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confused teen
ok so im torn between guys.. a couple actually. one i know likes me back but theres alot of rumors going around that he just wants 2 get in my pants and some people have said the heard him say im just another one of his hoes... he says its not true but i dont know. and one of the main reasons we arent like a couple is because he like best freinds with my ex.. and were scared he might do something stupid because he claims he loves me... but i dont know. and another guy i like is a year older than me so he goes to high school. he told me he liked me and i told him i like him to and have for a while. he said he doesnt want anything to happen between us because we never see eachother but maybe next year. a different guy i like said we are to good of friends so i tried and tried so hard to get over him and it took me a while and when i finally did move on to the first guy i told you about.. he starts liking me again at this party we both went to and thot aobut asking me out but i didnt no he liked me again and i started to like him again to but figured he felt the same way but then he found out i liked the first guy and now hes all mad at me. but theres this one guy. i dont really know if i like him. hes one of my best friends.. im open with him aobut EVERYTHING. and he is with me to. and we both always talk aobut how we are going to do most of our firsts together since were best frinds and we know that we can be honest and open with him. i dont really like him but ive had like dreams about me when im older and stuff and hes always thee. and whenever i make wishes and stuff i sometimes say stuff like i wish the next person to call me... talk to me... IM me etc. etc. is the person that i love and loves me in return and i can trust with all my heart. its always him.. even the IM one and he rarley ever gets on. does that mean like its a HUGE coincidence... or we love eachother as best frends or are we like i dont know... soul mates or something. and if we are "soul mates" then should i wait till im oldder for him and take the risk of losing him to someone else.. or should i make a move now with the risk of screwing everything up and losing him now...
i dont know what you can help me with... but at least i got it all off my chest.
sorry its so long
- a very confused teen 13/f
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well for one, forget the 1st guy. He seems like a jerk. But i think you shouldn't go any farther then friends with the guy that's one of your best friends. but that's just me. It depends, sometimes best friends become the best couples b/c your so comfortable with eachother. I think your in denial about liking this guy. it's humanly impossible to have a best guy friend and not end up liking him.
And with the older guy, i dont reccomend hooking up with him any time soon unless your willing to trust him to not be flirting with other girls when your not around, which would be A LOT. I'm not a fan of relationships of different ages until your out of school, it's just too hard.
So basically, i'd say no to the first guy, yes to the 2nd and a VERY reluctant yes for the older guy. I think that the 2nd guy would work most. But prepare for a wierd friendship if you breakup.
hope i helped!!!!!
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