I go back 3 years ago me and Elvia were really good friends.then my 7th grade came and she met a girl name Marissa, they became best friends and things between them went from good to fighting every week she always came to me and told me what happen and what she should do i told her to just stop being friends like every week and she always did the opposite thing like now. A year pass it was new years and the hole time i spend talking to her.After that day weeks past and a month or two pass and didnt talk and it wasnt normal cause we would text every single day.Then one day she gave me a note in school that said she was really sorry for not being here for me and i forgived her.Then again a month went by and she texted me and i didnt reply because i was mad because i just felt like she just wanted to use me for when she needed help with her best friend,then the next day i texted her back and i told her i was mad at her and thats why i didnt text her back but i told her i was playig but i really wasnt then she said i dont believe you and i said ok i dont believe anything you say and she got mad.It has been 3 weeks and i always see her in school and we always look at eachother and just walk away,i really miss her cause even though she has a best friend that hates me i think as her as my best friend and i dont know if i should just move on or talk to her.Please help me.
everyone goes through the problems with there best friend. My best friend didn't used to think of me as her best friend and it hurt really bad. I found myself not wanting to hang around with them because i was jealous. Since you feel she is your best friend hang in there because i can tell she means a lot to you. If you want to test and make sure you can buy a necklace of a braclet the kind that has best friends on it and give her one and see how she reacts. Tell her that you don't want the whole texting thing to ruin your friendship. Tell her that you know that her and marissa are best friends but you want to be her friend to. Tell her that your friendship means a lot to you and that you want to leave the past in the past. Try hanging ot with her and Marissa even though you don't like marissa it will show her that you are willing to sacrifice and comit. I would also strongly suggest to find a few other friends to hang with so you wont be all alone. good luck.
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Hi,I'm a 18 yr old female and I have a question that I need some opinions on.
Okay so there's this guy who i knew since last year but we started talking since March 1st and we've been talking everyday since then. I've gotten to know him a bit and he seems like a nice guy and eventually i started catching feelings for him(because i fall for people easily).I was kind of getting the feeling that he likes me because he would tell me that i'm pretty,he asked for my number so we exchanged numbers, he would talk to me everyday on MSN(he would always be the one to message me first), he would flirt with me saying that I'm sexy or that i looked nice today at school and he told me that even if he was sad, my hugs would make him happy because he likes my hugs, that kind of stuff.
But lately it seems as if he wanted to know if i like him because he would ask me in subtle ways and like today he told me on MSN that his friend thinks that I like him but he didn't think so, so then I told him that his friend is right but i didn't want to tell him just yet because i felt that it was too soon and it was over MSN. But I told him that i didn't want to tell him as yet because i didn't want to make things awkward btwn us but he said that's he's kool with it and that things doesn't have to change if i don't want it to. But I kinda regret telling him because he didn't tell me how he feels about me...if he likes me as a friend or more. Thing is, i'm having a late start at my school this wednesday and last night i was flirting with him about wanting to cuddle with him so he told me that it could be arranged and he also suggested that it would be on wednesday that we would cuddle. so i said okay, but now i don't even know if that's a good idea because what if he doesn't like me? i just don't want to get hurt again because this happened to me before. I hope you guys understand my situation...what do you guys think about all of this?
wow, i would say that he must like you if he wants to cuddle with you. It also wasn't a mistake letting him know how you feel. It may have been a little lame doing it over MSN but you expressed you feelings for him. Try and find a few ways to ask him if he likes you. If you are the shy time ask one of your friends to do it or even ask the friend who told him that you like him. I think you should just follow your heart. I mean if you want to go cuddle with him go cuddle. But if you are having second thoughts then maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Everything happens for a reason. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. But if it is it will just happen and i am pretty sure you'll feel confident about it
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Thanks for answering my question but I forgot to add details to it. She also cheated on me but she always broke up w| me to go with this other guy. I know what she did is wrong, but I can't let her go. I want to fight for her love. But I'm unsure if she feels the same. I'm trying to give her time before we talk again & well I can't stop thinking about' her. Feels like am living in this crazy nightmare.
Wow, that's deep i mean since you love her so much want whats best for her. express how you feel and if she rejects you she doesn't deserve you. At first it will be hard but finally you will move on. She's into the other guy and happy and even though she is not with you, you want her to be happy because you love her. Please try to fight for your love but if she doesn't feel the same why try and move on
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Well there's this girl I love, she cheated on me while she's away & despite what she did I still love her & miss her & want her back. Should I fight for her love ? What should I do ?
You must really love her if you are wanting her back after what she did. So this means that you should give her another shot. I would also suggest telling her how you feel. It also might not be a good idea to take her back if she doesn't feel the same way. If you love her as much as you say you do then you will want the best for her and for her to be happy. It is bound to take time to get over the person that you love but i can be done.
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I resently asked a question about If I shuld go out with my best frend of 3years. And you all said yes. So I hav another question. How do I actually ask him out. We txt all the time and somtimes it's really perverted things. Like him" haha" me " ur so mean" him " you like it like that." and there was also another one not too long ago. Me "did you start ur project yet." him "not even close" me "ur Gunnar get an F" him "ya an F in duin you." so could I ask him during during one of the perverted txts. But then there's another problem. Wenever we txt it's lik he's a different person. And then wen I c him........I'm disappointed. Is that bad.
Ok, don't feel like your bad for being disappointed. I mean but maybe he only texts like that because he is really into you. I would suggest you having one of ur friends asking him out or even one of his friends. Or even do it yourself. I wouldn't suggest sending threw a text because that's just tacky
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There is this guy I have my eye on. I'm in 7th grade. Some what pretty. We talk and stuff and mess around. But he is going out with my best friend!!! So I know this is going to sound soo stuck up but is there anyway I can get him to like me, because i dont think she is good for him. We were doing a school performance and him and i were backstage hanging out and it was dark and he reached over and held my hand and scooted closer. and asked if i had a bf. I thought he liked me... what should i do???
ok, so your in a rut. Totally been there. I think it truly depends on how bad yo want this guy. I mean if you are willing to risk a best friend for him you must be head over heels. First decide who means the most to you. I am pretty sure he likes you to but do you feel like you should tell your friend what he did? I think you don't sound stuck up you really care about this guy in order for you to say that your bestie is not good for him. Tell them both how you feel..... good luck
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Female,13.Hey , umm I like this guy and I flirted with him and he flirted back, but when I asked him out he wasnt single!!!! So I was crushed. Then next semester, he still wasn't single and he started flirting with my play sister and his play brother started flirting with me so then a few months after that, my new crush asked my play sister out and said yes. Now she isn't single, im single, my ex crushes arnt single, and im the only one ,and another one of my play sisters in the clique, are single. So should I be jealous of them who have bf's and gf's?
Ok, i have been there and done that. Please don't be jealous of them your time will come. If it was meant to be then it would have just happen.
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