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howdy yall,im a really good listener im caring and loving but if u ask a stupid qoustion youll get a stupid answer i dont care what you think about me or anything like that but you can know that ill tell you the truth dont lie never had. im fourteen from bama baby i love the south, football, and nascar i know im a redneck but thats ok so need help on somethin ask me ~hugs and kisses~
leah
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i asked my friend if he was goin to the school dance and he he said because he had no one to go with i really like him should i ask him to go with me ? or maybe wait to see if he asks me to the dance ? and what should i wear ?
ask him wear something elegant
Im 15 and this Girl that i like is 17, i will be 16 in june. she is a junior and i am a freshman, is their anything wrong with us being together? And how should i ask my parents what they think about this?
theres nuttin wrong with it becuase gurls do it all the time whats the differnce when a guys dates an older gurl. Just tell ur parents
my top lip is bigger than my bottom lip. i dont know what to do about it and idont want to get surgery done because im only 14 years old. and im sorry but i am not going to the doctors either. so any advice on making my top lip a little bit smaller? thanks
god gave you those lips why would you want to change them>?
So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!
*Im 14 by the way and female*
if she said it was ok then dont worry about it. If you still are worried then have a gurls night out
14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!
I have the same problem last year just ignore her and avoide. Shes probly just mad becuase that guy is sticking up for you dont worry bout her eventualy shell get bored a get a new victim
hey..there is this guy who i have liked for a little awhile now. We say hi and smile at each other n stuff...and my friend who is friends with him said that she thinks he likes me and that he sed that he wud ask me out wen he gets to know me..but that was a few weeks ago and he had sed he would try to get to know me..i know hes really shy..and i imed him and he talked a little but i can't really tell if he likes me..what should i do? and do you think he likes me?
i thinkn you should give him some time he needs to think about he may be confused know what i mean
Ok, I go to the tanning beds when I get really pale in the winter and am desperate to get some color back into my face. My only problem is the "tan" (burntness color) that my face gets fades in like 2 days. I wear a little bit of foundation, just a few dots to cover up blemishes and eye makeup but other than that I try not to wear a lot. What can I do to make the tan last? I know so many girls that go to the beds and they are always tan but I can't stay that way like they do.... please helppp
at most tanning places they have this stuff thats suppose to help u stay tan longer ask next time u go
For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think?
m gu freinds tell me for a good time they go for a slut but for a marriage they look for a virgin.
ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do?
ok i havent either give it time something will happen
My brothers friend is threatening to kill us and himself about something he can't prevent. He is upset because he thinks his friend told us his "secret" which is not true. We need major advice as soon as possible. He told us not to tell anyone or he would kill us and himself. WE NEED HELP! PLEASE!
you need to tell someone this guy need to be put in a mental hospital before he hurts you or him he needs serious counseling
I think about sex all the time.....but i know if it came down to doing it i wouldnt do it...I dont want to have sex but i think about it all tha time....im plannin on waitin until marriage...but wat do these thoughts mean?
its completey normal most poeple have those thought if u didnt i would kinda be worried but its completey normal
Dear advice giver people,
I have this friend who has just gotten out of a relationship like 4 or 5 months ago. She broke up with the guy so that's all good. Ok, so then I liked this dude Billy right? Ok, well she decides that he's a sweetheart & goes for him. Well, that doesnt bother me because I have a boyfriend & I stopped liking Billy like forever ago. Me & Billy are still like close friends though & he was telling me how he was going to ask Jessica out & all. So being the girlfriend I am, I told Jess EVERYTHING he said. Now she will NOT stop talking about him. I'm serious. We could be watching TV & she's like, I miss Billy. Ok, well, then I mention my boyfriend like maybe 3 times that whole day. Ok, then she was talking to one of my other friends and she like, "She talks about *Joe WAY too much." Ok, Im sittin there like WHAT THE HELL you kno. So I dont know WHAT to do.
Sorry it's forever long!!
act like youre interested at some point shell get bored
ok.. i have like.. the worlds worst father.. he has no pics of me or my 2 siblings in his house.. he gave my PS2 to my step brother.. he bought me a 50$ present for chrissy and thats it.. he didnt want me to get my car lisence, and he said the job that took me half a year to get is unsecure and crap (22$ and hour -making all things plastic in cars(holdens for you in aus)) what should i do about this? atm i see him about once every six months...
ok my dad ust to do that but i quite talking to him and seein him he was really sad but i had to go it know its like he loves me more when he dont he just didnt show it before
I seem to attract women who are not currently single.
This wouldn't be such a delima if I didn't fall for them when they seduce me, but I seem to do that too.
It's happening again now, for the 3rd time in my life! I know morally I should avoid the situation, but it's too late for that now, I'm in knee deep. What should I do?
age/gender, huh? I'm an adult Male.
youre gonna end up gettin youre ass kicked if you dont whatch out you really need to avoide the situation but sense that aint happen you need to leave the gurl or tell her to make a choice you or him
A couple weeks ago, I had a dream that my guy friend kissed me. I woke up not wanting it to stop and I was really mad that it was just a dream. I started to think that maybe I had feelings for him just a bit and when I saw him a few days after that I was acting all weird and shy. I dunno what I should do. I'm too scared to talk to him!
xxx Keely
dreams are a person feelings and emotions maybe you do have a crush on him but the trouble talking think abut how easy it was to talk to him before just give yourself a confidence bost
im only 13 and i already had sex with my boyfriend ..... do that mean im a slut cuz like every1 in my school found out cuz my boyfriend told his brother and he told other people and now every1 is callin me a slut and a whore but i really love my boyfriend.....what should i do???
dont listen to em there jerks and ur not a slut or a whore
is it alright to not tell your mother baout your period for a few months, because i know if i tell her she will get all emotional and cry and be all my lil baby is growing up and now we have a special bond. i am the only daughter with 2 older brothers. im al right on getting pad and stuff....im just wondering if its safe to not tell for a few months plz help!
ofcourse but u should no itll hurt her feelings but as long as you watch it and make sure its normal you should be ok
Ok my best friend is soooooo awsome!.... i love her to death, but this new school year i noticed she really grew up like shes dressing more preppy wearing more make up and stuff, and im perfectly fin with that but she also made cheerleading and im fine with that too exept in my school if yopur a cheer leader then your queen. were not popular (and she didnt become a CHerleader cus shes popular, she just has talent)but now that shes a cheerleader all of the other popular people are being all nice trying to get in good cus shes a CL and now guys are becomeing in love with her because shes a CL. im happy for her and all, but im just afraid that shes going to become real popular and since i know i ll never be popular, i think she might gradually leaver me behind... i know she likes the attention....buti just dont want to be left behind and i dont think theres a way to get the popular people to like me . does this sound selfish of me? or what do you think I RATE! sorry its so long
ps and please dont tell me " if shes a real friend she wont leave you" cus shes a great friend and i no she like the attaention and i think over time ill just be pushed away.
ok i have a best freind to but she went the other way from popular down i became best freinds with her when she was popular now that shes not were still freinds she wont leave you behind (if shes a good friend) like me and my best friend say were in it till the end and for us theres no end lol
if you get a fake tan do they look kind of obvious and people will be able to tell that they are fake? (im talking about the kind of tan that you get and get done at the salon, not the one you can buy at a store and put on yourself)
no of course not it acts just like the sun
I love this guy so much. His name is Ryan and he lives in Florida, I live in Texas. We talk to each other on the internet and on the phone and we've gotten in alot of fights and he would tell me sweet things like "Molly, you're so perfect I love you" and my friends tell me not to feed off of his words but I can't help it! He's in love with another girl but she lives far away too. I love him sooooo much and I'm in love with him but it's stupid cause I haven't even met him. And I know he doesn't love me back. Please help!
ok first of all its not a good idea to fall in love wit someone youve never met secondley he could be some perv but i think he is just a player and u really dont need him i bet he tells the other girl the same things he says to you