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15/f
So here it goes, I am going out with this kid and He smokes Weed and Ciggarettes, I dont like that he smokes but when I look into his eyes I forget about it all, I know I love him with all my heart, but hes hurting himself bad with the smoking. He tells mehe loves me everyday. We have already broken uponce because he doesnt wanna get me into the drugs and ruine my life, but less then a week later we were both depressed and didnt know what to do other then go out again, we were both miserable without eachother! He said hes gonna try to stop smoking, but hes not going to, I can tell. Like I said I love him and he loves me. Im not sure what to do. I cant break up with him I just cant do it, I cant hurt him or myself that bad! What am I gonna do???!!!! (link)
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just don't start doing it no matter how much he does, and always be there for him and help him with his problem.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for just about 2 years (nearly there, in 2 months) but my dad always says, "it'll never last". We are both smart students, even though we're young, and we want to go to top universities in a years time (he is 17 and I am 16 - theres a 9 month gap and we are both in the same year at school). The thing is, its been almost two years and I feel its trivial for my dad to keep on saying this and so stubbornly denying that we could ever last. I don't feel like I'll ever break up with him (now I know that is what everyone says but I really have no desire to be with other guys, or experiment, or anything) we have both a great time with eachother as friends, help eachother out all the time, have the fair few petty arguments and also a great sex life (its legal from 16 here in the UK guys, so no lectures). Everyone says that 'love' at this stage in life, however, is not Love at all. I want to know a) if anyone here has been able to last since their teen years (I want to know if its possible! My parents never had a happy marriage and that scares me into thinking I'll always be as discontented with my relationships as they both were) and also b) if a long distance relationship (but seeing eachother at regular intervals) has ever, ever worked.
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my parents met in highschool and immediately started going out. my mom was 14 and my dad was 15 when they started dating. they've only taken a break once, when my dad went to college because they thought it wouldn't work but they couldn't do it so they got back together. They got married and have been together ever since, and there are no signs of divorce. My mom is now 44 and my dad is 45. It is possible.
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So two weeks after school started my brother, who's a sophmore tells me that the senior boys are going after the prettiest freshmen girls this year(PS- I never told my friends)....like sex.... well 2 of the freshmens have already done it with 2 of the seniors.... i have family friend who is a senior boy and he is majorly cute...and fit...and well i have a little crush on him......well all of a sudden he starts hanging around me.... he sits by me at lunch.... and recently he gave me a candy cane gram and it said "I like you a lot. Your different then most girls. Your beautiful." And then I started liking him a lot more.. Like boyfriend more. But my friends know the rumor and they don't trust him......i told them he's been a family friend for a long time. They told me he'd have sex with me then dump me. And now I barely talk. He will start a conversation and ill try to end it quickly. Then he keeps asking me why!!Im so confused on what to do....i feel if i tell him about the rumor, he'll think i wont trust or i thought hes been lying this hole time and never talk to me. and i also feel if i dont do anything my friends will be pissed at me..or not want to hang around me!HElp?!?
ps. 14/f
sorry its long (link)
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dude, that sounds exactly like a movie
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15 female.
hello people! (:
well i put this in the wrong category.
but yeahhh, anyways;
today i was hanging out with some friends, and we started talking to this boy we know who had a whole bunch of pills (bars) and he asked us if we wanted to buy one. well me and my friend never done it before, but we were like yeah and got one pill, we were gonna do half and half but i was kinda scared, so i didnt. and she took a forth.
so my question is what does it do to you like for real? and how long does it last till you feel normal?
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i don't recommend it. i'm the same age as you and i would never because i hate what it makes people and i don't like to be that hardcore. one of my best friends did at a really crazy party and lost her virginity to a guy she didn't even know who was also in a gang. one of my other friends did a whole line instead of half by accident because she didn't know what to do and the guy that was helping her wasn't watching, and she was like dead all night and the next day. basically it sucked and when people whip that shit out at parties i actually get really pissed.
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does the clean and clear blackhead earaser actually work? i might get it but i want to know how good it works. thankss. (link)
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i bought it and not as much soap even got onto my face as i thought would. it felt like it was scratching my face too much and damaging at first but then i just felt like it was deep cleaning it so i was thinking it was good. but i kinda think it made my blackheads worse because at the time i bought it i didn't have any i just bought it to prevent them and i used it and now i have blackheads visible when i didn't before. it's not bad it's just like not anything better than normal face wash. maybe if you have really bad blackheads it will help you if you scrub it on your face realy hard but not that much soap even comes out of it, but if you don't have too bad of blackheads i wouldn't recommend it.
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soo my birthday is in december and i'm turning 17. i'm planning to invite somewhere between 30-40 people, so it has to be awesome. i was thinking of having a glow themed party so in my basement i'll have glow sticks, glow balloons, possibly glow cups, glow ice cubes etc. any other ideas? and if i can't get the cups i'll have neon colored plates and stuff. so then for food, to keep the costs down, i'll have my mom make a whole bunch of ziti and then get chips and soda and stuff. any other ideas for food [cause not everyone will like ziti]? then people will be dancing and stuff in the basement, but i'll have a movie playing upstairs but idk how to decorate the upstairss.. any suggestions on anything? (link)
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order a few pizzas before everyone comes, have the ziti ready, get a few bottles of soda and some water bottles (people will be hot from dancing) and then maybe get a pitcher of water to put down in the basement. along with the cups, napkins, and plates, just get a few bags of different kinds of chips. that's a good enough of a variety of food and it's not too expensive. make your invitations formal (but not cheesy) so people will take the party seriously and know that they should bring a present and not invite other people to come or bring alcohol. unless you want that but then that would be a whole different kind of party. do you have a good enough speaker system? make sure you have music that can be loud enough and have a heavy enough bass. i recommend making a party mix on a cd or making a party mix playlist on your ipod of all songs that are good to dance too, so that you won't have to mess around with it while your there and keep chanign the song if something slow comes on. that way you can just let the cd play. oh, and i wouldn't recommend having the upstairs open to people if you are going to have 30-40 people. just make sure that the lights are off, the music is good and loud, and everything is glow in the dark becaues then people will want to dance more. it's not necessary to have a movie playing.
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so its that time of the year and I have to turn in my senior quote to the yearbook. I am drawing a blank of what to put though. it has to be 25 words or less, and i want to it be insightful, if anyone has any really good ones, or any good sites i can find some from, about life ect. pretty much anything, let me know. due by monday! thanks (link)
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'Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.' (it's a quote from the song 'closing time')
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Hai,
My name lina, i already married, one year ready. i still not consive yet. i try to checked with doctor, they took blood test.
they found my husband sperm was very poor quality. my test was all normal.Doctor ask me to do ICSI cost 17k. But we refuse to do because we can't effort.
I need your advise, whether can take any tablets or traditional way to help him to produce more active sperm.
Thank you. (link)
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ask your doctor if there is another way you can make his sperm more active besides buying something. Maybe you could try an ovulation test or another OTC(over the counter) pill to make his sperm more active.
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15\F
i want something cool to do with my friends we don't have cars but were able to get around i have two guy friends n a girl we've been bowling n to the movies but what other things can we do? (link)
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get drunk.
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I'm 18 and I had sex on the 28th of September with the love of my life. He wore a condom but now I'm getting symptoms of pregnancy. I've been feeling sick today and yesterday. My lower back has been hurting all day yesterday and today. My breasts sort of hurt and I've been getting headaches on and off. What is the chance of my being pregnant? And if I am, how should I go about telling him? I'm prepared to have a baby; I want it so much. One thing though, he is away at school during the week. What should I do about that? I don't know what to bring up about that. I need advice and some positive attitude. Thanks! (link)
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if you do have a baby, it would have been conceived on my birthday :)
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14/f
freshman
ok
so i like my science partner.
lets call him J.
anyway. . . J has been acting weird. we are kind of friends but not totally. i will list the things that are kind of weird
1.) his best friend told me that he has had sex before
2.) he keeps looking at me and my friend when we are talking
3.) he keeps staring at me
does this mean anything? and if so what? (link)
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how is it 'weird' that he's had sex before?
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i'm not a whore,
i'm just confused.
i like 5 boys.
but, i'm scared of commitment.
there's a pro and con to each one of them.
and i can narrow it down to two,
but still.
i'm confused.
help?
1. con; he has a gf.
pro; he flirts and is really sweet, & i've been crushing on him a yearrr.
2. con; we're super close, so it'd be awkward between us if we broke up, and i'm not sure how he feels, so it would be weird if i told him.
pro; he's really religious, amazing personality, his sister thinks the world of him, and i'm attracted to both personality anddd looks.
3. con; he's a senior, so about to graduate and go to the navy.
pro; he's really nice, i can tell he likes me, we flirt a lot and are going to homecoming together.
4. con; he's at college so who knows what could happen with him and other chicks, they have co-ed dorms, and hes my ex.
pro; i miss him, he was my first kiss, and i love it when he's around. his hugs, our playfulness, etc.
5. con; possibly screwed a pig and all his friends hate me, plus he flirts with like a jillion other girls.
pro; he's really nice to me, and walks me to like every class.
if i narrowed it down, it would be 2 and 3.
oh, and i'm a sophomore.
help?!
(:
thanks. that would be great.
sorry for the length. (link)
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haha wow the other person who commented this is so dumb...but anyway DEFINITELY number 2 no questions asked, because it doesn't matter if your close, you need to take a chance and go for it because chances are he likes you too and you will be happy together and have a good,loving, solid relationship. don't let worrying about things being awkward after the break-up hold you back from being with a really good guy and doing what you want. maybe you guys won't even break up! from what you wrote, it seems like you would have an amazing relationship, and if you do end up breaking up later on you can deal with the problem with awkwardness when it happens instead of worrying about it now. just GO FOR IT! and don't let anything hold you back. plus all of the other guys seem like they definitely wouldn't work out.
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To start, my brother and I are extremely close, considering I'm his LITTLE sister (by 2 years) and he's sixteen. Our close relationship is the reason I am asking this, not because I'm being a nosy little sister.
Ok, My brother, sixteen, has a girlfriend who is seventeen. They claim to be "in love" and I have no doubt they love each other, but I don't know how long it will last once my brother knocks over the first dominoe by telling my parents.
My brother, recovering pot addict, bipolar, extremely OCD, and a little schitzophrenic has gone through quite a lot over the last 4 years or so. He's had his ups and downs, usually dragging the rest of our family (2 younger sisters age seven and eight, My dad, My mom, and me) down with him. He'll have these random angry moments where he slams doors, punches walls, gets out of a moving vehicle at a stop light, and pretty much breaks my moms heart. He always ends up just running out the door.
Recently, he's received his license. Scary, right? I'm afraid he'll just lose it one of these days and drive off and leave me here to help the rest of the family get through it. Well, a week before he got his license, my dad's girlfriend had to move back to Florida, because she was unable to sell her house and couldn't find anyone to move into it for her. Keep in mind, this woman is literally my dad's dream girl. They are absolutely in love, but hesitant to marry because they've both been cheated on by their "significant other".
Anyways, so she had to move back, and my brother started manipulating and bugging my parents to help him buy a car. I think this is very self-centered, but all he wants is a car. So that caused tension between my dad and my brother (they live together).
Now, on top of ALL of this that has happened, my brother goes and gets his girlfriend pregnant. Ok, I'm sure he didn't mean for her to get pregnant, but it happened, and neither of them want an abortion. Also, his girlfriend has been being sexually harrassed and repeatedly raped by her own father for the last 5 years.
My own father is completely against the idea of my brother and his girlfriend ever having sex, so as you can tell, if my brother tells him, my dad's going to rip his head off.
My brother is planning to tell my mom first because he absolutely hates her, but she is always trying to "connect" with him, so she is very leniant with him. He thinks that she'll help him out, but we really don't have the space or finances for a child! He's just not understanding the consequences of his mistakes!!!
I really don't know what to do! I know he's going to wait until he's off probation (about a month) to tell, so we only have a few more weeks of happiness left before the screaming and anger starts all over again. I don't think I can handle another one of these outbreaks, I really don't, but there's nowhere to go to hide from it all. While all of these outbreaks occur, I usually just hideout in my room for a few weeks, but I know that this one could last months! I don't think i'm ready for this mentally.
Please help, I don't know what to do! The fighting will go on between my mom and dad about what they should do about my brother, and between my brother and them. I can't handle it! Please help me! There's no escape from the constant despair lingering in our household! Any advice is accepted! (link)
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try and see a family counselor with your whole family and have him break the news to your family while at a counseling session with everyone there. this will probably help your family not fight so much and maybe they will realize that they are affecting you, who is completely innocent, in very negative ways. if you get home after he tells them and they all start fighting, maybe you should come out of your room and say something like 'don't you guys ever think of how all this fighting makes me feel?' or something really dramatic like that to make them feel bad and realize that they're affecting you, because it seems like your whole family and especially your brother care about you a lot and would never want to hurt you. if you say something maybe they will reconsider fighting in front of you and take it somewhere where they can talk alone and calmly. then just try to stay out of the fight and stay in your room or away from it. maybe if things get really heated you can go on a walk or go over a friend's house or something. if none of this works, just go in your room and try to relax and not think about it, thats why i do. you shouldn't have to be stressed about your brother's and parent's problems, even though you care about them a lot.all you can do is convince your mom to take your whole family to a family counselor, and she will walk you through everything and help everyone. and if YOU ever need to see a counselor/therapist to let our your feelings about what all the fighting does to you, then that would definitely help you too and make you feel much better. Another thing, did you ever think that maybe your brother's girlfriend is pregnant from her DAD? I know it's very disgusting and perverted to think about, but it's probably more likely. Talk to your brother about this. Tell him that maybe his girlfriend should see a doctor about it or get a DNA test to make sure that it is your brother's baby. because, if it's not his baby, the baby will be deformed/mentally retarted or have some type of problems because it was born within the same family. If she hasn't yet, your brother's girlfriends NEEEEEEDDDSS to tell someone besides you guys that her dad is continually raping her. She needs to tell the police. or even a doctor or therapist just SOMEONE that can help her. She needs to go see a counselor or therapist about this, because being continually raped by a family member can really mess someone up in the long run. and i mean REALLY mess them up. especially if they never tell anyone. Another reason she needs to tell a doctor/policeman/therapist/counselor is because there is a very likely chance the baby could be her father's, and then it would be deformed/mentally retarted. even though it's a horrible, horrible thing if it really is her father's baby,your brother won't have to worry about telling your parents he's having a baby because he's not, and then he can just worry about helping and supporting his girlfriend through this very hard time. that is why she needs to find out whose baby it is and tell the police and her doctor RIGHT AWAY. if the doctor doesn't know the baby's real father, it could cause even more problems at birth. that's why she should tell now, because she's going to end up having to tell her doctor later anyway for the baby's safety.
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This is a really weird question but I figured I would give it a shot.
So lately (and by lately I mean the past year or so) I have been crying at the drop of a hat and I don't know why.
Whether I'm happy, sad, angry, annoyed or whatever, I cry. I used to be able to sit through a chick flick without shedding a single tear and now, even if it's some goofy romantic comedy, I'm practically bawling from the sickeningly happy ending.
It's just weird because I never used to have this problem and frankly it's kind of embarrassing sometimes. I can't even watch certain commercials now without losing it.
Does anyone else have this problem? Is there any way I could possibly fix this or is it just my hormones being wacky?
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hi, when i read your question i was amazed because i have the EXACT same problem. acutally, the other day i left a question on this website asking the same thing you did, like what could i do to stop crying and why am i recently crying? maybe you can check out the question i asked by typing it into the search questions section and then you can look at the answers people gave me.
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Okay well i'm 16 years old and i want to start dancing lessons.
I did about a year of ballet but that was when i was 6.
I know all the good dancers have been dancing since they were really young and so i need some advice.
I would like to know if its a good idea. I really love dancing and i want to take lessons in contemporary or hip hop or something but would they even let me? Is there anyone else who started dancing late in their childhood?
I'd also like to know how much lessons would be if anyone can give me an estimate.
Any other helpful advice would be gratefully appreciated. (link)
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dance is extremely hard and challenging and you can't become a 'good' dancer starting at this age, but you can just dance for fun and recreational purposes, that's what most people do. the reason it's so hard to be a really good dancer is because dance involves moving your body in unnatural movements that they were never meant to do. you have no idea how hard we work. to become a great dancer you would have to have a ton of flexibilty, strength, endurance, stamina, and have the ability to be really into all of your dances and make dramatic movements. but, if you want to dance recreationally, i would suggest taking a beginner teen class. it is for teens that are just beginning dance, hence the name, and they have those classes at most dance schools in almost every type of dance. you can learn basic things and have fun, but you wouldn't be able to do anything that makes you work hard and be good. the most popular styles of dance are ballet, pointe, jazz, tap, hip hop, ballroom, modern, and lyrical. have fun!
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well i dont know if its actually from a song or its just a beat in the movie. buttt its at the end when they battle in the streets [its in the part where andie and chase are dancing and she does the breathing thing? like where hes like making her heart pump] and its also after they play the prank on Tuck and they show the group in the studio practicing like when its dark. idk how to describe because its just a beat, but if anyone knows what im talkin about and could tell me if its from a song and what it is it would be great! (link)
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its called bounce
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okay so i saw this scene in a movie where the girl chugged like a huge bottle of volka or something and she was drunk like asap, like right when she finished..does that actually happen in real life? like right after you chug something your drunk right away or does it take time and how much time?
like i dont plan on doing this im just wondering because i know i have to do a project on drinking this coming year and this was a question i had, thankss. (link)
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ha wow in real life someone who did that might just die on the spot because that's a lot...but anyway it could def. happen if she was drinking before. like when i drink the first bit of alcohol i have i dont feel it but then if i have like 3 shots or 2 beers or something my shoulders start to get tense cause thats what happens to me. then in maybe like 5-10 minutes i get numb in places and start to feel out of it. ha so yeah that's just me, but i guess it's different for everyone.
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f/14
okay so basically, i used to have a perfect life, then my parents got divorced and my dad went and got his new girlfriend pregnant so now i have a baby brother. none of that is my problem though, that's just backround info. so one day i decided to just experiment and cut myself. from then on, im a completley different person. i am addicted to cutting and im never happy everyone in my life found out my problems and ive been to therapy so much its discusting. the only person i tell anyone anything is my best friend. her parents are alcoholics and she has the worst anxiety and bi-polar ever but her parents don't care. every day i pray and pray that i will die because i hate everything and i'm never happy. i've tried multiple times to commit suicide but have not been succesful. my best friend doesn't do anything bad, then the other night she told me she cut herself. if it wasnt for me she would never have done it, and im bulimic and she made herself throw up. i feel like im ruining everything. everyone is so stressed about me they dont have time for anything and i dont even want it. i want to die so badly its sickening. i know how to kill myself for real but i know i cant do it because theres still a part of me that's scared, scared of leaving and what people will do and what will happen. idk what to do i hate being here but i dont know where to turn anymore. every day i get worse and worse and no one even knows or cares. the world would be so much better without me so why should i even stay? (link)
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this is something i wrote one night when i was really depressed. it's called reasons to be happy. it might help you feel better. idk if all of these relate to your life too,but they probably do if you think about it. hope it helps. feel better, adn these are your reasons to live:
i find many reasons to be happy
Because i have the right to be thankful for my life
Because i have a family that i know will always be there for me, care for me, and love me even though it might not seem like it at a certain time
Because I have a working body, no mental disabilities, no physical disabilities, and no one in my family does
Because I have the ability to change whatever I want. Even if it might seem hard, it is possible to change anything I don’t like about my life
Because happiness isn’t really the way things are, it’s a state of mind
Because I have the ability to find something amazing to me that I love to do and can work at
Because I can control anything about myself
Because I don’t have to face any real obstacles or troubles in my at home life, whether it is in my house, in my town, or at my school
Because I can laugh and learn from my mistakes
Because I can love whomever I want
Because even if things happen to others that I can’t control, I know that God can control them, and I trust him
Because I can enjoy the small things
Because I know that everything happens for a reason
Because I have a past, present, and future
Because I have memories
Because I can learn
Because I have a great mind
Because I can change
Because things always get better
Because I know that I can get through any obstacle that’s put in front of me
Because I have hope and faith
And, most importantly,
Because I’m alive.
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14/f/uk
Hey, I'm having a party in a weeks time. Practically everyone is talking about it and I get randoms coming up to and asking if they can come. I know people from like Leeds and Birmingham are coming down and I live in Norfolk.
Basically, I want a lot of tips on how to make it crazy (:
Oh, and just in case you think, 'oh you're only 14, you won't want any alcohol etc.' (as a lot of americans seem to, and I know this is an american site), let me tell you something about british teenagers; generally we like to get completely pissed and stoned, will do almost any drug you offer us, are usually up all night, make out with everyone no matter what sex they are and it is not uncommon to find ourselves starting the night and not knowing where we're going to end up or being chased by police cars.
Just thought I'd say in case you were going to give tips on how to make it a tame party.
So yeah, any ideas would be appreciated.
Thanks, x
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haha dudee i wantto come to one of your parties. but let me tell you, teens in america do that too. have everyone take shots of liquor and than play beer pong and flip cup. if you don't know what these games are/ how to play them, write it on my feedback and i will re-do this question and explain how to play each game. they are really fun and easy even when you are druunkk. get the alchy from an older friend that has connections, or any connections that you have. havefunn peace
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Okay, I posted this on another website, so, if you see it on there I am NOT copying it, well I am, but, I wrote it =].
So. I hate school x].
I have pretty much my whole life, yes, pretty typical for a kid, I guess.
Buut, I guess I don't just hate, I can't STAND it. I hate the way it feels walking through the hallways, I hate the way kids treat each other, I hate the feeling of being uncomfortable, I HATE it. annd, I have my whole life. No, I don't hate it because I just had the summer break. No, I didn't have a fight with someone. I just hate it.
I love math, science, I like the subjects.
Anyways, to the point of the post.
I think I wanna be home schooled :].
I don't know much about home schooling, I do know that there are different programs, I think.
My mom won't home school me, she works full time.
My dad however, might be able to, I haven't talked to him about it but xD. He was planning on becoming a teacher and only needed to one more year to finish his schooling, then he had his accident and yeah.
So, I always heard that you can do this program were you do the work, hand it in, then, you just come to the exam at the end of the year, which I could handle.
I think I would learn alot better like that.
Would you recommened it?
Any sites were I can get information?
How are you homeschooled?
Help :]?
Annd, sorry for the typo's.
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a similiar situation happened to a friendshe's a normal girl, normal family, lots of friends, a boyfriend, got pretty good grades, but she just COULDN'T STAND school. i think it had a lot to do with anxiety problems that she had, and she missed a TON of school last year. even though all of her friends/boyfriends wanted her to stay and told her she would miss it, she wanted to leave and maybe try to improve her grades a little. so, in february she dropped out of school and did cyberschool for the rest of the year. everyday she would go with her mom to her mom's office and do her cyber school on her mom's computer, then she would go home, and she has a job so she does normal after-school stuff like that. nothing really changed, she was stil the same and still hung out with friends/boyfriends. i don't think that I would personally like that, i'd feel left out, but i think she was better. plus you get to sleep in:) but she did have anxiety problems, so idk really...and then she came to school this year to try again to start the year off right. so yeah. maybe that can help you
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