Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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Hey everyone! I'm 14/f
In 4th grade, I rode a bus to and from school. On that bus was a boy who lived on the other side of my block who I used to hang out with a lot. I was talking to him on the bus in the morning and he said "You're really pretty." & I said thanks and then later he told me I was "blessed". I just want to know what that means? I haven't talked to him in a long time since he moved but I still think about what he said to me. I know it was meant to be something nice though.
It has been on my mind a lot for 4 years! Everyone I have asked said they have no idea what he could've meant by it. So I decided to ask on here. I hope someone knows!
Thank you to everyone in advance! Anything you may know will be appreciated! (link)
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Sweetheart, it is really a good thing. When a guy says 'you're blessed' it means you are lucky.
It can mean a lot of good things, but nothing negative.
If he called you pretty, than he's saying that you are blessed because you are so attractive, nice, sweet, ect.
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I'm making a video and it has a part where someone from a family dies. What are some songs I could use.
(Has to be pop/slow pop/country-pop.) (link)
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go to google and look up funeral songs.
My favorite is my Brad Paisly and Dolly Parton-When I get to where I'm going
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My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and she's been the best thing that ever happened to me. She came to me when I was heart broken and confused from my last relationship, and she nursed me back to health. Though, me being the idiot that I am, I didn't appreciate what she did for me at that time, and I went and cheated on her. I've already went through the guilt stages where I've beaten myself up behind the guilt and completely wore myself out mentally. I know I already don't deserve her and should come clean. The thing is, I love her so much now, and really just want whats best for her, even if the best isn't me. I just want to know a good way to come clean and how to bring it up to her. (link)
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No matter how you chose to, it's going to hurt either way.
She will be mad, she will be hurt, she may even leave you-but thats risk and consequences you must take with doing something like this.
If my boyfriend cheated on me, and he kept it from me for a while and acted like nothing happened and we cuddled, kissed, had sex, ect
I would feel more betrayed, than him telling me a couple of days AFTER it happened.
Honesty and faithfulness are the two keys in a healthy relationship, and I know you are aware of this, or you wouldn't be torn up.
Everyone makes mistakes, did you know that on average, EVERYONE CHEATS ATLEAST ONCE IN THEIR LIFE TIME?
There is NO good way to bring it up, blunt, sincere, and non sugar coated-is your best bet.
A year and a half is a long time with someone-
I'm assuming you cheated on her a while back? Not recently? Correct?
Maybe explain that than, you didn't know what you had then, and you didn't feel as strongly for her when you cheated, and now you are completely, out of your mind, in love with her. Let her know that if you felt the way you do now with her, before you cheated, you wouldn't have cheated.
Let her know how sorry you are, if you happen to feel like crying, cry. Crying isn't a sign of weakness, its a sign of strength, recognition, and sorrow. Tell her how guilty you have felt, tell her how scared you are of losing her, but you know she's going to do what she wants.
Let her know that you will do whatever it takes to gain back trust, and prove to her that it'll never happen again.
You have to find those words to say though. I cannot give you them.
But do NOT make promises if you do not intend to keep it, okay?
I wish you guys the best,
let her know that this is a bump in a road, and you believe you guys are strong enough to get over it TOGETHER.
She may need some space, and some time,
and if she says she needs some space but doesn't wanna break up, give it to her.
But everyday, send her just one text message- letting her know that you are thinking of her, and you miss her.
Leave it short, simple and sweet.
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I wrote this rap for the song "somebody that I used to know remix" and it's my first rap so tell me if it's good or things that could help the verse. If I should rap fast of slow. You could add more to the verse.
The Verse:
All these voices in my head come as I'm laying in bed
We had it all, I wasn't gonna let you fall
I was in rehab for something I thought I had
Everyone thinks I'm bad.
HEYYYYY
Stop eating your chicken and listen.
You were the one for me
What could be is a mystery.
Don't realized what you done honey bun.
While you were soaking in the sun, I was in the room thinking why do you make me cry, the anger, frustration, DENIAL.
Now I walk a mile with an empty heart and sadness.
Thinking I caused all this madness when it was all you. (link)
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I'm sorry but this is terrible. Writing lyrics aren't very easy to do. None of this make sense.
In order to be a successful rapper write, you have to take critisim calmly and not to heart.
I mean, there is nothing I can tell you on how to fix it, because it's that bad.
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HI pls help meh out .. i have a bf n we have been dating for bout 9 months ..at the beginning he used to talk bout all .. how we should have kids n we should marry ... n then .. after we had sex .. not saying only after sex .. but for a month .. its been weird ... everytime i talk bout that he is like .. we ll c .. dont know ... dont think too much .. n then i was like so ur not planning to marry meh n he said i ll be bored to death if we talk bout this .. so i cant talk bout anything i like ... since we r going to uni in bout a month in completely different country .. do u think i should break up with him or should i try to continue it with him? i cry sometimes .. cause wat he says just hurts meh sometimes .. n i m a vry emotional girl .. so m worried .. does he wnts to continue .. n yesterday he asked meh ... if we break uo will we still be freinds .. n all i said was maybe .. so? wat shall i do? (link)
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Leave him.
He's going to end up leaving you when you guys go to different countries.
He's trying to give you signals without giving it away. Read the signs and don't be naive.
No girl deserves to have to wonder what the hell she did wrong- and I DON'T want you to think that. You haven't done anything wrong.
It just seems like,
1. He's bored with the relationship.
2. He cares for you, but doesn't want to be with you.
You need to let him go and stop letting him drag you around.
Of course though,
We don't know your relationship based off the information you gave us.
Maybe he doesn't want to leave you.
Have you tried asking him 'Why did you ask me about us breaking up and still being friends?"
tell him straight up- if you don't wanna be with me, tell me now-stop playing with my heart.
Good Luck
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I don't like what any of you people have to say for yourselves. Wanting to die? I mean, COME ON, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. You should listen to the 12 year old boy who lost his girlfriend because she was moving somewhere else. Like he said, you have to have faith, and like I say you have to get on with life. My mother passed away 2 years ago and did I get on with life? YES I DID!!! God told me that if you commit suicide, he would put you in hell in the Lake of Fire to burn,die,burn,die repeatedly until 10 years later.Hey,12 year old boy, if you read this, I want to ask you something.I am a 12 year old religious girl who thinks you are faithful and true. I don't want to be your girlfriend, but I want to just tell you that the words you said were very...lovely.God tells me that your girlfriend will come back one day and you will marry,but before that you will have many other girlfriends. One day you meet me and our eyes will lock immediately but we won't recognize each other. (link)
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You are 12 years old- stop judging people and grow up. This website isn't about judging people. When someone wants to commit suicide- it doesn't feel good- and having people like you put them down doesn't make it any easier.
If you are as religious as you are claiming to be than how would you feel to know that God could be VERY angry with you because of your judging of another human- or you being cruel to those in need. If someone committed suicide because of something you wrote- God would know- and it would be partially your fault.
You will reap what you sow.
We don't want to hear your rants on suicide any more than you want to listen to those people who are ranting about commiting it.
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When I bought the hair I wasn't paying attention to if it was human hair or synthetic. It won't curl, that's why I'm asking. I put rollers in it overnight and I tried to curl it but it won't curl. Then I tried to curl it with a flat iron and curling iron but it wouldn't curl. Does that mean it's synthetic?
I burned it on the stove and it burned like normal hair, but it won't curl
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You need to read the package it came in. It's hard to tell the difference between the two when it isn't in the package. What you could do, is go back to the store and find the hair you bought and ask the person who works there.
One problem might be that is naturally straight.
If thats the case, you need to wash it like you would your own hair.
Hair that has been straighten-won't curl correctly.
If it doesn't curl after you wash and blow dry it- than it isn't real hair.
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I am 17, f and am moving into college August 25th. My mom has been begging me to get a job for a while, I have tried to only be turned down every time because I am not 18. Well, she just filled out an application for a job in my hometown and expects me to travel home on weekends to work if I get the job. I told her I don't think I can handle getting used to college life that quick, get good grades, make new friends and travel to and fro to go to work on weekends and I even told her that I don't think I would be able to come home that much because I have to keep a 3.0 to be able to stay in my major, yet she still filled out the application.. herself. I can't come home to work on weekends, while trying to do reading work or writing a paper. . I even told her that I will look for a job sophomore year so I will at least be used to college life then or even wait til second semester at school to get a job on campus. Granted, I don't even know if I will get the job or not but she's so stuck on me getting a job that she went as far as filling out an application.. for ME. What do I do? (link)
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Just because you aren't 18 doesn't mean you can't have a job. When you turn 16 (in most states), you are allowed to work. So why would you turn each job down?? That stupid.
A job is a job. Many people would be thrilled to actually get hired. If you want to be treated like an adult, you have to start to act like one. Just because you are in college doesn't mean you shouldn't have a job. Freshman, or not. 85% of college students are working fulltime, or part time jobs. I'm in college, and I'm working part time, and it isn't hard at all. My work is very flexible with my college, so if I need a day off to study, or whatever-than so be it.
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I am 16 and I have many issues but I think I am a slut I have had sex with 4 guys but they were only one night stands I suck dick all the time and have had 2 pregnancy scares. I go out with a new guy every night and they are always much older than me(18, 19, and 20) I dress in revealing clothes, send a lot of dirty pictures and sext, I party and get high with multiple guys.Currently Im talking to 11 guys and 4 of them are my "boyfriends"...... I am a player and I've had some StDs also I have belly button piercing and a tattoo on my hip leading down to my vaginal area.... am I slut????????????????? (link)
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Why, yes. Yes you are.
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Kayy so i have tummy hair and back hair :( i hate it. i wanna get rid of it but like i dont know how?
if i shave it won't it grow back but thicker and blacker? and idk about lotions because they all say "for legs and face only" so please help? :) (link)
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Don't listen to any of these users below me.
I had hair underneath my belly button, so being dumb, I shaved it, and it grew back black and thick. It's disgusting.
If you remove the hair, it'll grow back black and thick; plain and simple.
it's best to just leave it alone, because if someone would have told me that before I did it, I would have NEVER done it.
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Alright so I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months. The initial feelings of infatuation have gone away and I kind of feel like we are drifting apart. I don't think he sees that there's anything wrong, but my emotions are everywhere.
He is extremely flakey and has been canceling plans a lot. It all started when he told me he was going to come to my high school graduation like a month ago but then said he was caught up in a golf game and didn't think he could make it. I was definitely crushed and didn't feel like he valued me enough to come and i told him I was really upset. I think i made him feel guilty because he ended up coming, which was nice but I wanted him to come because he WANTED to ya know? After that I noticed him flaking out on our plans a lot more and it is driving me crazy.
Also... I don't know in general i just feel like he is bored with me or doesn't value me as much anymore. I love him and I really don't want to break up but I just don't know what to do about these emotions. HELP! :O (link)
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You are right; when you are wit someone longer that 4 months the 'puppy' love disappears.
You need to figure out if he is worth working through; and by your last sentence, I can tell he is.
Talk to him about it. Good communication is always a plus in a relationship. Sit down and tell him how you feel. You NEVER ask a guy how he feels baout something; because boys don't feel-they think. So instead ask him what he thinks about it;
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Hi there,
I just got an abuse report on the zombie answer you rated a 1. You know better than this. You have been here some time, and have had a previous account closed for losing your temper over something incredibly trivial. (Rating people a 1 and calling them names over monopoly pieces... Still can't believe that ever happened.)
Anyway, the answer wasn't the least bit hateful. You have a choice: You can change the rating, or I will change it. Won't hurt me either way, but I had high hopes for you since you returned to the site, and would hate to place the first mark against your account for something like this.
I am hoping you are just having a bad day, and will now see that they answered your question in the kindest way possible.
I deleted the answers from people that asked if you were 5 years old, and if you were completely stupid before they got to you. Compared to those responses, how do you feel about that answer now? ;-)
Your call. Hope you make the right one this time.
DN. (link)
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Yeah it was just one of those days; I was really being sincere when I asked that question because where I'm from something was on the news about a woman who ate her husbands body parts? and said that our movie thrills might be coming true;
but I will change the rating, I do not want to be banned; I enjoy giving advice on here.
I'm sorry.
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I really appreciate this! Thank you so much. I'm 15, he is 15 too. Yes, school has finished. But I have 2 exams at school coming up, which he will be in them exams. He never really texts me back, I think he's always out with his friends but over the interent when I try and make conversation with him, he seems like he's off with me. As if he knows that the questions coming about my feelings and tries to avoid talking, like... He uses one words answers, you know, no effort? But there's this hope when he smiles at me, I don't think I've once seen him smile at a girl. He just nodds but with me? Different. (link)
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You don't rate well, therefore I'm not wasting my time helping you.
I've told you atleast 10 times to leave him the hell alone, and you aren't listening. So either take the advice, or shut the fuck up about it.
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hi im a 16 year old girl! :) and this is really weird but everytime i wear sweats (sometimes jeans) and im in school or im at home and i cross my legs or put my legs up or just sit, my private down there smells. i can smell it by just sitting & its weird. i do shower and wash really good down there and idk what to do. i dont want to buy anything at the store becaue i dont have any money and my parents wont let me get anything like thaat. any suggestions! please help! thankss! (link)
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I use to have this problem; but it depends;
what does it smell like? it may be caused from sweat.
Wearing cotton panties will make it less likely to cause sweat.
the best thing to do, is when you get out of the shower, you can blow dry your self down there so no left water will stay down there.
if that doesn't help, I used baby powder; and that relieved some of the smell.
if you can smell it through your jeans and sweatpants than you could have a UTI or a yeast infection; depending on what it smells like and if you have itching and burning, ect.
I'd talk to your mom about it, and see what she thinks.
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hi im a 16 year old girl and i always get pieces of skin that stick out often beside my nails or under them and my cuticles are really really bad. do you have any tips to make your nails and all that more healthy without paying a lot of money and i dont have enough money to go to the nail salon!
any advice or tips? thanks! :) (link)
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You can push back your cuticles; any object will work; and once you push them back, you can clip them off;
there is a little set you can get at walmart; and it's like maybe 8 bucks; which isn't bad because you can always use it for years and years; and it comes with a nail hardener to help your nails stay healthy.
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hi im a 16 year old girl, how do you get waterproof mascara off?? i usually buy non waterproof mascara and i just take it off with water, but i bought the wrong one and now i can never take it off? any suggetions at home that i can take it off with?? or anything cheap but really good that works?
thanks! :) (link)
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If you go to walmart, there is this thing called facial cleansers; and that'll get it off;
it's like 2.50
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hi im a 16 year old girl and im wondering if propel is bad for youu? i know it has zero calories, but is there anything bad in there for you or anything loll?
thanks! :) (link)
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EDIT: I wasn't being mean at all! I answered your question. So you need to seriously grow up. You could become banned from this site if the owner of it believes you are posting pointless questions.
Propel isn't bad to you. Everyone has different opinions for you, but personally, I think its better than a coke;
if you are concerned about if it is bad for your health, go to the website of propel, and see reviews from others, or go to google and see if anyone has noticed any negative side affects from it.
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I really appreciate your advice. But why did he do this? Why did he make me feel special and then just drop me? I always have this bit of hope every time he smiles at me. Is there any way I actually get him to want me again? I don't want to give up, he means so much to me! I don't think there's a moment when he's not on my mind... (link)
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I'll take you step by step; how about that?
First off, I need you to answer a few of my questions so I can give you the best advice I can.
How old are you? How old is he?
Is school already out? If not, how much long you have until it is?
Now, when you guys are texting, does he text you back?
Obviously when you text him about how you feel, he doesn't say anything; thats why Im wondering. He may not know what to say; or how to handle it.
So answer those questions; and I'll help you out
:)
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I don't honestly know what to do. This guy made me feel really special, and it wasn't just in a friend way, he would use the words beautiful, babe and much more. I really fell for him & when I told him... He stopped texting me, he would ignore my messages because obviously he would of read them. He still acknowledges me whenever I see him, like with a smile. But avoids the question whenever I tell him how I feel (I've told him more than once) but it seems like I'm not getting anywhere. The only thing I could think of was telling him in person, so from across the room I mimed “what's wrong? Don't ignore my messages. You need to tell me where I stand” he was saying he couldn't hear me, and kept repeating what? I kept frowning and then laughing, then he started laughing. (I'm a teen at school also) when I got out of the room, he was stood with his friends so I didn't say a thing. I don't really know what to do? I never have a chance to speak up front. Now that I'm no longer at that school, I will hardly see him. Can someone please tell me what could be the possibly reasons for why he's done this? What I need to do, to possibly solve it? Please, that would be a massive help. (link)
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You need to leave him alone. Give up already. He clearly doesn't want to be with you. If he did, he wouldn't play stupid. Mouthing words across the room is silly. If you REALLY want him to be on the spot, write him a note, and have someone give it to him; watch him open it in class, and watch his reaction, that way he can't have an excuse of 'oh well i didn't know what you said'
So put him on the spot;
but since school is almost out; if not already out; you need to just move on. This guy isn't worth your time. He lead you on, and now that he knows you like him, he's taking advantage of it, and treating you like dirt.
GIVE UP.
Plain and Simple
Obviously you didn't like the advice I gave you previously, because you wrote the SAME question again; just worded differently.
So stop looking for answers that you wanna hear, and accept the truth.
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Ok so from november-march I dated this guy. He was and still is super nice and cute and hilarious and did the cutest things like when I was cold outside he gave me his jacket and he said the cutest things to me like "I love you bbg, I want you to be the only one for me. I never want to loose you because if I loose you I loose a part of me. I will love you forever and no one in the world can replace you. You'll be mine forever and I know it (link)
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Does he know you kissed that other guy?
If he does, and he still wants something to do with you than I think you might have a chance.
If he doesn't know you kissed another guy and tahts the reason why you left him, than you might want to be honest about it, and let him know now.
As soon as you let me know if you told him about the kiss, than I can give you the best advice I can.
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