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I told my friend that I like him...not sure if i should have
Hi,I'm a 18 yr old female and I have a question that I need some opinions on.
Okay so there's this guy who i knew since last year but we started talking since March 1st and we've been talking everyday since then. I've gotten to know him a bit and he seems like a nice guy and eventually i started catching feelings for him(because i fall for people easily).I was kind of getting the feeling that he likes me because he would tell me that i'm pretty,he asked for my number so we exchanged numbers, he would talk to me everyday on MSN(he would always be the one to message me first), he would flirt with me saying that I'm sexy or that i looked nice today at school and he told me that even if he was sad, my hugs would make him happy because he likes my hugs, that kind of stuff.
But lately it seems as if he wanted to know if i like him because he would ask me in subtle ways and like today he told me on MSN that his friend thinks that I like him but he didn't think so, so then I told him that his friend is right but i didn't want to tell him just yet because i felt that it was too soon and it was over MSN. But I told him that i didn't want to tell him as yet because i didn't want to make things awkward btwn us but he said that's he's kool with it and that things doesn't have to change if i don't want it to. But I kinda regret telling him because he didn't tell me how he feels about me...if he likes me as a friend or more. Thing is, i'm having a late start at my school this wednesday and last night i was flirting with him about wanting to cuddle with him so he told me that it could be arranged and he also suggested that it would be on wednesday that we would cuddle. so i said okay, but now i don't even know if that's a good idea because what if he doesn't like me? i just don't want to get hurt again because this happened to me before. I hope you guys understand my situation...what do you guys think about all of this?
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wow, i would say that he must like you if he wants to cuddle with you. It also wasn't a mistake letting him know how you feel. It may have been a little lame doing it over MSN but you expressed you feelings for him. Try and find a few ways to ask him if he likes you. If you are the shy time ask one of your friends to do it or even ask the friend who told him that you like him. I think you should just follow your heart. I mean if you want to go cuddle with him go cuddle. But if you are having second thoughts then maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Everything happens for a reason. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. But if it is it will just happen and i am pretty sure you'll feel confident about it
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If he wants to cuddle he obviously wants you
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He wants you.
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