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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it.

yes your still a virgin!

~*~Natalie~*~

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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..

hey! don't have a kid. i went through a stage like that when i was 12 cuz my cuz had a cute baby. i would baby sit and quickly found out BABYS ARE HARD WORK!!!!!!!! don't ruin your life. if he won't ever break up with you as you stated have kids later after your married or at least older. your only 15, wait a few years! you'll thank yourself if you wait!

~*~Natalie~*~

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i dont exactly have a question...but i just need someone to talk to and just for anyone to give me advice...i am a Freshman..im 14 im in a relationship. and i've been stressing alot of skool lately!!...its just that im failing 2 of my classes rite now!. its just that my 2 teachers give out TOO much assignments and its just stressing me bcause i dont do it! my sister says i need to learn how 2 manage my time! and i told her its not bkuz of cheerleading...(because im always @ praktice or @ a game) and well i just dont know! somebody help!!

Hey! I understand what your going through. i'm pretty much at the same time in my life. i do sports and am usually good @ skool but not this year! i have boyfriends and bunches of other crap. i think it would be kool 2 talk to ya'! my email's n_cheerleader@hotmail.com

~*~Natalie~*~

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ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me.

there is NOTHING wrong with you! i can go like 4 or 5 rounds. you just have i high sex drive. you can talk to him about it. or you can masterbate.

~*~Natalie~*~

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When I was 17, everything was going great in my life. I had a job, a car, a boyfriend, and family that loved me. But my great life soon turned into a nightmare-I got a phone call, my mom and dad were in the hospital. They were driving when a car had hit them, and they died 3 days later. I'm 20 now, and I take care of my 13 year old sister and 9 year old brother. I have so much stress being a 20 year old parent. Sometimes I just break down and want to die. Of course, that's not an option. I need help, how can I keep up with working full time and taking care of my two siblings. I dont have family that could help me, I'm all on my own! Any advice would be helpful. Thank you.

hunny, i see where your coming from. i'm happy you are taking care of your siblings. i know it can be hard. you could hire like a nanny, but just so she can clean or cook or w/e. if you don't have enough money some skools offer an after school program where they can watch them and help with homework so you do't have2 worry. stay strong. best of luck darlin'

much luv
~*~Natalie~*~

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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!

hey! congrats! i like...

girls~
Lorraine
Sarindy (pronounced...sarende)
April
Natalie (thats my name!lol)

boys~
jeremy
landen
brian
calvin

hope i helped! i wish you the BEST of luck with your child, and hope you have a VERY wonderful life! plz rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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whos pierced there own cartilage? did it get badly infected? or worse? i read about this girl who got it done and something shattered in her ear and it got deformed. did anything serious happen to any of you?

hey! i've pierced my own cartilage. all you do is you need an earing that is meant for piercing because they are sharper, than you soak it in alcohol and then you put a mark where you want it and you just push it in. it won't hurt anymore than if a professional did it(if you do it right) it shouldn't get infected if you clean them everyday with alcohol.nothing serious happened to me! hope i helped please rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

it is when you suck your boyfriend (If your a girl)dick. or lick your girlfriends pussy.(if your a dude.

~*~Natalie~*~

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I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*

Maroon 5: she will be loved
harder to breath

Ashley Simpson: Pieces of Me

Ryan Cabrara: On the Way down

Dashbourd Confessional: Vindicated

and much more

~*~Natalie~*~

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my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice

i've delt with that my whole life too! unfortunatly it SUCKS. but 135 is not fat. its normal. it makes me mad and sad when i look at a picture of britney spears or other super-skinny celebs cause they make young people make them feel like they have to weigh 10 lbs and dress like a slut. but just be happy with your body and if your friends ignore you and the guys can't see how beautiful you are than they aren't worth it!


~*~Natalie~*~

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Me and my friend really want to get fit, is there any good dances that keep you toned?

belly dancing really tones your muscles.

~*~Natalie~*~

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ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something?

no, it's not magnetic effect. he has to insert it into her.

~*~Natalie~*~

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What are all the flavors of condoms? Do they really taste good? What kind taste best?

hey! there are tons of flavors. my favorite is cola. banana is gross!!!!


~*~Natalie~*~

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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?

hey. 69 means you are giving your partner oral sex while they are giving you oral sex. wet is when you are horny and you get wet down there.

~*~Natalie~*~

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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)

hey! tell your sis congrats!!!

well i like...
~girls

lorraine
april


~Boys

brian
charlie
adam

hope i helped!
plz rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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my cousins have both had a lot of trouble with drugs and addiction. i am very scared they will die and i always cry when i talk about it. I get so sad and i dont no what to do, my emotions are taking me over!

hunny...i know where you are coming from. my cuz used to do EVERYTHING! and he still smokes sometimes. it scares me too, because he's 20 and has been in SOOOOOOOOOOO many drunken fights. all you can do is tell them that you are scared for them. If they can't see how much you love them and refuse to listen, than that is there decision! as bad as that may sound!:(

~*~Natalie~*~
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I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.

When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.

I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Mabey is worried that you will have your own family now, and you will be a mommy and not a little girl. Or he could be scared for you, cause little babies are big work (and expensive!). But he should be happy for you and your husband! Also he should be proud, cuz now a days there are so many fatherless, children, with unmarried parents in there teen years, and he should be happy you aren't one of them! Well, CONGRATS!!!!!!! Hope everything goes well!

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Okay well im 13 years old i am going to be turning 14 in aug. and i'm having a birthday party at my house w/ guys and girls and i have no idea what to do at the party does any one have any ideas? i have no swimming pool so can't swim please help thank you so much :)

You could set up a volleyball net (u can get a cheap one at wal-mart), listen to music indoors/outdoors(and dance), watch movies, spin the bottle! J/P! idk anything else!

~*~Natalie~*~

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I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?!

YOUR 13!!??? Well, isee where you are coming from. and i hate to say this, but i think he just wants to have sex with you! :( I'm sorry i said it but your 13! and i just don't think he wants a relationship! sry

~*~Natalie~*~

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whats a good and inexpenicve way to make ur teeth look whiter ...i brush everyday with colgate or crest but does anyone kno a really good toothpasate or like thing to make ur teeth whiter?? {crest whitestrips are like 30 bucks and im only 13 how can i afford that?



teeths

hey! i have brace's and i get them off next summer so i want to have really white teeth for school, so i was thinking of that too. As you said some products are crazy expensive! But i just went to the dentist and she gave me FREE colgate simply white. now i know it can't be expesive if they just GIVE it out. Now, i havn't tried it so i don't know how good it is, but it's suppsed to take off 14 years, in 14 days. so if you wanna try go for it! hope i helped!

~*~Natalie~*~
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