I'm 20 and I attend Stony Brook University. I've always loved helping my friends and family so I've decided to give it a try with helping people I don't know. Any one out there who wants advice, feel free to ask...
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Gender: Female
Location: New York City
Occupation: Student
Age: 20
Member Since: January 20, 2006
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16/f
i've never had a real relationship. im not fat, or ugly. i have a lot of friends but i can't seem to find a guy for me. every time i meet one, they sweet talk, and i fall for them and they get what they want out of me and then leave me. i fall for it everytime and i hate it because i am a mess because of it. i started doing really stupid things because im getting depressed. i hate that fact that i did that and im changing. but im still depressed. will i ever find someone for me? it seems all of my friends have found their special someone. whats wrong with me?? i dont want to be an easy peice of ass. but i am. i dont mean to be it just happens because all they need to do is tell me im beautiful and i cant say no. im longing for someone to care for me. and anyone i trust, they betray me.
help, or anything would be greatly appreiciated.
xo (link)
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As females, sometime we unintentionally give guys all the power in situations. You have to realize that you have the power to control how you want your life to be. As in, if you dont want to be an easy peice of ass,you dont have to be. I know its hard to not fall for someone who sweet talks you but your going to have to hold back a bit because you dont want to be the one hurt in the end.. As for will you ever find someone? Your 16 so you still have time, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 18. Its going to happen when you least expect it (it tends to happen when you least expect it or when you dont even want anyone at all). Your heart is a precious thing and you have to guard it until the right person comes along.. Hope I helped a bit :)
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i'm thinkin aboout being a foreign exchange student but i don't know anything about it! i need all of anything you know about it! please help i'm desperate. i also was wondering if you knew if the programs you go through will check out the family you are going to see and see if they are ok if you know wat i mean? (link)
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Well I have never participated in a foreign exchange program but I have known people who have done it. It is a great opportunity to learn in a different country and pick up on some new culture. If your interested in being in one, you could consult your school and ask them if they have information on an exchange program. You could also research it online. And yes, these programs do check out the family you would be staying with to make sure it is an okay and safe enviroment for you to be in. I hope I helped. Take Care :)
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Do Nair-type products make hair grow back thicker? (link)
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Nope, none of these products make the hair grow back thicker, the hair may just appear to be thicker.
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hey! i recently permed my hair (about 3 weeks ago) and while i was at the salon, the stylist told me that i cant swim in swimming pools because the perm will come out. origionally, this wasnt a problem, but i separated my shoulder and now have to get in the pool (head under also) for physical therapy. is my perm going to come out? (link)
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Well from personal experiance (I get a perm every two months), your hair dresser is right. Going in the pool could cause the perm to come out and it to become damaged(also the chemicals in the pool could damager your hair, especially because you have a perm). BUT since you have had your hair permed for 3 weeks, it shouldnt really damage your hair. Try wearing a swimming cap, it might help to stop the water from coming in.
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how does a condom break while your having sex.. im just curious (link)
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There are a few ways. One way could be because it was not put on correctly. Another way is if an oil based lube is used. Also if a condom is passed its expiration date, it is more likly to break.
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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere (link)
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Continue to spend a little more time around him and give off the vibe that you like him. If you really like him then you should tell him when you feel the time is right. The age difference could play out in a negative way (as in he might say your too young) but you wont know unless you try. Good luck :)
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I have had unprotected sex a lot and my boyfreind had accidentaly ejaculated inside me before quite a few times and while im on my period he always does because i've never gotten pregnant.. does this mean that i'll never get pregnant? is something wrong with me?
please help (link)
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That doesn't mean you wont get pregnant in the future, like everyone else said, it just makes you extremely lucky. There isn't anything wrong with you but I dont suggest you take the chance by having continuos unprotected sex. Good luck with everything :)
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If I'm a female in my 20's, have never been sexually active, and don't plan to start for a while (just not interested right now and too many other things going on in my life), and haven't had any problems with my health or menstruation, do I need to see a ob-gyn? I'm busy with graduate school, so I'd like to just put it off, but I'm hearing more and more women my age talk about their ob-gyn appointments. I'm confused about whether ob-gyn care is necessary for women who aren't sexually active and have never been. I made a resolution to take care of my health this year and get to a physician for a physical, along with other doctor's appointments, but I don't know if a ob-gyn visit should also be on my list. (link)
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Even if you are not sexually active, it recommended for all females who reach the age of 18 to have a ob-gyn appointment(this was told to me by my regular physician).
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Okay. The guy I like likes me AND my best friend. My best friend also likes him. Me and this guy had practically gone out in the summer and we were very close, so you can probably understand why I'm still hanging on to him. We're very good friends. And, everyone that I talk to says we'd make such a good couple and we're meant to be. But, my question is, should I still be hanging onto him, or let my best friend have him (even if it does mean I'll be hurt)? (link)
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I understand that you like this guy and based on what you said he likes you too, but the fact that he also likes your best friend is a big no no. The question you should be asking yourself is if you are willing to lose your best friend over a guy. I think you and your best friend need talk. The best thing may be for neither of you to have him because if one of you starts to date him, someone will end up hurt. Good Luck with the situation ;)
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now. His father was diagnosed with cancer back in May and when the finally did catch it, it was too advanced.
Today they officially gave him 6 months to live.
My boyfriend was all out crying when he told me. I've known him since we were 12 (we're both 18 now) and I've never seen him cry.
His brother committed suicide in October and even then I saw no tears.
I don't know what to do here. I don't know what to say and I don't know how to act. You'd think that after I've known him and his family so long that I would. But I don't. Not even after his brother. (link)
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With a situation like this, there is no sure answer on what to do. He's hurting a lot right now, and you know it too. The best thing you can do is be there for him and let him know you care by your words and being his shoulder to cry on. Just be his support right now because he needs you more than ever.
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Are you expected to moan while a guy is fingering you? Or do you just lay there silently? And does being fingered usually lead to an orgasm? Thanks. (link)
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Well when a guy is fingering a girl, they usually look for a reaction from the girl to know that she is enjoying it. Do or say whatever feels comfortable to you. If you feel like moaning, go ahead. Fingering could lead to an orgasm but its different for each person.
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I really like this guy and he told me that he likes me too, alot as a matter of fact...the only problem is that he kinda flirts with other girls and I heard he's been seeing his ex-girlfriend. Well, it's more like he's been talking to her alot more than before when they broke up. I keep asking him if what Im hearing is true, but he either denies it or says that it's nothing. I want him to act like he likes me, like he says he does, IF he does. but i dont know how his reaction will be or if he'll even want to be friends anymore. What do I do or say to him?
~heartrulzmind~, 18 (link)
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You cant make someone act like they like you if its not something they want to do. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel, as in, tell him that hearing about him and his ex makes you upset.Also tell him that the way he acts towards you, like he doesnt like you,isnt cool(don't use those exact words). If he still does not give you a straight answer then maybe he may not be the best person for you. In this situation, put your feelings first, not his.
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I have a friend and we are so close yet as much as we look like a perfect match, we'd preffer to be friends, do you think its wiser to stay as friends or become lovers? (link)
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Well you pretty much answered it yourself. The both of you prefer to stay friends so maybe you should. If the time comes in the future where you both want to take things to the next level then it might be worth taking that chance. Just make sure the lines of communication are open, and whatever decision is made about your future(wheither it be as a couple or friends)is done between the both of you.
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