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my names sarah 15/f.I just relized that im bisexual and i had a crush on my friend whos a girl but i dont know if i should tell her im bi.Because i don't want to hurt our friendship.So what should I do?Should i tell her?Or should i just keep crushes and friendships seperate(sp?)?
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Hey, Im angela and im around the same age as you and i went through the saw probelm, im bi and i liked my bestfriend, and but i didn't tell her until a night were everyone was at her house and we watched a movie, it was really akward at the starting but then my arm was around her and she didn't care, and then i still didn't tell her i liked her because i was scared it would ruin our friendship, but then a coupel weeks after she told me she liked me so i told her i liked her too, nothing went wrong everything was fine.
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wow. thats hard. you don't want to lose the friendship over that. i think you should ask her what she would do if another girl liked her and see what her reaction is. then again, she might act like its weird cause she thinks you may think shes a freak, even if she was bi. do you understand that? i wouldn't just come out. test the waters. get it out in the open though about being bi and see how that works.
or you could go for it and easily explain it. if she doesn't feel the same, then explain that you'd like to stay friends and not let it get in the way.
i hope i helped.
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If she's straight, chances are she's going to feel very uncomfortable & not want to be around you knowing you feet that way. If you don't want to risk your friendship, find a way to figure out what her reaction would be in the event a girl admitted feelings for her. I'm all for admitting how you feel towards someone, but in this case, I think it's best if you don't.
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Try asking her how she would feel if another girl liked her and try to see if she's ever had feelings for another girl,or at least if she's curious.If she ends up being cool with it,make a move.
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personally, i think a guy being bi is just stupid and guy but for a girl it's kinda hot, that's just me. i think you should kinda tell her. tell her in a kinda code. tell her but at the same time don't. leave her guessing so if she feels the same way she'll know to talk to you.
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