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Seniors like the freshmens i guess.......
So two weeks after school started my brother, who's a sophmore tells me that the senior boys are going after the prettiest freshmen girls this year(PS- I never told my friends)....like sex.... well 2 of the freshmens have already done it with 2 of the seniors.... i have family friend who is a senior boy and he is majorly cute...and fit...and well i have a little crush on him......well all of a sudden he starts hanging around me.... he sits by me at lunch.... and recently he gave me a candy cane gram and it said "I like you a lot. Your different then most girls. Your beautiful." And then I started liking him a lot more.. Like boyfriend more. But my friends know the rumor and they don't trust him......i told them he's been a family friend for a long time. They told me he'd have sex with me then dump me. And now I barely talk. He will start a conversation and ill try to end it quickly. Then he keeps asking me why!!Im so confused on what to do....i feel if i tell him about the rumor, he'll think i wont trust or i thought hes been lying this hole time and never talk to me. and i also feel if i dont do anything my friends will be pissed at me..or not want to hang around me!HElp?!?
ps. 14/f
sorry its long
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dude, that sounds exactly like a movie
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First of all, seniors dont hate freshman!
most of them are just annoying and immature.
anyways i do think you should tell him about the rumor to see what he has to say..
but honestly, you are only 14 and he's what 17, maybe 18...that equals a bad situation.
I dont think you should focus on someone so much older and just concentrate on your friends and people your age. :)
*Bri*
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youre 14 and you shouldnt give yourself away like that.
yeah hes a fmaily friend. but he could just act different around different people.
and seniors NEVER like freshman. they hate them.
so obviously your school knows that your grade is really easy to get with becuase youre still young and will do anything and believe everything a guy will tell you.
you should get with a guy when you feel it is right. the worst thing to do is leave your friends for a guy that isnt going to be there forever like your friends are.
if you reallyreally like him. then dont let him get to you. make him work for it. you have to let him know if he really wants a relationship and not just to have sex with you. you have to show him that you arent easy. and that he has to work for what he wants too.
but honestly in my opinion. hes not worth it.
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i don't know what is in this guy's heart. but i know how things work. guys take advantage of girls that don't know any better. 9 times out of 10 this guy just wants action. if you don't mind the idea of a one night stand fine. but you have to ask yourself "am i okay if everyone knows i had sex with him?" and "am i okay to lose my virginity and maybe regret it?" it seems that you don't want used. i would think that more an likely this guy would want to use you then leave you. i don't want to make you sad or anything. but at the most, you could have a relationship til he graduates or goes to college. once there you'd be dropped for a college girl. i think this guys should be left alone. i'm sorry i couldnt say more positive stuff.
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