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Q: For females:
Are you supposed to shave your bikini area?
I can't afford a bikini wax but when I shave I get stubble and all that. Plus,when you shave yourself you can't really get DOWN UNDER. Do you even have to shave at all? Help!!!
For Males:
Is a hairy or clean shaven vagina more attractive?
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Well I shave; when you start getting stubble just shave it again.
&& you can 'down under' its just a little more difficult.
I would recommend not having any hair because I think its more attractive and most guys agree.
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Q: i need some good tips on how to give an amazing blowjob. like i want it to be absolutly amazing! thnx
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Ok so first you need to buy some popsicles and practice.
Your gonna be practicing to deep throat and not hitting your teeth.
That with help with giving an amazing blowjob.
So once you have the basics ( not biting and going deep) you will be ready to give this bj.
So when your hanging out with your man you should take control and get on top of him and start making out.
Grind on him alot while making out. Once you feel that hes hard you should move you hand down to his dick...
Undo his belt and take off the pants.
Then start going down on him.
You should get into a postion that you are comfy cuz your gonna be there for a bit.
My favorite is just beween his legs..
So you should start by looking his directly in the eye with this look like 'damn your gonna taste so good' and lick his shaft from the bottom up. Then put your his dick in your mouth. And start moving up and down (kinda like bobbing). You should take your right hand and grab his dick at the bottom with a kinda tight grip and with your left you should massage his balls but still bobbing at the same time.
Then you can spice it up and put his balls in your mouth and move them around while giving him a handjob. && another thing you can do is move your tounge around right on the head.
And when hes gonna cum make sure you keep going and SWALLOW!
I hope I helped.
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Q: okay so I like this guy I'm 15/f and ill be 16 in october he just turned 20 june and I realllyy like him I'm pretty sure he likes me but I'm not positive but we have been talking a lot lately and I have sent him pictures of me but I'm fully clothed. we have talked about doing stuff and we are going to hangout. I am a virgin and I want to loose it to him I'm pretty sure he will take it. anyway is that considered statitory rape if I'm 16? I really like him and he likes me he said he wouldn't date me until I'm 18 because he cares about me and we don't want to get introuble I want to be withhim bad but do you also think he's using me? thank you for reading and thank you for responding
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To answer your first question depending on the state you live in it wouldnt be rape.
But hun my heart goes out to you.
Please dont have sex with him.
He's using you.
I know you dont want to hear this.
I know you want to believe that he really cares about you and likes you alot but thats not true.
Wanna know how I know?
Well because last year at the end of school I met this guy and he had just graduated. I was 14.
We exchanged numbers and started talking.
Then one night he was like we should hangout and me being young and stupid agreed.
From then on until 6/13/07 we hungout and talked.
Then on 6/13 we had sex.
we continued to have sex until 10/30/07
Then his bi polarness came out and he got really mad and screamed at me the next day.
From then on we stopped talking and now recently we kinda randomly talk.
&& since I had sex with him I have lots of feelings for him.
I still want to be with him.
I never thought I would be like this last year; I told myself I wouldnt be attached.
But you really do become attached..
Im sorry sweetie.
But please talk my advice and save your heart.
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Q: Yea, I think email would work. So can I get it? :)
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Hmm yeah but you seem pretty cool.
Id like to keep in touch; I like making new friends. =]
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Q: Hey, do you have an AIM SN? I have a question for you but I think it'd be better to go back and forth quickly, you know.
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Or I have a cell phone if you wanted to txt me..
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Q: I've taken part in oral sex and mutual masturbation but I have not had sex. When the doctor asks me if I'm sexually active do I say yes, no, or ... kinda? Lol thanks!
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Sexually active is when you have actually had sex.
Like penis in the vagina.
Haha, hope I helped.
I was confused also...
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Q: is anal sex unhealthy? i heard it tears the skin around your rectum and can cause internal bleeding. have any of you girls even tried anal sex? and why do boys want to do it so much but girls dont?
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It's not unhealthy.
Yeah its not like a vagina where it goes back to like regular size. It stretches and doesnt go back so if you do it alot your gonna have a huge asshole. Yeah done it; it hurts.
Guys what it because its tighter than your vagina... && girls dont want it cuz it hurts like a bitch.
Hope I helped.
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Q: hi, im just curious about swallowing cum. is it healthy or harmful in any way? have any of you girls even swallowed? any info would be great!
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No, nothing is harmful.
The only bad thing is its 5 calories.
&& well you might not like the taste but personally i love it..
Um yeah I swallow everytime.
Try it; your guy will thank you for it!
Have fun!!
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Q: 14/f
I'm throwing a party in July and I want it to be good, not one of those parties where everyone just stands around awkwardly and nobody dances.
Something more like a skins party (: (y'know, more wild, a lot of people)
Basically, how do I get a lot of people to come?
What should I do to give it a better party atmosphere -
Music?
Lights?
What can I do to get everyone mingling and dancing and acting more crazy?
Thanks,x
PS. It's going to be optional hippy dress code/themed.
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Well I would suggest not having a dress code because not everyone will do it and they will feel awkard..
But yeah have it at like a community center or someplace, get a dj and make sure hes good and loud, and light show and fog would be good. && if people drink then get alcohol.
Sorry if this was not the party you wanted.
If you just want a party at your place on a budget then I would have it in your basement or someplace where you can clear everything out. Talk to you parents and make sure they can just leave you alone. Tell EVERYONE the time and place (people love parties). && make lots and lots of mix cd's; dont put any slow songs on there. but alot of techno and rap and like dance songs... Buy like a black night and turn the lights off. && serve water or like juice so people can drink when they need a break from dancing. Let them stay til like whenever your parents say..
Hope I helped.
Have fun!
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Q: so my boyfriend had been trying everthing to get me to orgasm, but I seem like I can't. He had fingered me, eatin me out, has had sex with me nothing happens. I get close but it goes away. I want to have a orgasm so bad and better yet cum...can anyone give me advise or help on what to do. I will rate!
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Have him buy a vibrating ring.
Then that night or something start by making out and just alot of foreplay until you are so wet and you want it so badly! Then have him put on the vibrating ring (oh you should be on birth control so he doesnt need a condom cuz it feels much better without it) and have sex and make sure while having sex he kisses you all over and sucks your tits =]
but the thing that will make you cum and orgasm is the vibrating ring. It massages your clit and feels amazing. The first time I came while having sex was because of that amazing ring.
Have fun!
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Q: okay so i really want to be fingered im old enough and i have a boy friend but i have some questions ive been felt up givin him a handjob and of couse made out
do i need to shave right my vagina before so its smooth?
do i take my pants off or do they just go down?
and what do i do like while hes fingering me??
please answer me quick!!
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Well its your choice if you want to shave or not.. I preferably would shave.
Doesnt matter if your pants are off or down; he can do it any way.
Well if you like being fingered then let him know.. Moan, talk dirty, grab his hair, just do whatever you feel like.
Just have fun and go with it.
Good luck.
xoxo
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Q: ohk so i was just wondering if people could tell me some things to expect or to not expect the first time you have sex, personal stories would be helpful but i would really just like to know generally is normal and what isn't normal to happen the first time, thanks in advance, i'll rate : )
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Hello Darling.
Ok so the first time, eh..
I'll just tell you my story and then go from there.
Ok so im 15 now but I lost my virginity on 6/13/07 so that would make me 14...
I only knew the guy for about a month and a half...
He was 18..
I should of knew better.
Before him I had done nothing but as soon as I met him my life like changed..
Ok so leading up the the 13th we had hungout and just went in like complete order...
First we made out then he fingered me and then I gave him a handjob then I gave him a blow job then he ate me up then we had sex (not all in one night, that was like weeks)..
So the night before I lost my virginity we were talking on the phone and the time before that we were gonna hangout but no condom so anyways we are on the phone and hes like we should hangout tomorrow and you should dress up like a school girl, of course I say yes...
KK so its the night or whatever and yeah I dressed up like a lil school girl... I put on a plaid mini skirt, long socks, heels, and a like cover up thats tied up and it shows like my stomach and everything... So he picks me up and hes like shocked that I actually dressed up. Ha, so were just cruising around we go to our spot.. Well hes driving like someones car cuz of backseat space and he usually drives an Auti TT but yeah so were in backseat and then we get naked and the first position is like my legs above his shoulders or whatever and yeah that wasn't the best first position so then I get on top of him and omg, it so much easier and lot more pleasurable...
So yeah that was my first time but I suggest you do it with someone that loves you and you love because I didnt think it would matter if I had sex with him but after we did or whatever I got like attached and he just used me as a booty call..
Yeah so if you learned anything out of that, I hope it helps =]
Good luck.
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Q: Ok so I am planning on having sex with my friend and I'm a virgin. I am not on birth control (and there is no way I can get it so don't tell me I should). I need some good tips on how to not get pregnant. We will be using a condom of course but is that enough? Should he where 2 in case one pops? Anthing is good. I can't wind up pregnant or my parents will kill me (don't tell me not to do it either because I already made up my mind). Also, if you still haven't figured it out yet, I am a complete virgin. He isn't and I want this to be great for him (don't tell me to get ourselves checked either). How do I make it last and feel good (and by that I mean both of us having an orgasm) because I have heard that the first time usually hurts.
THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT CAN HELP. AND PLEASE HURRY BECAUSE THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY TIME.
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Hey sweetie..
Ok first, dont wear 2 condoms!!
That would not be good.
Just one.
And dont worry im pretty sure hes stoked that hes gonna be having sex with a virgin.
Well just like start off by making out and then let him finger you some and then give him a blow job but dont let him cum just tease him a little and then give him a striptease and then start having sex and start off with missionary (which is just him on top) because you dont have to do that much work and you can tell him what to do - or if you want to be in control then get on top of him, most guys love that..
And no the first time doesnt really hurt..
Just as long as you are ready for it and you want it..
Yeah make sure your really wet.
And have fun.
Dont try to be all sexy and act like a porn star because its alot hotter if a girl is having fun with it.
And best of luck.
And dont try to worry about getting pregnant.
You have a very slim chance.
Anyways, again good luck.
Have fun.
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Q: Do you have to hair short hair to get hair extensions? My hair is in down past my shoulders but i would like it longer. Also i can't find non expensive hair extensions anywhere, and if i do i don't know how to put them in myself.
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Well extensions are very expensive. You should get them put in by a professional if you get them. They cost roughly $900 and are not meant for long term wear. They can last 9 months with really excellent care. Do not get extensions if you want them for longer hair because extensions will burn your roots so when you take them out your gonna have to cut your hair again...
Example: Paris Hilton..
She has short hair cuz when she gets her extensions taken out they have to cut the hair again.
Hope this helped.
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Q: everytime im close to giving my boyfriend a hj or bj i get really nervous cuz i dont no how or i feel like im gonna go something wrong or stupid...any advice on what to do about this??
thankss!
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Ok your man wont think anything your doing like that is wrong.
Nothing will go bad unless your bite him or hit your teeth. To give bjs you should buy a popsicle and suck on that cuz then when your teeth you will learn its bad cuz your teeth will get cold and then you can learn to deep throat buy trying to eat all the popsicle and like handjobs are easy if you want some help just be ask him how he does it && learn from that. Hope I helped. Oh and when you give a bj make sure you swallow! =]
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Q: I got my period a year ago during Thanksgiving Dinner and I've been wearing pads since then. However, summer is coming and all my friends are already using Tampons. There is no way I am going to miss out on swimming during the summer!
So, I was wondering...
Do Tampons hurt? Does it take a while to get used to?
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Tampons do not hurt at all. The first time I got my period I used a tampon on the 3rd day. It barely takes any time to get used to. You cant even feel them. && its so much better than pads!
Pads are gross!!
Haha. Hope I helped.
But it might take you a while to get the tampon in right away but just be patient and you will get it. Read the instructions, they help!
Good luck.
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Q: 15/f
I hooked up with this guy a few days ago. I haven't seen him since(we've talked) but whenever i look at his pictures or get a text from him, i feel wierd. It's not like butterflies or anything, i actually feel nauseous. not like repulsed or anything, just... sick. and it's wierd, because i kind of like him.
is this at all normal?
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Did you have sex with him?
Well either yes or no, your feeling are very normal.
I believe you feel like this is because you did in some way hook up with him and that was physical and it really does affect you emotionally.
You dont have to love him to feel like and I dont think you do, I just think that you feel connected to him because of the hook up...
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Q: i am a cutter, i think. i recentley started getting a paper clip to my arm, and...cutting it i guess. for some reason i don't really feel the pain, only afterward when i move my arm around. i dont no how to hide it, this is so not me. i am always this happy go lucky girl. im popular and have tons of friends, so i just don't no what to do. i always wear spaggetti straps and stuff, but now i can't. i just don't no what to do, i don't no how to stop. i want to tell my friend, but how do i no she's not going to tell anyone? and i dont even no how to tell her. so, how do i tell my friend, and what do i do? please help me...
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Ok no offense but it does sound like your doing this for attention.
I dont know you and dont know what is happening in your life.
But cutting is a serious issue.
Dont take it litely...
A paper clip though? Will do NOTHING.
&& if you so popular with tons of friends you should at least trust one of them,.
I dont think your a cutter.
I dont think your depressed.
I think you just like attention, and cutting yourself will get you attention but not positive attention.
Seriously stop 'cutting' yourself.
If you really depressed go to the doctor and get anti depressants.
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Q: im like so white i could glow in the dark if it was possible well i can with a black light. ive tried sooo many tanning lotions its sad so how much does it cost to get a fake tan, spray an fake bake prices please!!!!
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Hi, yeah if you cant tan in sunlight you cant tan in a tanning bed.
Its worse for your skin anyway and you will be really red. Only use a tanning bed if you can tan.
Hi, well can you even tan?
Like some peoples skin cant even tan so then you would need a lotion. If you can tan though depending how big of city you live in.. prices can be really cheap. I would probably use a lotion though.. Try Jergens or the one tanning lotion from Bath and Body Works.. sorry i forgot what its called but.. yeahh hehe..
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Q: I have depression and I believe I noticed it since 4th grade, if not earlier. I'm not another teenagers going "Oh, I'm depressed." My best friend, who has been suffering major depression ever since 3rd grade, told me that what I feel and think are exactly how she thought and felt. (She's diagnosed so she's not making this up).
Well, my mom doesn't believe me and I'm just like fucking discouraged from seeking for anymore help from an adult directly. I want to get better, though, because I'm sick of depression taking over my life.
I can't get any medical help, I'm self harming, I write, sing, do ballet, listen to music, talk to people, everything...but they don't help me anymore. I don't know what else to do.
PLEASE give me something I can do or take that will help me.
15/f
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Your mom loves you, so you have to tell her that you need to go to the doctor and that you are depressed. Show her your cuts and tell her taht you want help. The doctor will probably suscribe you anti depressants. Most likely Zoloft because they are good for young people. I am on that and I have been for like a year.
Yes I dont want to take pills for the rest of my life but these really do help and keep me positive. Just make sure if you want to be on anti depressants you will need to stick with them and be dedicated and take them every day.
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bio
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Hii. My name is Nicole Danielle.
I have a fucked up life.
I have been through alot and I hope I can help you with any of your problems because I have probably been through them also. If you have any questions/comments let me know. :D
I dont want too get to personal because I tend to do that too quickly.
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Gender: Female Location: Minnesota Age: 16 Member Since: November 20, 2007 Answers: 50 Last Update: November 18, 2008 Visitors: 3766
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