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OK, there are 2 parts to this. There is this guy at my school that I really like and I know he likes me back!! But I don't know how to tell him!! I had a crush on him since last year and people say I should ask him out. But you see, I have NEVER been on a date and I'm 13 years old!! Everytime I think about him I feel like I want to kiss him so badly. He just got a haircut and now he looks even cuter, that it's driving me crazy!! OK, the 2nd part is that ever since these 2 girls found out that we liked each other they have been teasing like "So, how's your boyfriend?" He has been acting weird like we used to flirt a lot and he would always smile at me and do nice things to me now he doesn't do that anymore!! Do you think he dosn't like me no more!!?? PLEASE TELL ME!! Sorry it's so long!! (link)
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Ok well coming from a guy i think he just might be shy and that he might not want to get embarressed with out knowin u like him. If you ask me u should definetly tell him i think he still likes you.
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ok so i asked you guys adivce earlier on what i should get my bf of 2 years for x-mas, and most of you said i should make a scrapbook. i think that's a really good idea, but i really have no idea how to make one! i was also thinking about taking 12 pics of us to kinkos and making a calendar out of it. guys opinions here would be good, but girls are welcome too. which do you think would be better? how should i go about making the scrapbook? thanks (link)
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Guys pount of view---- I think the calender is a great idea but maybe u could have some pics of just you instead of the same one.
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A boy at school is really attracted to me...but I have a boyfriend. But this other guy always asks me how I feel and thinks I'm his friend.It really creeps me out with some of the stuff he does. He calls my house everytime I'm upset with my boyfriend. And I neva know what to say so he invited himself over once. I was mad at my boyfriend so I kissed him. Then my boyfriend found out and got really mad and punched him. He tried to break us up before by telling me lies about what he said about me. At once...I thought that I really liked him. I have no idea what to do? Please help me. (link)
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Well you should tell the other guy if you're not his friend and then tell him to back off maybe he doesn't know and as for the lies maybe he didn't know what he was sayin.
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There's this guy at school and I really like him. But the problem is I'm goin out with some1.Those 2 r really good friends though. I can't decide who I like more. I've been trying to decide who i like more, but i know it is is lose lose situation. it is because my boyfriend would get mad at his friend and if I choose the friend then he would lose a friend and gain a girlfriend. I am extremely confused... can you help me???
If you do i wanna go out with you meet me at morgan park on December 6th at 4:00 (link)
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hey i think you should figure out who you like more and idk where morgan park is so leave me another message so we could meet up somewhere more convienent.
addition: Also give the friend the choice because he may want to know because maybe he likes you too.
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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
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Let me spell this out D-U-M-P H-I-M. you dont need to put up with things like that.
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At the school dance the other night, i danced with one of my good friends who i found out liked me..and he's going to ask me out. I like him a lot as a friend and i think that I would like to give dating him a shot. Trouble is, my best friend really likes him. He doesn't like her in that way, and my best friend is a great friend to me and everybody else...now people are telling me that i shouldn't have danced with him because it was a mean thing to do to my best friend.What do i do about this whole situation? (link)
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Don't worry about it if your friend is really a good friend she wont care and she'll see that you two like each other.
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ok my bestest friend the world ((lets call her D)) is going out w/ one of my Really close guy friends ((lets call him C)) and yesterday, D was talking to one of C's friends, let's call him J..and D said "if you tell me what C's getting me for christmas, i'll do Anything" and after awhile of persauding, J asked to makeout. and then eventually D and J both admited they had feelings for eachother. and they were all like planning where and when they were gonna do it. and J never even told her what C got her! and then D said to J "i think i'm just gonna dump C after all this, bc i like you more" so my question is, should i tell C..me and him are Really Really close..but on the other hand D is my BESTfriend and she'd get mad if i told him..ahhh helpppp I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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I think you should wait until D dumps him but then if he wants to know why i think you should tell him after all he is your friend. And if your worried about D dont sweat it if she's your friend she'll understand that you told him because he is your friend.
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There's this guy "Ethan" and i liked him alot over the summer, but then at school it got around to me that he didn't like me anymore and so i thought okay ill just not seem interested bc guys usually come back to what they now know they can't have. Well that's when he started coming back around and wanting to talk and everything and i of course got excited. Then once we started talking again it wasnt much but it was something. i guess i just wanted it to go back to how it was over the summer. so i suppose i got in the habit of ignoring him going back to the belief that he'd show me more attention but now he's not noticing me much anymore either. What can i do to get him back to talk/notice/like me? (link)
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just go up to him and talk to him and flirt and stuff if you go and talk to him he'll show u more attention
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Do guys want a girl who's like all energetic and talkitive and flirty? Cuz its seems like they are the ones getting all the attention. I'm shy so nothing's working for me. What's going on in ur heads guys? (link)
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Being shy is fine but you have to show that your interested! Us guys have huge egos and a lot of pride. Most of us want to know you like them before they ask you out.
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there this boy in my school who i have the biggest crush. Sometimes i think he likes me too but i can never truly tell. I want to ask him out but i am sooo scared of being rejected! but i mean i will never know unless i ask...right!! give me advice!! please help! (link)
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Ask! then you'll know how he feels. otherwise you'll keep wonderin "what if".
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What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self?? (link)
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Um let me think... Tell him already!!!! If you have feelings for him you need to tell him otherwise you'll keep wondering what if.
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ok i have a BIG problem..2 extreemely wonderful guys like me. and i like them both. and i just cant seem to choose! 1 of them is very outgoin, funny, and if i were ever shy , it wouldnt matter cuz he's always under control, and loves to take risks. the ther 1 is more shyer, and also funny, but not very risktaking..which one should i choose? HELP!!!!!!!
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You need to give more info. maybe compare the 2. which one can u count on and which one is nicer?
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ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx (link)
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Your boyfriend doesn't have a right!! As long as he knows that you r only interested in him!!
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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl? (link)
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Be his friend! That way when he breaks up w/ his gf if u still have feelins for him u can ask him out and he would be comfortable with you and might have feelins for u.
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my friends and i all hang out with the same group of guys all the time. ive liked one of the guys(greg) on and off since like last february. we went out for about a month(it was a pointless relationship cuz i only saw him like 4 times) antways, i recently found out from my friend that another kid in our little group, lets call him kyle, likes me. im not sure if kyle really likes me and ive never really tohught of him as more than a friend, but he is very cute and nice. lately, ive been thinking less about greg and ive been considering the possibilities with kyle. ive liked greg so much for so long and i dont think he likes me back. i dont want to start liking kyle just cuz he likes me, and also im afraid if something happens with me and kyle, ill still get jealous of other girls who like greg..... sorry its kinda confusing but i need help! xOx thanks in advance :) (link)
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In my opinion u need to take a chance with kyle. He won't always like u so u have to take evry opportunity u get. "The greatest risk is not taking one"
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okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =] (link)
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Ok u probably didn't realize how much u liked him until he was gone. This happens a lot and u need to just talk to him and let him know how u feel.
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my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. He's a great guy, dont get me wrong, and i love him... but we have been together a long time and the cracks are starting to show. To top it off there is another guy i am interested in, and it has been heating up slowly for a while now with him. I am really attracted to him. I dont know whether to risk it and get with the new guy, or stay with what i know...what do i do? (link)
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A great quote said "The greatest risk is not taking one"
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So u should take chances otherwise your gonna wonder "what if" and that other guy might not be ther forever. In the end its up to you.
Be careful and good luck
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Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
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First of all thank you for your service to our country. And as for your question i think that you should go for it. Especially during the war u'll need someone to count on and she'll be there for you.
thanx again
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i never see my bf at school. how do i change that? and when i see him outside of school he wont even give me a hug. plz help (link)
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Maybe he's shy. go and talk to him. and if i dont work he aint worth it.
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Ok so I just found my boyfriend i guess well I found is coulmn , and he said he was single, he just broke HEART Im crying now! And I don't think he wants to talk to me now this is for the guys , what makes a guy want a gurl or whatdo guys look in gurls so I can find someone??
THis is JJ15 PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Maybe ur BF hasn't updated his column lately!
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