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HEY! Ok here is my PrObLeM!!! Im 17 almost 18 now but when i was like in 15 a really rude kid picked on me told me i was ugly n fat and stuff, and to most people its like Fuck him whatever! haha But to me it really HURT! Like to this day i have ZEROOOO self confidence! And last night i went out and met some of my boyfriends friends and their girlfriends! and i was just really DEPRESSED! they were these tan, skinny, BEAUTIful girls that had low cute shirts on, that showed all theie stomach, and low jeans and stuff and i just wanted to cry! like i dont think im UGLY, but i cant feel good about myself around people...like idont wanna be around people who in my eyes are perfect because then i concentrate on all my flaws, and see how perfet they are....My boyfriend reassures me all the time how pretty and stuff i am but i just cant feel or see it and i dont know what to do....do you have any advice, it would be great! xoxo
Here are some sites with my pictures....

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=sTyLiNbArBiEGuRl

www.picturetrail.com/tommiegurlie23

(those are old though haha)
ps im like 5'7 and about 125+/-
xoxo thanks so much for your time!
*~M~*

Ahh..first of all if your fat..im OBESE! cuz ur far from fat..trust me..ur so pretty..i love how you have ur own image goin on and don't worry i have those days too..where im juss so insecure..and hate every skinny..tan..big boobed beauty! but..i mean then there are the days where i appreciate what god has blessed me with..and juss work with what i got. If anything..trust me ur beautiful..ur pictures show all..and u juss need to accept what u got which is alot (got the booty and boobs goin on gurl haha im not bi or anything juss complimenting u) juss keep ur head up and feel beutiful! cuz u are! i mean u and i both know ur not ugly..and there are alot of gurls that ur prettier than..but juss remeber theres always gonna be someone to out rank the best..i juss hope u realize that beauty is not only on the outside but the inside too!

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Do you know how like "lol" and "brb" mean "laughing out loud" and "be right back", well what does "bbiab" mean? Thanks

BoOtyful Babies in Argentina bounce...
Big boobs in April bug.. lol j/k u already have the 'real' answers so i juss wanted to think of other ones..haha

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(I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..

I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him

Any advice would be lovely, and I rate =)

well..first of all if u love him as much as u say..then u'd care about what the drugs and stuff are doing to his body..explain how u feel to him..and how u care about him and u dont wanna lost a boyfriend from alchol poisoning..or something like that..if he's 'willing' to change..then he honestly cares for you..but juss because he says hes gonna change..doesnt mean its all gonna go away like that..you gotta give him some time..and there will probally be some screw ups.

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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line.

hmm..what 2 say..what 2 say..lemme think..

Ideas:
-How bout we put or lips to work already..
-WOW! u have really nice lips..(look at there eyes and then at the lips then KISS)
-Are u gonna kiss me already..or do i have to make the move
-so how well do u work these things? (look at their lips)
-hmm..how bout make a bet..on something..then be like if u lose..u owe me a kiss..not juss a kiss A GOOOOOD kiss..
-SO when do i get to taste ya lips
-I wanna kiss you..but i want you to make the move first..(then they better smile and kiss u)

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hi...i am really confused these days...im like in love with this kid(mikey)...and yeh one night at mii freids party him nd ii went up into her room and started makeing out...ever since then i have been like in love with hiim! i cant get over this kiid! hes liike everything i ever wanted..well that was way bac in march..now these days well actually last night i made out with this kid for the first time since i got with Mikey ...when i was kissing him last night..all i could think of was Mikey! like imangin it was him instead of the kid it really was...nd the kid i got with is really hot nd every girl wants him..i do feel lucky i had him but mikey is way better!! Hes So0 Hott..nd i do anything rite about now!!--WHat should...Still like mikey even tho we hardly c eachother .. or move on ?? please help thanx again!
....Me....

well if u really do have that 'deep' of feelings for this mikey guy then first of all yo have to tell him. But if not seein each other is a problem then u have to really work at how u guys can see each other..tell mikey the way you feel..and if he feels the same way too..then i guess ur on ur way to a relationship

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

If you really do love him..race shouldn't matter...purple..pink..yellow..it shouldnt matter..if he makes u feel the way you do..then dont worry bout what everyone else thinks..they just might be jealous..and ur relationship must be so perfect..this is the only thing they can pick at..! GOOD LUCK!

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Ok..i'm a freshman in high school and i never kissed a girl before, but i have the feeling that this is gonna be the year that i get my first kiss. I'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something and i don't know where to put my hands. Any advice?

Well when a guy kisses me..i like it when he puts his hands on my face..not like squeezing..but like just lightly like holding it..kina like when u wanna kiss someone..and pictre them lookin down..and u tilt there face up to kiss em..and u juss restur and there..when the kiss starts..or like hold her hand while ur kissin her..she prolly doesnt know where to put her hand either!

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i think i look really ugly when i smile..but everyone says that smiling makes u look prettier but i dont think i do. all my friends get mad at me when i dont smile but i dont know what to do! HELP!

feel confident about ur smile..maybe if like u whiten ur teeth or sumn u will feel more confident about ur smile..OH and i got from this magazine that if u smile with ur tongue behind ur teeth it makes ur teeth look straighter and ur smile better..haha..weird i know..BUT smile..it takes more muscles to from then smile.. : )

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i have really thick hair, is there any way to make straightening it not as long so i can get up later but still have time to make it stick straight?

u can buy a straightening solution at the store..and it should straighten it..or u can try blow drying i straight..or..maybe take showers at night..and straighen ur hair at night..then like sleep with ur hair in a hair tie..like a scrunchy and then in the morning its straight

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Me and my best friend have been friends for 10 years and shes really getting on my nerves. She tries to be just like me-she copies everything i do,buys all the same clothes i do even if she doesn`t like them,and whenever i like someone she likes him too-even if i know she doesn`t actually like him. Sometimes i have fun w* her and then other times she just reallii pisses me off.Ugh..what am i supposed to do about her?

she could be insecure of herself and she prolly looks up to u..which is most likely why shes doin what shes doin..but u should of course talk to her..see whats up be like ya i noticed that..u like alot of the same stuff i do..but now it seems like ur TRYING to like the same stuff i do..and ask her bout it..maybe u do stuff that bothers her to..if u want to keep this friendship goin 'talk' juss have a talk about what one another does that bothers ya..and try to patch em up

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i love this boy nd see we broke up but it was a big mistake nd yea .. long story but umm hes suposed to mayb comin over onr day nd hes goin to kiss me or make out wit me in other words nd im scared bnot that i haven done it before but i feel real strong for him nd i wana kno wat should i do to help me not be so nervous ..

Help .. i rate

okay..well juss calm down..and like when u KNOW hes bout to kiss you juss calm down and dont make it seem like ur nervous..maybe start slow..dont juss like BAM stick ur tongue in his mouth..start with kute..small 'peek' kisses..like mwa..mwa..mwa..then after like 30 seconds..slowly add some tongue and after u get use to it..ur not gonna wanna stop..well unless hes a bad kisser..he-he

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whats a good/fast way to get rid of a lil fat i have only on my belly? and how do i do crunches? thanks a lot.

watch whatur eatin..dont eat till ur absoultely FULL..maybe till ur satisfied..like leavin the table knowin ur not starving..when u wake up in the morning go for a morning jog or walk..an then before u go to bed..do a lil excersise..even like when ur watchin TV and theres a commercial..do sum crunches and b4 u know it..if u really tryin that flab is gonna be GONE! haha.

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Alrighty... My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. And we have a wonderful relationship. A wonderful, sex free relationship. Just because I want to wait until I'm married. And I'm pretty stuck on it. But since we're going to be sophmores in high school. Everyone gives him shit about it. When people give me shit I'm just like ahhh lol whatever... I dont care. But see, He doesn't tell me all the time that people give him shit about being a virgin. This all came up when one of my guy friends was all like "dude, you've been in a relationship for 2 years and you're still a virgin? You are wooped... blah blah blah" And he tells me not to worry about it... But I kinda wonder how he's feeling and if there's anyway I could do something about it. I mean yes, we are sexual... But I don't plan on having sex any time soon... Thanks for your time :)

OMG..this is scary..im in the same exact situation no kidding..me and my boo will be a year in october..and the farthest we've gone is making out..and his friends are always like damn..u havent hit that yet..or u still get no booty..and there like u in check..this gurl got u wipped..and i feel bad..cuz they call me prude and shyt..but shoot..i wanna wait till marriage juss like you..so what i keep in my head is this is something very important to me..and if he cares about me as much as he says and hes still with me knowing im not going to give him my virginity then thats all that matters. As long as he respects you and your opinion you got a good boy your with. My boo never complains bout me not doing stuff with him..and i take it he actually cares and respects me..haha..and were gonna b sophmores too..im tellin u this is so freaky..keep up with me i wanna know how things go

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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!

Ooohh..i love makin up names..
-Girls-
Destiny, Alora, Raya Marie, Amiya, Melody, Dezaray, Riley, Liliana, Alexia, Alexa,

-Boyz-
Eli, Angel, Tyler, Sykler, Treven,Romeo, Deven..

Haha..i can go on..

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the new kid that i hang out with sometimes, asked me if he can sleep over my house. He said that he would be able to stay in town longer than. He said he knows he would have to meet my mom first and that his parents would say yes. Is this just friends hangin out or is he using me just so he can stay in town, or is he thinkin about something else....... After my mom meets him and we show that we are friends and nothing more, she will probably say he can because this happened with another friend(boy). What should i do? Im confused. (14/f)

well it all depends on how u feel on this situation..would u feel uncomfortable with him staying at your house? or do u think it would be a fun experience. i don't think hes juss using you just to stay longer..i think he wants to stay because of you..cuz u said how he likes hanging out with u ALOT and how he ditched that 1 gurl for you..so im thinkin hes trying to show how much he wants to be with you (in ur presence) but in a weird way. so its totally up to you..go with ur gut feeling..but don't do anything you'll regret..

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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused...

well maybe its fate..who knows..maybe u were destined to meet him..who knows..everything happenes for a reason..and for what i have read it seems some chemistry just might be stirring up..keep it goin who know what might happen..u got me interested keep me up on this story :)

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I have been having these major break outs around my hairline and on my nose..I have tryed alot of stuff that just dont seem to work any ideas?

hmm..well around the hairline is probally the cause of beauty products such as..hairspray..gel..mousse..all of that..so try to avoid when putting those things on from touching around that area..and for ur nose u should get Bi'Ore strips they like take blackheads and stuff of ur nose..and just clense it in general..and most of all don't touch ur face..and drink lots of water..it cleans ur system : )

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ok, i hav this friend whos acne is kinda bad, not totally but kinda. she has used a whole bunch of different products from stores but after a while she has an immunity to them or something cuz they stop working. so do you kno any things you can use at home like something like the old toothepaste way or sumtin?

well this isnt an at home kinda thing but i heard it works really good..go see the doctor..and talk about birth control that helps acne and they will subscribe u or your friend to a certain birth control that helps balance ur hormones and ur acne should eventually clear up..my sister had really bad acne in the 8th grade like really bad..and tried everything..then she tried birth control and today her face is super clear..hope i helped!

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what should i do to flirt with a guy? :-/ im so bad at this kind of stuff any tips?

hmm.."eye-contact" and..just laugh and smile alot..usually what i do..is i juss start talkin to him..then we start laughing bout sumn..and i look at him give him a strange look and hes like why are u lookin at me like that..then i go..oh nothing..then hes like determined to find out why i was looking at him like that..like its a mission or something and so it leads to this huge flirting session haha..weird i know..juss be talkative..smiley..friendly..happy..and of course YOURSELF..:)

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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help?

i don't think u have to seek help..if u only done it once..since u realized that this method is not a good way to releave stress and depression or whatever..as long as u learned ur lesson then i think all is well :)

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