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can someone help me? i have been so depressed lately and i have no idea why. can you explain this or something? (link)
yeah i had that stage too .. where i was completely depressed over EVERYTHING and i had no idea what to do .. its just a phase, don't worry it will pass, just talk to people ^_^


you can ONLY be pregnant ONLY from having sex.. rightt?! (link)
yeap .. thats the only way you can be pregnant .. unless theres a really unusal freaky way that no one knows of .. but yes sex is like the only way to get pregnant


ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
hmm .. if he only likes you for a blow job and that shit don't do it .. but y'know guys will say anything just to get "stuff" aha .. so you gotta be careful =\ i think 13 is WAY too young bc im 13 and i'd never do that .. just make the right choice, if i were you i'd say no .. he could be using you .. =\


This guy that I really like, who likes me too is stationed in Iraq. I am just so worried for him! It scares me knowing he is out there. How can I calm my nerves and not think the worst will happen? (link)
don't think about the bad things that can happen, think of the better things, think of him coming home and seeing you and try clearing your mind for a while ^_-


Okay. i wrote the stuffing tha bra thing..let me clear sumthyn up.. when i was doing that i didnt know what i was thinkyng..i was so inlove wid him dat it didnt matter. I knoe tht it wus wrong and stupidd..and dat if he relle liked me he wuld have liked me for me..but wut shuld i do? bc everytime i go to chyll wid ma best friend i c him..so i always have to wear 2 bra's and tht relle sucks! and its not comfortable but i dont want to stop chylling wid ma friend. Its not even about the boy anymore..its about how can i stop? so i could go there comfortable?? (link)
it would be hard to tell him that you were faking, so id just either wear a padded bra or wear clothes that are baggy like t shirts so that you can't really tell if they're stuffed, i think the padded bra would be the best way to go


i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
yeah, you could be pregnant, it is possible bc once you get your period and loose your virginity theres a chance of you getting pregnant =\


Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong? (link)
maybe you gotta get used to them , if not then try another brand maybe? or just don't use them .. but if one brand is unconforatable just try another


I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it. (link)
you could always make your own routine ^_^ like everyday do a certain amount of pushups and situps and stuff like that, and maybe jog a couple of times, go walking, eat healthy, all those should help a little, if not .. weight watchers always works but if ya dont wanna do something like that just do your own workouts ^_^


my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?
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if they don't tell you why they're mad at you, they probably have no reason at all and just feel stupid to make something up .. or they just don't wanna be friends again =\ you can't make them be your friends, but you can always find new ones, im sure you will too ^_-


im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
you should defintally wait till' you're older, or people will think of you as a slut, i'm sure you wouldn't want that..



i like this guy at school ALOT and he likes me and he asks me out...but lets just say hes not the guy that all the girls go after...and when everyone found out that he liked me and asked me out they were like ew ur gonna go out with him? i know if i do go out with him people will make fun of me..and i really like him..should i just go for it? (link)
honestly, screw what people think, if you love him and he loves you then go for it .. of course people are gunna say something because people are assholes ^_- sure go out with him and if people say something , im sure they're jealous bc they can't get a nice guy like that =D


one of my close friends is turning into a huge slut and boys tell me she does "stuff" with them..i dont wanna hang out with her if she does that stuff..what should i do??
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hm .. if i were you id explain to her that boys are telling you she does this shit and tell her what you think .. if shes your true friend she would understand that you don't like how shes doing that stuff for her age .. im sure she doesn't wanna be known as a slut .. id talk to her, try to get her to stop .. if it doesn't work then just avoid her and maybe she'll realize if she doesn't stop shes loosing a friend .. =\


i am extreamly large and i need to loose weight but not by weight watchers or any gym please help (link)
hmm you can do a workout at home, or just jog .. y'don't need a gym to loose wieght, you just can't be lazy, i suggest jogging a couple times and doing some sit ups , pushups , y'know ^_^


My best friend makez me feel soo badd bout myself..if i sai ohh like he prolly wont like me she wuld b like okai great or like put me down .. and if i talk to her and say omgg he has a girlfriend and b like down she'll b like wow good for you..and she juss puts me down like tht..but i dont wanna not b her friend anymore bc we hav too much fun together..wut shuld i do? (link)
you should def. talk to her and tell her how you feel bc thats not a friend, AT ALL . i defintally think if shes really your best friend she'd treat you a little better, give her a taste of her own medicine ^_- y'gotta make her realize what shes doing to you is hurting your feelings.


if your gay and have a girlfriend are you still considered gay (link)
no, your considered bi sexual .


Okaii..i have a best friend and me and her like da same guyy..but i get so hurt bc our crush likes her `nd not meh. i try to get over him but everytime i c him i fall inlove agen. Wut shuld i do? (link)
eh im kinda in that situation to .. but you should tell your friend how you feel and maybe she can talk to him for you? or you might just have to try your harderst to get over him, i know its hard but y'gotta try .. find another guy ^_-


okaii , i have 2 best friendz dat are relle relle close wid me `nd we go everywhere together. But whereever we go them 2 always get the attention and never me and it always makes me feel bad to watch them 2 get all the attention..and i cant stop hanging out wid dem bc i love tha 2 of them soo muchh and it wuld b hard for meh to not hang out wid dem..on account of we alwayz hang out wid boyzz. SO wut shuld i do? (link)
you shouldn't stop hanging out with them thats true, but you shouldn't worry about getting attention and i know its nice to get attention from guys if your 2 best friends are but im sure you'll get the attention you want don't worry ^_- and some guys only like girls for whats on the outside .. and i hate guys like that >.< well what im trying to say is .. dont get mad bc you're not getting attention, y'can always flirt


wut do i do?!?!?! i have a huge pimple!! how can i get rid of it soon!?!?! ah!! help!! (link)
hmm .. put toothpaste on it and sleep w/ it over nite .. worked for me?


k, so i have some friends that i always hang out with. but there's 2 of them that are alot prettier than me. it seems like everywhere we go they always get all of the attention and then theres me, getting none. i guess guys only see them from the outside! which sucks. every once and a while they flirt with this guy i know and it pisses me off because he's not that special. do you have any advice to give me so im not so jealous of my best friends? (link)
if i were you .. i woudn't go places that they go where theres boys .. with them .. because it will only end up hurting you .. i'm sure you'll get the attention you want some day, and sometimes you don't wanna get attention from boys =\ theres the rite kinda attention and the rong kinda attention =\ i hope you can tell the difference when one happens ^_^


im having some trouble figuring out which one i should have for breakfast.. a bowl of fruit loops with milk.. or one poptart [ lots of fat in just one poptart ] please help me out! its very tough.. (link)
i'd go w/ fruit loops .. bc milk is good for you ^_^ ehee




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