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Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog?

Any vet or pet store. I would however avoid buying from Petco or any Iams brands since they have supposidly been involved with animal cruelty. :)

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whats a good name for a new fish?

Glowy, Bubbles, Star, just anything that comes to your mind. Usually random names suite better than well thought out ones. Try to think about your fish's personality (and yes it has one). Once you find out how the fish acts, you might get loads of cute, appropriate names. :)

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I have allway wanted a pet chicken do you think they are a good pets ? cuz my family is thinkin about movein to a fram like in 3 year and i just wanted no if they would or not :)

Yes! From what I've heard they are wonderful pets as long as you give them love and attention. Many breads are becoming extinct due to over resourcing them for food (such as the buckeye). It would be a great idea to help save a few, so they are not food on others plates. I would also make sure not to put them around animals in which they might get into a conflict with. It is refreshing to see someone else wanting to take a step out of the "chicken is food" stereotype. Chickens are living creatures just like you and me.

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okay..i want to get a puppy but ive never had any animal before except a fish and i hated it so i let it die, anyways i have no idea how to take care of a puppy cuz i wanna get it when its little but i dont want it going to the bathroom all in the house but what do i do in the winter? but the real ? here is what type of dog should i get, i want a really cute one, i did want a little weiner dog but i dont know, i know that i want a really little dog but chiwawas are mean and yappers so what should i get? and also what would be some really cute names with that dog? i would get a girl one of whatever help! (and dont tell me ugly dogs and no poodles)

I wouldn't rush into something you might not be ready for. Pets have feelings, too and I imagine letting something die was incredibly painful for your fish. Though this may sound extreme, it is most certainly true. I would suggest you to adapt a new attitude towards animals. All living creatures are beautiful and should be most definitly treated that way. Try doing some heavy research on how to take care of dogs. Maybe someday, you will be able to start your healthy relationship with a new friend.

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what are some jobs you can get that are good paying without going to college?

There are a few jobs: some waitors, janitors, ect. The amount of jobs you can do are getting fewer and fewer though, even though there may seem to be a lot to choose from. If you are in college and considering dropping out I would advise you no to. There is method behind the madness. It will really, honestly help you have finacial security if you finish College. If you are in highschool and can't afford to go to college I would suggest finding a highschool geared more towards career studies. Either way, it is best to try to get as much as possible out of your education even if you only use it on rare occasions. Knowledge is power and power will help you suceed. Just use your power wisely and life will bring you much success.

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can you help me find some books to read?i've read all the harry potters like 100 times, all the lemony snicket books,inkheart by cornelia funk,the traveling pants series,like all the books by louisa may alcott,chasing redbird,and mostly all the royal diary books, a lot of others too. could you please give me some advice on series and books to read?

Well a really good series I've gotten into is the 1-800-Where-R-U by Meg Cabot. it sounds similiar to what you seem to be reading. Another great book is Blue is for Nightmares by Laurie Stolarz, which also has a sequel called White is for Magic. They are both entertaining. If you like in-depth books you might also try reading a few classics. Hope youfind something to your liking.

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whenever i get to be friends with a guy, i start to LiKe them...i can never be just friends really and its so awful! then after about a month i start to stop liking them...but my guy friends, i dont wanna like them at all EVER (except if we go out sometime ;)) what should i do how do i not like them

As a young girl,it is natural for you to be attracted to guys. Sometimes this can be mistaken for liking them in a boyfriend way. Usually what girls go through with guy friends are that they feel comfortable around them and view them as very close brothers. This is normal to like guys in a friendly way without wanting to get into a boyfriend relationship with them. You shouldn't try to not like them, that would be unfair. What you should do is point out how youlike them and value that.

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Hey..I'm only 14, and a girl. Lol. Well, I have a lot going on in mii life, I have had three boyfriends, and I am pretty good in school, but when it comes to makeup, I need help. I know that I look fine and everything, but when I do make up, I hate the results..does anyone have any good tips? I mean mii make-up doesn't look horrible, I just want to look better, but I don't seem to be any more pretty. Thanks! ;-) Katie

To begin with, i wouldn't use any make up to try to "be any more pretty". What makeup should do is 'highlight' your natural beauty. Talk to your mom, your aunt, or even a very stylish close friend for help. But remember, the more natural the better. Learn to love yourself just how you are and you will naturally shine. Everything is beautiful and should be respected and those who don't understand this always have rules you will forever be forced to follow. So choose to be healthy, happy, and positive and beauty will naturally follow.

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There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice?

Be mature. Talk to both your mother and this guy. Explain how you feel and try to sort out the problem. It might even help getting the two together. If problems for you and everyone else worsen you might try getting a facilitator (third party, nuetral friend) to sit down with everyone and work this out. You will feel better once the problem is solved. Don't look down on yourself. Mistakes happen. Without them how could anyone learn or improve or even grow. You are a person. Don't kick yourself in the head for not being perfect, just prevent the problem from happening again. Make wiser decisions and trust yourself. Things will look up.

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ok this gurl is botherin me shes my bffs friend she hates me (KATIE, bffs friend) but my bff always says katie hates me and crap like that it really botherin me!!!!i need help!!!

Talk to your friend. This needs to be sorted out. I'm sure this is all just a huge misunderstanding. Once you talk to your friend and sort this out- still try to make an effort to be nice to this girl. If she still shows negative feelings towards you, don't worry about it. There are plenty other people to socialize with, who will accept you for who you are. :)

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i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks

The best thing, in my opinion, is to be yourself. You will most likely find someone who loves to be around you for who you are and those are the best types. Be as positive and patient as possible. Try to consider other peoples feelings and opinions. And also remeber, just relax!!! You will do perfectly fine!

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i like this guy, but he lives kinda far away, and i promised my ex boyfriend that i wouldn't date any of his good friends, but this guy is his good friend and they knew eachother alot and then my ex boyfriend moved here, and the guy i likesmokes pot...only sometimes, but i don't really like that part, and i dunno what i should do...please help!!thanks!

First of all, I believe you should keep your promise unless your ex has mean intentions. He might even be trying to protect you from this guy considering he smokes pot. I wouldn't associate myself with anyone who does drugs. They might try to pressure you into doing it as well (not always though) I would however try and get him some help. Maybe even refer him to this site if he would listen. I know that it might be hard to not act on feelings some times but depending on th situation it might be better than something you can't undo. Drugs destroy you. Hope this helps. :)

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well i joined advicenators like a while ago, I seemed to be doing reelie good until recently cuz mi ratings and evrything went down. wut should i do? should i give up?

Many people have different opinions of what is right or wrong. This is just what makes people unique, which the world would be boring if it wasn't. As long as you are not giving people hurtful or negative advice-keep at it. For every person who disagrees with you there will most likely be one who does agrees. Don't give up on what you believe in. Stick with it.

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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help.

According to your BMI you are actually underweight. Everyone holds thier weight differntly, it's unique NOT ugly. Everyone is beautiful it is just there are so many pressure to staying thin in the world now. Don't ever question your beauty. You are perfectly fine just the way you are. If, though you want proof, please visit your doctor. If you also need help with maybe gaining weight to get your BMI back up to normal, take the first couragous step and visit your doctor. The people who love you will support you, no matter what. The first step is the hardest and it is better to take it a be strong than give in and be weak. And just remeber, no matter what happens in your life simply because you exist YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL

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I lost my voice about a month ago when I went to a singing camp. I had basically overused my voice. Usually I am asked to sing at weddings and such, so my voice is important to me as a way to earn money and express myself. However, after my voice came back after losing it, it has changed. It almost seems for airy, or not as strong. I feel like I forgot how to sing in a way. This has never happened before. I can still sing, but it wasn't as good as it was. Any suggestions on how to build my voice back up to its full potential?

First of all, don't strain and try to get plenty of rest. Also it might help to drink lots of water. You might even consider working with a vocal coach so that you can understand how your breathing works (with your diaphragm). If however you can't find time to go to vocal classes you can check out several websites for information: http://www.vocalist.org.uk/breathing_exercises.html
They might be of use. And the most important-trust yourself and don't stress out. If everything continues to get get worse, go to your doctor. Hope this helps :)

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