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does anyone know any songs with good lyrics? like not that much love but summerish? thanks !

hey, i know theres a song called so long sweet summer by dashboard confessional.
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the passwrod to the comp. game "stay alive" to play on the demo!!! PLEASE help

hey, try searching google.
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OK- I've went out with this guy a thousand times, and he is a great guy, but lately he has been acting really jealous. Yesterday, he got really jealous about me giving one of my bestfriends Frank (who just so happens to be my cousins boyfriend) hugs. I mean I understand getting jealous because believe me, I am defenetly the jealous type and I know that, but he has never been the jealous type, or at least he has never showed it. Anyway, this is getting kind of long, so just please help me out here.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
LeeAnna

hey, well every guy that your ever going to go out with is going to get jealous at some point in the relationship. try not hugging any of your guy friends in front of him as much. let him know that hes the only guy that you have feelings for. give him a lot of love and attention.
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I have aim triton and I want to save and upload my buddylist and paste and save it to a different name.
Does any1 know how to do that?

hey, you cant do that from aim trition. thats only an option you get when you have the regular aim.
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soo i got that Plus White 5 Minute Speed Whitening Gel.. umm its in like a toothpaste kinda tube and the directions say to swab it on your teeth and leave it on for 5 mins or 15-20 if you have rlly stained teeth but dont let it touch your gums. soo ive never used it and i was wonderin after i put it on can i close my mouth or do i have to like smile for 5 minutes?

hey, im sure that getting a little bit on your gums wont do you any harm. while making the product they probably put into consideration that people will not keep a serious face for the full 15-20 minutes. read the product and see if theres anything to help you on it, like a hotline or something.
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Heyy.
does anyone know any myspace codes?
like ANYTHING? i know how to bold stuff and make it big, but i know theres some other stuff. sites are good too

hey, try some of these.

www.pimpyourpro.com

www.bbzspace.com

www.chasebadkids.net

www.coshed.com

www.doobix.com

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hi :]
16/f
well me and my mom were talking yesterday and shes like i think i might know something else to get you for christmas! and im like what? and shes like have you ever heard of the CHI straightener? and im like yea the one that costs like $200. i heard its suppose to be good but for anyone that uses it does it really work good or what because i will feel bad to have her like spend so much and have me not like it!! well thank you.

hey, well i dont like chis. there so little so they take a long tiem to straigthen your whole hair. i mean they will eventually straighten your hair but not fast.
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as of now, i have a Pink Ipod Mini.
for christmas i think i might ask
for an ipod nano (NOT VIDEO) so i as
wondering, whats the difference between
the ipod nano and the ipod mini, and
is the ipod nano worth buying or should
i keep my mini? (I DONT WANT IPOD VIDEO)

hey, well i have the pink ipod mini as well. i was also thinking about asking for a nano for chirsmtas too. but then i decided against it after i did some research. basically theere the same thing expect for the looks of them. if your just getting it because everyone else has one then go for it. but if your getting it hoping for some kind of improvement and for it to be better then a regualr ipod mini then i wouldnt do it.
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i think im asking for too much for christmas. im not sure if all the gifts im getting are neccesery. hes my list of gifts that my parents are buying and tell me if im asking for way too much.

1. new digital camera $200-$250
2. ipod nano $150-$200
3.psp $200
4. psp games about $40 each
5. abercrombie clothes $105
6. stuff from bath and body works $15
7. movies $40

and more that i forgot. honestly, is that too much for my parents to buy? i dont wanna seem like a spoiled brat. my parents are wealthy - they wont have trouble affording it but i dont know.

hey, i dont think that thats too much to ask for. thats usually around the price that i ask for each year also. if you know taht your family can afford it then go for it. but if you think that they might struggle then maybe eliminate a few things from the list. thats what i do at least.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and i am 16 and he's 19. But it's alot different because we've known eachother for like all of our lives we have grown up in church together and he's a really good clean christian guy. And i am a really good clean christian girl and he's everything ive been looking for. And i know he's the one for me and i know without a doubt that i love him with all of my heart. But he used to smoke ciggarettes and he quit like 2 years before we started dating but he still does it like once every two weeks and i didnt know that...so he's basically been lying to me for like 4 months??? And i had to find out he was doing this from his brother...he had no intention in telling me! But i know or at least i feel 100% sure he hasnt lied to me about anything else but i just cant believe he would do that. And we got into a HUGE argument yesterday but we kinda made up, but things arent the way that they used to be you know? I just dont know what to do? I never thought he would keep something from me?? What do i do?

hey, well you should ask him if he has lied to you about anything else. jsut tell him that you dont want any lies whatsoever in your realtionship and that he can tell you anything. ask him why he was keeping this a secret from you. you just need to find it in your heart to forgive him if you really truly love him and want to stay wiht him.
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i really like this guy but he is 19 and im 15 he really likes me too and i know that im young but i really have never felt like this in my life and i feel soo comfortable with him he makes me laugh and gives me hope in life like no other could i reall would like to call this love but im just not sure anyways to the part about the whole sex thing i have had sex with him 2 times sine we have been together im on birth control and we use condoms am i a slut or a whore for having sex at so young of an age and i dont regret doing it either because it feels soo right with him please answer my questions i just need to know :/

hey, your not a slut at all. if you feel that its the right time for you to start having sex then im sure it is. just amke sure that hes not pressuring you into doing it.
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what age bra SHOULD you be wearing when your 13
when your 14 and when your 15

I am 28a anD I am 14 - under average help

hey, dont worry your boobs will grow. you might just be slow at growing. wear the bra that fits you. if a 28a is what size you are then wear it. dont feel bad about being the size that you are. im not saying you do, im just assuming you do, since you posted this question.
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I just recently fingered a girl and i wanted to know why she didnt orgasm, this was my 4th time fingering her and she has never orgasmed, she just sits there and its a little wierd. Is there something im doing wrong. I don't insert my whole finger but i am rubbing pretty hard, Any advice?? thanks

hey, well my boyfriend fingered me once. i didnt orgasm either. sometimes it just doesnt feel good. you wouldnt want her to fake one would you? ask her what your doing wrong.
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ok so on wednesday. i have to get my bottom braces off. but i still have a baby tooth left. its on the top on the left side in the back. and the toothe underneath already grew in so its like on the side of my tooth on the inside. and if i cant get it to come out. they have to extract it. but the thing is its not htat loose. and it hurts now becuse i have tried so hard to get it out. i dont want to get it extracted. so how can i get ti to fall out.
so what im asking is:
whats an extraction>? (liek what do they do?
and
how can i get it to come out without the pain!?!?!
and fast.

hey, well ive actually had 12 teeth pulled. a lot i know. but i had this case where there were too many teeth in my mouth. it actually doesnt hurt. the only part that does is when they give you novacin and thats just a little pinch.
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I'm in the mists of doing a report on Joan of Arc but I have to do 5 bullit facts about her before.

Can someone tell me the main conflict/historical event in Joan of Arcs life??


(greatly appreciated)

hey, heres a website.

http://members.aol.com/hywwebsite/private/joanofarc.html

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whats some good websites I could find information for free on low income/ foreclosed homes?

hey, any house buying wesbites would give you that kind of information. www.century21huges.com is the best website i think.
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okay how often do u have periods a day? like 2 three?

hey, you dont have periods in a day. but periods can last up to 3-7 days, depending on the person.
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Hi,

I have the most amazing fiance in the world. I love him with all of my heart and we are going to get married in a few months. Hes 100% Italian which i love and im not italian but i love italians and we want to name out children with italian names. unfortuanltey, his little sister is named Chiara which i LOVE so we cant really name out baby that. here are some italian names that i like:


GIRLS-
gianna
bianca
lia
terra
cara
mea
isabella
gia
roma
sienna
natalia
katarina

BOYS-
gianni
trey
luca
nico
giovanni
gino
matteo
leone

any more italian names that are cute?
thanks

hey, i searched on www.babynames.com
i only searched under the letter A.
you can do the rest if you want.

adolfo - male
adrina - female [ i love that name ]
agostino - male
aida - female
alda - female
alfonso - male
ambra - female
amerigo - male
andrea - female
angelina - female
aria - female

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ok wen you first get your period can the blood be brown? and can you still get discharge while ur on your period?

hey, even when you dont first get your period, the blood can often look like a rusty color [ brownish redish ]. yes, you can still get discharge while your on your period. you get it while your off of your period too.
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if somebody blocks their number and calls you, is there any way to find out the number they called you from?

hey, well there is no way of telling. sorry! dialing *69 is pointless. its just going to say "this number is blocked".
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