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hii :]
okay i've got a question
see i used to like this guy who was one of my best friends. everytime i saw him i would get soo freaking happy and i wouldnt stop smiling. i was always excited to see him or hang out with him. well he didnt like me. this storys not about him but its needed to be told. you'll understand in a minute.
well theres this guy who likes me. i thought i liked him but i'm not sure. when i see him, i'm just like ..hi.. like theres not the major excitement i used to get when i saw my old crush. plus i'm noticing things about him that i dont like so much, the more i know him. i'm not sure if i actually like him or just like the fact that he likes me, because i'm not exactly gorgeous.
what do you think? (link)
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i'd say sometime, when you're alone, think about it. consider every little thing. i know what you mean when you say "i would get soo freaking happy and i wouldn't stop smiling" but sometime that feeling takes time to develop with other people. this guy could be completely wrong for you or the opposite. next time you two talk pay attention to what he says and how he says it. that might help when you think about what to do later. hope i helped.
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i have silences while on the phone with *him*. what are some random things to talk about. anything really. i want the conversation to spark up another conversation. please give me multitple ideas. thanks! (link)
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i'm really bad at talking, but something a friend told me is speak your mind. which simply mean say what you're thinking. if you're thinking about food, talk about how good it would be to be eating right now. sometimes it is really stupid, i know, but really, it does work and usually you'll get a laugh or two and something about how random that is. it helped me (somewhat) hope it works for you.
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19 f
ok so me and this guy have been going out for a month everything is wonderful between us but im not sure if i should continue it. because right now hes going to a community college and so am i for our associates then hes going to go to another college in like a year or two. im just curious if its worth me getting into a serious relationship or not. i really like the guy and this is the only thing that ive been wondering about. any advice would be of help:) (link)
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well if you really like him i would say have the best time you can with him. do what makes you happy. if you think going into a serious relationship with the guy will only hurt you, you shouldn't do it. if taking it a step farther would be more benifical and make both of you happier, go for it. hope i helped in some small way.
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hey since you are a guy and there arent a lot of them on this site. I was just curious on a guys point of view....
why are most guys I'm friends with or I know are total chick magnets.? It's like all of them. why so? (link)
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well it could be that they are just really hot and you have really cool guy friends, i'm not so sure, a girl can like a guy for sooooo many reasons. but it might be because they look good, smart, funny, nice, you know things like that. i really wouldn't know. like i said, a girl can like a guy for so many reasons. sorry for not being very helpful, i would really have to know the people to really know why.
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Ok well one of my close friend got into an argument with my little sister. So when there's nothing to tlak about with other peope my friend talks bad stuff about her and calls her a bitch.
And my sister always runs up to me during school at recess time (yeha really annoying) and then when she goes away my friend would like like "bitch..hope she gets run over by a car"
um..i think she's annoying sometimes but..kinda uncomfortable here! What can I do to shut my friend up nicely but not break our friendship?
The best friend talk thing,not us.
And I can't tell my sister to fuck off cuz she's super senstive
ugh..help me please? (link)
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just like the person before me said, if your friend really is your friend the person will listen to you and understand. talking is the best thing to do but if you really don't want to talk about it you could just kinda avod your friend for a while (but don't be mean) and maybe every now and then bring up your sister in convos and say nice things about her and stuff and if he says anything, you can stand up for your little sister. and really, you shouldn't let your friend call your little sister a bitch. meany pants and butthead maybe, but bitch... no way.
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Hello...im 16/f
Ok, cutting right to the question. There is this guy i like in my class and i want to get over him. (ASAP)
We're complete opposites. I'm known as an angel, and he's the devil. He's completely dark and twisted and thinks really evily. He's also moody. Gets pissed off easily. Yet i like him. And i worry about him. (Opposites attract)
And i'm just very calm, sensitive and very innocent. Hehe, but i really like him and i need to get over him. Because i think he would never be interested in me. And i don't think anything would happen between us. =(
Any advice? Thanks in advance. (link)
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if the reason why you want to get over him is because you don't think he likes you or nothing could come of it i think you should give him a shot. a had a girlfriend and we were pretty close to opposites, i more emo her a little prepy. and she was the best thing that has ever happened to me in my whole life. so i would say you should get to know him a little more and become somewhat friends. and see how it turns out. hope i helped.
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15 f
in school eevryone tells me i am really pretty and boys always want to hook up with me. my bestfriend says shes really uglly. since the begining of the school year she asked 3 boys out and they all rejected her becase they say shes too ugly. i tried helping her like to boost up her confidence but she has low self asteem and i dont know what to do anymore. like i keep telling her shes pretty and she says she isnt. so my question is how to i boost her confidence or make her prettier. shes a tomboy and she acts kind of manly i really get sad when she tells me shes ugly but i dont know what to do, please help!?
thnanks in advance!! (link)
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i'm really no expert at give tips on how to boast someone confidence but a boyfriends would probably help (getting a girlfriend was one of the best things i ever did) you would just have to find the right guy. my best friend fell in love with a girl that was a tomboy but that didn't end so well. you should try to find a guy you know through a friend of a friend's friend or something. some guys i know are really cool guy's and look like great guys but are tarrible boyfriends so you want to make sure he's okay. then, of course, make sure okay with dating but don't ask her directly. next ask the guy to ask her out or whatever and if everything goes good... you never know... hope i helped.
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14/f
I've been having problems with my so called friends for a long time. I'm not exactly sure what i did but all the sudden it seems like they dont want to talk to me, which is fine because im sick of them anyway. Well I have a problem with one, she thinks she knows everything about what gus like and she doesnt know a thing. Shes annoying and she talking to this boy she knows i like ALOT! and i have a feeling that all three of them are talking to him on porpous just to make me mad. I'm trying not to let it bother me, cause i know they want to see me mad or sad or whatever, but i want to know what to do to get him to stop giving in to them. We are closer then any of the other girls are to him and he even said he likes me best. What do i do to get them to stop? =[ (link)
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i would say talk to them about it but it's not that easy. you could always do what there doing to you and do that to the boy they like, but that might back fire and get them to hate you and the guy you like to think you like a different guy. talking sounds like the easiest way to do it but i know it's not fun to talk to people about that even more when they don't want to talk to you. i know, i don't make a lot of sense most of the time but i hope i helped in some small way. hope it all works out right. :)
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let me start by saying that im the so called "good girl" - 16, good family, kind, mature, nice friends, nice boyfriend, honor student, employed, all that stuff.
now, on cinco de mayo my mom and her boyfriend were talkin about goin out to eat at a mexican restaurant, and i said somethin jokingly about 'yeah, they have corona!' my mom flipped. she knows i dont drink.. and i would never think of doing drugs or smoking anything.. thats soo gross and stupid to me. also, ive never drank anything in my life. ive had sips of about 3 or 4 things just to try it, and it was all gross actually, but she doesnt even like me doing that. now, i know, shes my mom, she doesnt want me endangering myself or going and screwing up my life or getting addicted to some bad habit. i have no intentions to be some heavy drinker or partier, because i know all the bad things that can happen, but is it really some big deal to try sips of stuff, just to taste it? she doesnt drink although shes had margaritas and that kind of thing rarely, but "she wasnt drinking when she was 16 years old". ive told her over and over ill never smoke or do drugs, and that if i did drink, itd only be taste testing and that i know if i do, im not driving. no questions. but still its like its some HUMONGOUS deal. i mean i want the whole 'teenage/high school experience', and a sip or two here and there isnt gonna kill me. is it really that bad? and dont say oh well if you take a sip and you like it, youll drink more and more. no, i have more control than that. i wouldnt drink alot even if i did, especially if i was driving. ugh i dont know. thoughts??? (link)
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my only thought would be that you should respect your mom and know that she only wants the best for you even though it may seem mean. and about the whole thing "i can control myself" i'm not saying you can't control yourself and if you ever do like it you'll go crazy with it, but i am going to say you should still make sure and be careful, even with the sips. i know i really didn't help at all but i just wanted to say something.
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16/f
Ok well my period is late by almost 2 weeks. (Ive had my period since August 04) At first i thought nothing of it because that happens sometimes but earlier today i got a really bad stabbing pain in my stomache that lasted like a minute.
I then went to the toilet and it hurt when i peed, i dont think it was internal.. because my "down there" has been kinda stinging a bit for the past few days like the skins cracked or something if you know what i mean.. but anyway yeh it burnt when i peed.
So anyway my question is.. from what i described could there be something wrong? Maybe something with my ovaries or anything like that.. can you give me any possibilities and there symptons please? Thanks x (link)
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well i hate to say it but there is a posibility of a std if you've had sex before. you should run and get it checked out right away, the quicker the better. you should hurry.
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My friend...cassandra is with my ex bf tyler. He told me she had a dream that me and him were making out in the hall way and she came in and i said ....its not what it looks like...shes moving june1....does this mean anything? (link)
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dreams can mean a lot of things. her dream could be what might happen or maybe it could be how she feels inside. she might feel like he isn't over you or you aren't over him and there's still a thing there, or that she doesn't trust him with you or ,again, she thinks you might try something on him. it might be a trust problem, or what might happen later. i have alway thought dreams can explain how people feel, but somethings people just have a dream that doesn't have anything to do with anything and are really random. i'm sorry i didn't answer your question very clearly but i hope i help in some small way.(i could be she was thinking about it before she went to bed made her have that dream)
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Ok im in Jr. High and I'm in 6th...At my school people play "flip", If you don't know what that is, it is when a boy and a irl play or two boys, or two girls. You pick either rock, paper, or siccers, and the loser has to ask out someone of the winners chose. If the boy I like asks me out and I say yes and he was just playing "flip", and he turns around and says oh...well I was just playing "flip", but if the boy I like comes up to me and says will you go out with me and I say no and he will really sad, and he might really like me then he and I will both be sad. So how will I know if he is playing "flip" or really asking me out? Please Help Me (link)
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Just ask the guy . " Are you playing flip or are you for real ? " It will be fine to ask that. Then if hes serious you will know wheather or not to say yes or no. If they are playing flip and dont admit it till after just be like. "Yah I already knew you where playing that game. One of my friends told me you lost and were going to ask some girl" . Well only if you want to say that ??
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xOhhxBABiEx told me to ask you this question. What are some good emo or hxc bands? I like from first to last, SKSK, on the last day, hit the lights, throw down...and ya u get the drift. i highly dislike anything that sounds like fall out boy and mcr. thanks a bunch (link)
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well... hawthorne heights (really good emo), bullet for my valentine, as i lay dying, atreyu, blessthefall, blindside, kill hannah, killradio, brand new, matchbook romance, my chemical romance, underoath, red jumpsuit apartus, slipnot, static-x, taking back sunday, still remains, we came with broken teeth.
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Hey, I found out i was gay a couple of years ago and since then i've been really confused. Now i think might be able to tell my parents but im not sure. Anyways, theres this really hot guy in my grade who i really like and want to ask out. The big problem is that i dont know if i should come out before i start dating, what do u think?
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i think you should just let everyone know. it's better that people know now so when you start dating, other people will know what you are looking for. have a great and happy valentines day!
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I'm a 14 year old girl and over the summer i go to sleepaway camp. At camp i met this really great guy and we became like best friends. We both started to like eachother and everyone knew it. He tickled me made me laugh...the whole shabang. We never really became a couple though because I had a boyfriend. On the last day of camp we told eachother how we felt and so on...he kissed me. He only lives about 20 minutes away from me and no matter how long ago it was, he means the world to me. Hes not one for keeping in touch though. He tells me he still has feelings for me and wrote a poem for me! But our conversations are about once a month. I keep Iming him and he doesn't answer. I call him...no answer. I don't try too hard to contact him because I know that is totally annoying. But...what gives?? Not talking to him and seeing him hurts and I feel like im the only one giving some effort to keep in touch. What should I do? Ive tried EVERYTHING!! I know he still cares about me...should i give up? (link)
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don't give up on the guy until you talk to him about it. tell him how you feel and try to talk through it all. make sure to give the guy some time to talk and to be open. don't be too mean about it but make sure to let him know you're serious about it. tell him that in order for it to work you both have to give. hope i helped and it works out for you two.
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I'm 16 and I love to read. I read anything really but I need titles of classics. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks! (link)
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go to the library spin in a circle with your finger pointed out. stop randomly and whatever book you point to read it.
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So there is this guy.. we always both kind had an unspoken thing for each other. And its been since like sixth grade and we are tenth graders now. And I figure its been long enough, and I should tell him how I feel.. but what do you think he would say?
I mean, I just cant picture how he would react?
Guys, how would you react if a girl you liked told you she liked you? (link)
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when you two are alone, just sit him down and just say it. i know it will be hard.
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okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥ (link)
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then tell her to shut up! duh!
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my names sarah 15/f.I just relized that im bisexual and i had a crush on my friend whos a girl but i dont know if i should tell her im bi.Because i don't want to hurt our friendship.So what should I do?Should i tell her?Or should i just keep crushes and friendships seperate(sp?)? (link)
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personally, i think a guy being bi is just stupid and guy but for a girl it's kinda hot, that's just me. i think you should kinda tell her. tell her in a kinda code. tell her but at the same time don't. leave her guessing so if she feels the same way she'll know to talk to you.
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On an MP3 player how many songs will 2gb play? (link)
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it depends on the format you use. i have a mp3 player with only 1gb and it holds 500 songs.
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