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I think i am a slut
I am 16 and I have many issues but I think I am a slut I have had sex with 4 guys but they were only one night stands I suck dick all the time and have had 2 pregnancy scares. I go out with a new guy every night and they are always much older than me(18, 19, and 20) I dress in revealing clothes, send a lot of dirty pictures and sext, I party and get high with multiple guys.Currently Im talking to 11 guys and 4 of them are my "boyfriends"...... I am a player and I've had some StDs also I have belly button piercing and a tattoo on my hip leading down to my vaginal area.... am I slut?????????????????
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I agree with the person below. If you consider yourself a slut and accept it, then you aren't going to change.
You're 16, you have plenty of time to change. It will be hard but you should get help. Go talk to someone, possibly a counselor.
It'll be fun for awhile but you're putting yourself in bad situations and who knows what could happen. You don't want to end up pregnant and you don't want anymore STDs.
If you want to change, you will. Start by cutting things off with these guys. Go talk to someone and get some help.
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I think that you need more than snap judgments from us. Just calling you names won't help you in any way, so here's my take on the situation.
I wouldn't call you a slut. I would call you a woman who doesn't have any respect for her body or mind. I would say that you're looking for affirmation in all the wrong places, and it's hurting you. You put yourself in dangerous situations, you damage your body and your reputation in search of something... but you're not finding it there.
Don't bother with labelling yourself. When you start identifying as a slut, you sell yourself short. I'm sure you have value beyond what you can do sexually. Respect yourself first, then others will respect you.
I have friends who have had sex with a lot of men. They're also very careful about using proper protection each time and getting tested in between partners. They respect themselves and their partners. I wouldn't call them sluts. It's when you engage in damaging behaviours that you start risking slipping into that territory.
There's so much more to a relationship than the sex. Sex should be the icing on the cake. Ditch these 11 guys and find yourself a great guy who makes you laugh, who is smart and nice , respects you and treats you well. Get to know him, then think about taking it in a sexual direction. You'd be amazed at how much better it is.
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You are definitely a slut, but it looks like you're trying to change that, so that's good. It's very dangerous what you're doing, so I hope you get checked out by a doctor. Good luck, I hope you work things out ;)
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Why, yes. Yes you are.
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