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i just would like to say to all you people that rate me like one.. im really not that bad at advice and i do take it seriously most of the time... i have a different way of looking at things to most people doesnt mean im trying to be harsh on you.. try to understand what i type! there is no hope left for the human race after the stupidity in most of these questions anyway. were all going to die. one day. im 16 female from the wonderfull land of OZ and i listen to the beatles.
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this guy i dated 4 a week brokeup with me. it was relly hard 4 me 2 getover him and 2 just move on. i said some rude things 2 him and now i guess u could say he h8s me. i still love him and i really want himback but after what i said 2him he doesnt want me. he called me fat and ugly but i said that i h8ted him. i stll really like him and wan him back. please help me i really need it. i r8 5s!
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u went out with him for a week and you think you loved him.. let him go you obsessive freak! jus tell him your sorry and you only said it because you were cut at him, it was only for a week that you guys went out for he must be awesome if he was hard to get over after that


I havn't worn my retainer for a LONG TIME, about 2 years, and my bottom teeth have moved, just the 4 in the frontish, and well, i was wondering, if i started using my retainer now...and delt with the pain, would my teeth move back into place?? (link)
yeah it will help, it will probaly move slower then it normally would because your teeth are more mature


Hi
I have really heavy periods and am considering asking my doctor if I can go on the pill to control them. However, I HATE taking pills (have a real phobia of it) so what can I do about that?
Plus, do you honestly think that a doctor would put a 15 year old girl on the pill? Especially seen as I've only had 4 periods (they started when I was 13 but are VERY irregular - I skip like 6 at a time)? Has anyone had any personal experience with doctors and the pill? How did it go? (link)
when i was 15 i went on the pill, they do give the pill out to teens under 16. Go with your mum and make sure you explain to her why you want to go on it. It shouldnt be a problem.


i cannot stand my life anymore. i am 13 and NEVER had a boyfriend. my friend is 12 and has had 7 boyfriends and hooked up with 2. i feel like if i stay so lonely then i will seriously die of a broken heart. i watch my friend hook up with her boyfriend and wonder why wont anyone do that to me? why? im pretty, im sweet, im nice, im flirty. why the fuck am i single and prude? i tried to get my so called 'friend' to find me a boyfriend. she told me 'find your own goddamn boyfriend' i cant stand this. she wants a guy, she gets him, why cant she help a poor innocent girl who will die of loneliness find a boyfriend to love and who loves her? please help what can i do to get a boyfriend and not be so lonely and depressed? thanks sooooo much (link)
oh my god.. your thirteen stop whinging you sound so up yourself


hey, for ela we have to bring in a poem or song lyrics that we like and read them to the class...anyone have any suggestions? (they have to be appropriate for school obviously) thanks! (link)
get the jabberwocky by lewis carrol its freakin awesome


My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend? (link)
dont side with any of them dont get involved and nothing bad can happen just stay out of it


When I'm on my piriod, my friends ask me to do something, and I always say no, becuase well, I'm embarrassed that my blood is going to leek through. So my friends get all mad at me becuase, well I don't tell them why, but I really don't want to tell them that I am on my period.. what do I do so that they won't be mad at me when I say I can't?? (link)
dont miss out on stuff because you have rags.. get tampons get a life


today i sniffed my fabric softener and it smelt good and i stuck it up my nose and the powder rubbed off into my nose and i have no sense of smell what do i do? (link)
youve lost your strongest sense.. serves u right for being ridiculously stupid


I've started using a gothic appearence. (I dressed in black a lot and use dark black make-up on my eyes and either brown or red lipstick.) Nobody even understand why I'm doing it. I'm sort of doing it as an expirement. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong.)It freaks out my teachers, classmates call me a vampire, my boyfriend acts scared of me, and my parents don't like anything about my new look. All I've changed is how I look. I don't want to lose my friends just for the sake of looking gothic. But, if they can't accept how I want to look, are they real friends? What should I do? Advice please! (link)
why would you start dressing like a gothic unless you wanted to hang out people that are 'like' you. The whole point of conforming to these subcultures is a search for individualism. You ARNT AN INDIVIDUAL because there are millions and millions of other people in this world that have just conformed into these different stereotypes. Your not a true goth because you have already labeled yourself as being one and it defeats the whole purpose of the whole thing!!!! have you suddenly become a satanist??? what you worship the devil now and sacrifice goats for fun on weekends? go back to being who you are and stop complaining about being singled out when the whole point of dressing like that is to get stares and STAND OUT stop winging you poser


I have alot of dried skin on my face all of a sudden for no reason, so I stopped using a facial cleanser but it doesn't seem to help, I've tried a feew moisterisers and nothing is working, and I don't wear cover up or foundation or anything like that. Any advice on how to get my face moisterized? (link)
its probaly exmer .. however u spell it, you can something prescribed you just need a really good moisturizer that suits you and exfoliate


i broke up with my bf like 1 year ago and now he goes to my skool and I like him so what should I do ???? (link)
before you think about going back out with him was there an unfixable problem why you broke up in the first placE? if not tell him and ask him if there is any hope


is it wrong that i dont get along, or not really like my best friends boyfriend?..i didnt think of it much, untill i remembered that i didnt like any of the other guys she has talked to before in the past...any advice on this?? (link)
maybe you are just jealous.. if there is something not right about him though, tell your friend im sure she will value your opinion


can u get herpes from giving someone without herpes head? like do they have to have the disease for u to get it? PLEASE HURRY! im very worried :( (link)
yea i think so.. u can give someone herpes if u give them head with a cold sore


I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back? (link)
DONT EVEN GO THERE. hell end up in newspapers all around the world for pediphelia


i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
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you arnt losing respect if you have sex! shit.. its just natural.. as long as ur safe and non slutty about it then why do u have a massive deal about it... i was 14 and 2 days to b exact. thats your morals people are different.. you act like its the worst thing in the world. how do you know chicks arnt only goin out with guys for sex?


okay. there is this kid that really likes me and flirts with me so much its scary lol. and i have a boyfriend. there is this girl that i let ansewr my cell phone once(yea i was playing basketball nd it rang in the middle of the game so i let her answer it.) nd it was my boyfriend. so today, she came into one of my classes nd i was like"yea we have another game tomorrow .. you gona answer my cell again?" so she sed sure. so then i said "hey, there is this kid nd he'll probly call. just flirt with him a little bit" so she was like ohkay yea. come to find out, she has a boyfriend. nd he'd probly be wicked pissed at me if he found out that i asked her to do that. see, i thought she was single. shes really really pretty so i was hopping to hook up her nd the kid that calls my cell. but now im afraid that her b/f's gonna be mad at me cuz he's one of the "popular" guys (popular- i hate that word but there's no better one). so how do i convince her that i was "just joking around" and to not go tell everyone i said that? its kind of like "opening your mouth nd putting your foot in it" (link)
errrrrrrrrrr... its not like you put a gun to her head.. she didnt have to do it.. if she likes her boyfriend so much and knew it would upset him then why did she do it? she had a choice.. its her problem not yours


My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s. (link)
ewwwwwwwww


my dad and my stepmom are havin a baby. should i feel sad or happy (link)
umm how do u feel about it? what ever you want


okay i need some help pease....(it might be long if thats okay) its about math and English project...

Well ther is this project i am suppose to be doing with 3 of my friends and well that makes the 4 of us. so on of these 4 dose not want to do anything she dose not want to get involed with it and when she comes over she is like well i gatta life i dont want to be doing this project its stubid....So my 2 friends and i did the whole MATH project without her and we put her name on it becasue we had to say who it was from and we put her name on it and she did some of the english the only reason we put her name on there was becasue we did not want her to be like oh they kiked my out of the group n i did everything and stuff like that was that a good thing we put her name on it? should we take her name off i donno what to do. (she is my friend not best but a friend) (link)
take her name off and see what she does


i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
i rate high (link)
meh.. tell him why not




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