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ohk so i was just wondering if people could tell me some things to expect or to not expect the first time you have sex, personal stories would be helpful but i would really just like to know generally is normal and what isn't normal to happen the first time, thanks in advance, i'll rate : )
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Hello Darling.
Ok so the first time, eh..
I'll just tell you my story and then go from there.
Ok so im 15 now but I lost my virginity on 6/13/07 so that would make me 14...
I only knew the guy for about a month and a half...
He was 18..
I should of knew better.
Before him I had done nothing but as soon as I met him my life like changed..
Ok so leading up the the 13th we had hungout and just went in like complete order...
First we made out then he fingered me and then I gave him a handjob then I gave him a blow job then he ate me up then we had sex (not all in one night, that was like weeks)..
So the night before I lost my virginity we were talking on the phone and the time before that we were gonna hangout but no condom so anyways we are on the phone and hes like we should hangout tomorrow and you should dress up like a school girl, of course I say yes...
KK so its the night or whatever and yeah I dressed up like a lil school girl... I put on a plaid mini skirt, long socks, heels, and a like cover up thats tied up and it shows like my stomach and everything... So he picks me up and hes like shocked that I actually dressed up. Ha, so were just cruising around we go to our spot.. Well hes driving like someones car cuz of backseat space and he usually drives an Auti TT but yeah so were in backseat and then we get naked and the first position is like my legs above his shoulders or whatever and yeah that wasn't the best first position so then I get on top of him and omg, it so much easier and lot more pleasurable...
So yeah that was my first time but I suggest you do it with someone that loves you and you love because I didnt think it would matter if I had sex with him but after we did or whatever I got like attached and he just used me as a booty call..
Yeah so if you learned anything out of that, I hope it helps =]
Good luck.
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Expect it to hurt.
Don't expect to enjoy yourself.
Your first time is never anything special, as opposed to what tv/movies make you want to think. Most likely it will be uncomfortable and pretty awkward for the most part.
Personal story?
It took about 3 months after deciding I was ready, to physically do it because I wasn't comfortable enough. Losing your virginity is a very vulnerable thing, I was scared of being that vulnerable. I wasn't comfortable, which in return meant that I just couldn't do it.
It eventually happened though, and I personally don't regret the decision at all. I lost my virginity almost 3 years ago, and me and my boyfriend are still together.
But unless you are 100% ready and comfortable, I suggest waiting.
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my first time lasted about a half hour and despite what everyone said i didnt bleed and it didnt hurt.
Expect to be nervous. Its very easy though so no worries
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It's normal for the first time to be extremely awkward, painful, disappointing, scary, embarassing, and confusing... For females it can be very emotional, sometimes painful for males it can be nerve racking and often if its their first time they can experience loss of erection or ejaculate far too soon, or not at all! Its rare to have a "good" first time, just like riding a bicycle, weird analogy but seriously you need practise to get the hang of it, and dispel the fears of falling off so to speak (embarasment, pain, awkwardness) my advise would be don't have high expectations for your first time, make sure you are ready and are prepared to work at something which can be special with someone special :)
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