doesn't seem worth it. dont worry about it. hope i helped!


hey
I have this gf and we have been together for quite a time now and I feel that we are just freinds and not ever good freinds. so I need to know what to do.

Please help (link)
what do you mean by good friends? like more then friends? Well if you're shy, just dont be. She's your girlfriend, if she didn't like you wouldn't have either asked you out or said yes to you. Just be the flirtacious person inside of you! I know he's there! every guy has one! Don't be scared to hold her or talk to her. IF you are, it'll make it even more uncomfortable for her too.
I think you should talk to her about this too. Make things clear. Ask her if she feels that you need to take things farther. Just don't be shy! hope i helped!


My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?

What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?

x0-
Kelsssss
(K2204) (link)
sounds like a great idea. Just have fun and try not to think about him. Laugh with Kate about old jokes and make new jokes. It'll be fine.
hope i helped!


i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest. (link)
depends on ur height but i'd say you're pretty darn skinny
hope i helped!


ok wait you said the 2nd guy... as in my ex? or did you mean the guy that im open with that like is my "soul mate" im sorry i shoulda used fake names. say the guy that might have said im his hoe is jordan. the ex is james. the older guy is hmm barry? haha wow i dont know. the good freind guy is lee. the "soil mate" guy is joseph... umm my long relatiuon ship dude roger. did i talk aobut anyone else? i tihnk thats all.. if not you can make up a name... so i got kinda lost... sorry.. so who do you think is best? and thanks so much to by the way... (link)
I think i said yes to roger, NO to james, and a reluctant yes to barry. I dont think barry would be a good relationship tho. I strongly disagree with relationships where your in diff. schools. it's just too difficult.
hope i helped!


ok so im torn between guys.. a couple actually. one i know likes me back but theres alot of rumors going around that he just wants 2 get in my pants and some people have said the heard him say im just another one of his hoes... he says its not true but i dont know. and one of the main reasons we arent like a couple is because he like best freinds with my ex.. and were scared he might do something stupid because he claims he loves me... but i dont know. and another guy i like is a year older than me so he goes to high school. he told me he liked me and i told him i like him to and have for a while. he said he doesnt want anything to happen between us because we never see eachother but maybe next year. a different guy i like said we are to good of friends so i tried and tried so hard to get over him and it took me a while and when i finally did move on to the first guy i told you about.. he starts liking me again at this party we both went to and thot aobut asking me out but i didnt no he liked me again and i started to like him again to but figured he felt the same way but then he found out i liked the first guy and now hes all mad at me. but theres this one guy. i dont really know if i like him. hes one of my best friends.. im open with him aobut EVERYTHING. and he is with me to. and we both always talk aobut how we are going to do most of our firsts together since were best frinds and we know that we can be honest and open with him. i dont really like him but ive had like dreams about me when im older and stuff and hes always thee. and whenever i make wishes and stuff i sometimes say stuff like i wish the next person to call me... talk to me... IM me etc. etc. is the person that i love and loves me in return and i can trust with all my heart. its always him.. even the IM one and he rarley ever gets on. does that mean like its a HUGE coincidence... or we love eachother as best frends or are we like i dont know... soul mates or something. and if we are "soul mates" then should i wait till im oldder for him and take the risk of losing him to someone else.. or should i make a move now with the risk of screwing everything up and losing him now...

i dont know what you can help me with... but at least i got it all off my chest.

sorry its so long

- a very confused teen 13/f (link)
well for one, forget the 1st guy. He seems like a jerk. But i think you shouldn't go any farther then friends with the guy that's one of your best friends. but that's just me. It depends, sometimes best friends become the best couples b/c your so comfortable with eachother. I think your in denial about liking this guy. it's humanly impossible to have a best guy friend and not end up liking him.
And with the older guy, i dont reccomend hooking up with him any time soon unless your willing to trust him to not be flirting with other girls when your not around, which would be A LOT. I'm not a fan of relationships of different ages until your out of school, it's just too hard.
So basically, i'd say no to the first guy, yes to the 2nd and a VERY reluctant yes for the older guy. I think that the 2nd guy would work most. But prepare for a wierd friendship if you breakup.
hope i helped!!!!!


hi im in algebra to and ihave this really hard math problem its a word problem and i was wondering if any one was out there that is really good in math and if you are please help i will rate high THANKS SO MUCH (link)
i'm pretty good at math, bring it. sorry if i dont get it tho.


ok well a guy is switching schools on friday so i wrote him a letter about how i feel but i signed it as anonymous. it tells exactly how i feel about him. shouldi leave it how it is or put my actual name on it plaese help. i rate high (link)
put your name on it!!! even if he doesn't feel the same, the embarrasement will move away with him. just go for it! you'll feel awful if he ended up liking you and you didn't know.




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