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Q: I've been getting my period for close to 5 years now and the first 4 years I had it, it was completely regular. I'd get it exactly every 29 or 30 days, so If I didn't get it on the 29th day, it would be the day after. Starting in about March of this year, it was completely irregular. Normally I'd be prepared about when I'd get it, but I'd go to the bathroom 2 weeks after my last period and I started bleeding again. Then for 2 months it would come exactly on the 22nd. After I had a pregnancy scare, it's been coming whenever the hell it feels like it. I am now (according to my 29 day cycle) 5 or 6 days late. The last time I was sexually active was a week BEFORE my last period, and I did get my period that time. But I'm just trying to figure out what the hell is up with it! It's so frustrating! I will PMS for over 2 weeks and still no sign of my period! Does anyone have suggestions on what to do?
You could talk to your gyno about birth control because that helps regulate your period.

Q: ok for my friends birthday i was thinking of having a big campfire at my house after we go out for dinner. problem is...the fireplace i have is too small..

if i make a fireplace in the open more..would it be safe ? because its all grassy where i want to make it. what if i get rid of all the grass?

any ideas on what we can do at this big campfire thing to make it memorable?
If you have like a little bbq grill, thats big and round it would work perfectly.

Q: hey there, im seriously feeling sick, what do i do about this guy, i slept with him a few days bak, an we aint spoken since, shal i contact him?? i feel so used.. help me some one, i feel so alone
Don't call him or anything. Because if he did just use you then he'll know that you are hurt by it, and you don't want him to know that.

Q: i dont know if i should dye my hair darker or lighter. I want a big change but i dont know what to do. I just dont want it to look bad. If i go a shade lighter with blonde highlights my hair will probably be dirty blonde or blonde. If i go darker, i'd go to my natural color which is dark brown. Does anyone have any advice on what i should do??
I think because your hair is already dark because its brown that you should go lighter.

Q: I am a 22 year old stay at home mom to 2 little girls. Ages 3 and 18 months. My house always lookslike a cyclone has just passed through no matter how much I go behind everyone a clean. Lately, I have felt so unappreciated and just don't have the urge or the energy to keep the house clean like I want to. Sometimes I make myself get up and start cleaning, but within a few minutes I'm back on the couch or in front of the computer avoiding the work that needs done. Anyone have any advice on something I can do to motivate myself to get this place spic and span like I want it and keep it that way???
You could maybe have a reward for yourself at the end. Like buy your favorite candy but have it where you can't eat it till you clean the house. Also if you live with a boyfriend/husband or something, tell him that you feel unappreciated, and that it would be nice that he could help out a little or take you to dinner or out to see a movie.

Q: hey!
i'm on a diet where i'm really watching what i eat, and not eating junk food or anything any more! but it's 9:35 at night..and i'm hungry! what can i have that won't cause me to gain weight? we don't have alot.. but suggestions would be soo helpful!
A bowl of cereal that has oats in it. Maybe some oat meal. I would tell you more but I can't think of any right now.

Q: are saltine crackers and pretzals really healthy for you?? or are they just as bad as chips?
I don't know about saltines, but I know for sure that pretzals are way better for you than chips.

Q: i need help. how can i make my face look nicer, clearer by saturday ? ... its wednesday today. oh HOME REMEDIES ONLY PLEASE!!! i dont have time to go to the store
tooth paste.

Q: ... ehhh

how do you know if you're dehydrated?
answers asap woul dbe greatly appreciated.
You feel really sick and tired. You might also pass out and throw up alot.

Q: I need a LIL help well this year im a senior and I need I good senior prank. We have some inmiend but I think that we could do better. you see We want to have a chane of pranks.
Help I will rate you.
Chelly
Thats really sad that your going to be a senior and yet you can't spell.

Q: im 13/f .. my friend whos 16 has a girlfriend that is 18.. she is cool... i want to go out sometime like to eat or whatever wit her cuz we are friends... but i feel odd callin her.. i sent her 2 txt messages and now i feel like im bein a bother... she told his mom juss to tell me to stop sendnin a lot of messga. to her.... wut should i do?
Ah, leave her alone maybe.

Q: well me and my boyfriend had sex and that night i was bleeding really bad and it wouldnt stop. i had to tell my dad i had my period because the blood got all in my sheets. is that normal because i dont think it is because it didnt happen to any of my friends. what happened. why did that happen?
I'm not 100% on this but I'm pretty sure it is normal. And that maybe instead of just breaking your hyman (which only causes you to bleed a little) he might have been a little rough and torn the opening of the hole. If thats the case then it should just heal on its own as long as you don't have sex again for awhile.

Q: I think my gf is gonna break up with me, but i dont know. i rewally like her. but i dont think she likes me that much, thanks in advance.



13/m
And your question is...

Q: does anyone know any cool teen sites?
http://kiwibox.com

Q: I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?
No, don't be worried. He shouldn't care one way or another if you have brances because it doesn't matter when you kiss.

Q: Anyone know any good ska bands? or punk band?
Rancid, Operation Ivy, The Casuaties, The Vandals, Minor Threat, Anti-Flag, Pennywise, Dropkick Murphys, Black Flag, The Dead Kenneyds, U.S. Bombs, Swingin' Utters, Global Threat.
Heres a link to ska bands http://www.users.cloud9.net/~dab/ska.html
A link to ska/punk bands
http://fatwreck.com/bands.php3?sd=QuGwjtHRMXIAABvEOms

Q: hey i just wanted to kno do u HAVE to floss with braces? i never flossed before and my teeth r fine the dentist said im a good brusher and there's like no plaque in my teeth (lol) plz help! i rate high!
Yes you HAVE to floss with braces. Its a pain in the ass though so I do it once every few days, which is fine. I've seen people who don't and its nasty because its really hard to clean the plaque off when the braces are there. And it doesn't break the wire thats pretty much impossible.

Q: my photobucket account was deleted! I was on there this morning...uploading pictures...now I try to sign in and it says there no such account. I DO have the right username and password. and I had pictures on my myspace from my photobucket that arent there anymore. HELP!
Haha you suck.

Q: What does Breaking wind mean?
You need to get out more.

Q: i aLways want to get my hair like this but it never works w/ a curling iron..any other alternatives or ideas? thankss
http://www.actustar.com/photos/messingdebra1.jpg
Curlers, like the plastic ones.

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my favorite thing to do is ride my bike around on nice spring days.

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