lets see im about 5*4 or 5*5 in hieght. I've played alot of sports, I like to sing, and I like to have fun. I've had my share of problems so i like to help others with thiers. Some situations are very similar to things ive gone through. I help out my friends all the time. So feel free to ask me about anything.
E-mail: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Busser at a Senior Living Place
Age: 16
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Member Since: July 22, 2004
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i met this girl and shes soo nice and pretty shes like perfect but i got scared and i dont know if im ready for a relationship i wanted to be friends but thats not workin out and i cant get her out of my mind but i dunno if im ready for a girlfriend and i dont even know if she would take me back if i wanted her too (link)
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If she likes you im sure she would take you back. Just explain how you were feeling to her. Im sure she will understand. So go for it... take a chance. Cause if you dont you could miss out on something really special. And if shes a nice girl then even if things dont work out she will still be there to be friends. This could be exactly what your looking for... but you dont know till you try ~ **mare**
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i really like this guy but hes gay and hes soooo nice and cute and he likes me but hes neva had a relasionship with a guy idk y he says hes gay???? what should i do (link)
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talk to him about it... i mean if he really likes you, yall should hook up... but maybe hes not ready yet you kno?... just talk to him. *mare* {rate me please}
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My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.
Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.
I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do?? (link)
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ask your best friend if he minds that you talk to your boyfriend about it... if he says yeah then confront him about it... if he says no... have him talk to your boyfriend for you. *mare*
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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (: (link)
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umm.. cover up ? ~ :) ~ it could cover them to make them less noticeable... so just use that...
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do you know any other ways other then an abortion to get rid of an un-born child?? home remidies so to speak?? (link)
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I dont know really... I know you can have the baby and give it up for adoption... or an abortion... those are 2 ways to not have to be a parent...
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when are the earliest signs of pregnancy and what are they??? how can you avoid a birth IF NESSECARY?? (link)
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see the thing with this... you never have sex without accepting the risk of getting p.g. I think if someone does get p.g. they shouldnt think about killing it such as an abortion. cause i feel like it was there choice and this is the result... the signs of being p.g. are missing your period, you'll crave certain foods, ... If you think you might be pregnant go take a p.g. test and if its poss. go see a doctor. ill be prayin for ya *mare*
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i like this guy alec alot.. ive went out with him in december, and then i dumped him for another guy. and then i liked him till about the end of may/ beg of june. (but he didnt know that, until i told him) and so i told him that.. and then we went out for like 5 days. and then he said i hurt him all the way back in dec. and that he doesnt wanna get hurt again, but i still like him =/ but he doesnt know that. and im afarid too tell him.. so should i tell him? or forget about him =/ cause i really dont know what to do. I miss him and i want to be with him really bad, but i do not know how to tell him. like i tried to be with other guys, but then i end up liking him again. and want to be with him.
thanks (link)
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Tell him how you feel and let him know what you just told everyone else... how you keep liking him... and tell him how you wont hurt him agian and how it hurts you thinking about how you hurt him... hope i helped *mare*
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i have this friend who has really bad breath all the time and she talks really really close to ur face. i wanna tell her but she is the type that would take it way too seriously .. she wouldnt get mad but she would be very paranoid and upset. (link)
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easy... whenever i have sum1 round me that has bad breath i take out some mint gum and i eat a piece then i act lik i almost forget to offer and i ask the person if theyd like some lol ~ it usually works ;-)~*mare*
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I like this guy..and i have known him for years..and he was dating one of my friends for a year and half..they broke up and now i like him i have been hanging out with him like everyday for the last month and i really really like him..he is everything i like..nice..funny..nice body:)..lolz..i told him i liked him and he also says he likes me 2...but i feel really bad if i were to go out with him...What do i do???? (link)
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talk to your friend about it tellher that you really like him... and he likes you and that you two wanna get together... if shes a real friend she will try and understand... ~ *mare*
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i have alot of best friend problemz itz me again so many problemz jus trying to find a way to deal with em. well... im the person that has a little brother with a big temper n a dad that i think takes money away from the family to spend on himself n the one that everythingz breaking in her house etc. well my best friendz i love em all but... one uf em tlkz to me on the phon alot n sumtymez it seemz like im not good enough for her other friendz n stuff there are tymez where were like the bestest friendz ever but lately itz like that. n therez my other best friend that i literally onli talked to her once this summer n she tlked to the other person only that i had on the other line when i tlked to her n i keep trying to call her baq n she wont answer. n the other best friend i get really jelous of her n at first id only answer if she called me. but after i came baq from vacation ever since she hasnt called me... well i wuz scared cux she brags alot n thats y i get jelous well... i got advice from ppl on this thing n it gave me the corrage to tlk to her but now im calling her n she doesnt answer the phon ether like the best friend i wuz tlking about b4 this. wut do i do? i dont kno where to start with any of this except maybe the first best friend that i wuz tlking about n thats like a little tiny idea that if it doesnt work than thats it i have nothing else. help!! (link)
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Go to their house and confront them face to face... cause this needs be be resolved. You dont deserve to be treated lik that at all. and remember your never "not good" enough...thats bullcrap... everyone is equal no matter what...hope this helped *mare*
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i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly? (link)
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Confront her ~ ... and i mean what kind of true friend does that?... if my friend likes a guy i would never try to take him from her ~ id totaly be backing mah friend up by try n to get her and that guy together... But tell this friend the truth be right upfront with her. *mare*
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i like my boyfriend a lot but i have started to like my guy mate. he kinda likes me back and knows i like him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my bf cause i like him alot still. what do i do? (link)
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Figure out who you like more... then go for who you choose... dont lead two guys on... you dont wanna hurt your bf... and i totaly understand... so why dont you help him out a little... if you like him be with him if you dont... dont be with him just to keep him from hurting... go to the other guy... so basically all you have to do is choose who you like more... its not a slutty thing to do ... but say you and ur bf break up... wait at LEASt a week be4 dating the other guy... ~ *mare*
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I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!? (link)
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well... you seem to have enough pics of yourself if theres lik over 400... i dont think its wrong to take pics of u but is that lik all u ever wanna take a picture of?... and i dont think they are jelious they just... think its wierd how you wanna take pictures of yourself all the time... most people dont do that they take pics of friends and things and hate taken pics of themselves... lol
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well... ever since i was lets say... about 7 i wanted a lil sis. but now that my aunt is trying to give us coustudy of my 6 or 7 yr old cousin b/c she is being trialed and can possibly convicted of child abuse. she knows our house hold is better than hers but i don't want a lil bratty girl getting into my buisness. i wouldn't mind if she was like 2 or 3 but then she will get into my buisness. what do i do? She will have to know everything that is going on and i will have to spend the rest of my spare time playing with her! i already hate my older bro! HELP!! (link)
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stop thinking about just you... think of what they are going through... your cousin is prob. going through alot... she will need your comfort... just be there for her ya know... it might be hard for you but... its the right thing to do... *mare*
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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.
Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!
I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
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Hun, you really need to tell... It might be hard to do but you need to... even though he appologized... his wife (ur sister) has the right to know about this... maybe if he did that to you he could cheat on your sister or something... you dont want her to be with a guy whos like that do you?... You really need to tell them... it will relieve u alot of stress that you dont need to have... *mare*
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ok i met this boy nick like in the middle of the skool year...and i hated him soo much...he was going out with my friend....and i dont know i just hated him...then one day i went skating and he was there and i started liking him...well a week later he asked me out and we were goin out for like a month then we broke up...we were on and off all year...well then a month before skool let out he moved....it was the hardest day of my life saying goodbye to him....he was my first love ever and thats the truth.....well now he still calls me and everything and we r still friends and he wants to go back out and i love him sooo much and wanna say yah but i cant cuz ill never c him cuz he moved what should i do~!? (link)
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i did a long distance one time... for lik 8 months... it was so hard you dont even know... I wanted it to work with me and the guy so much... but... it didnt work ... me and him are lik really good friends now though... and thats prob. all it will ever be... Even though your crazy about this guy... you dont know how hard long distance is... its hard on both people... its up to you on if you really want to put stress on one another... cause it really is stressful not being able to see your boyfriend or girlfriend... talk out the complications with him... if youd ever get to see each other at all... and if you really feel its worth it to be with him ... then go for it... but if not... id say just stay really close friends...
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OK. So I had a dentist appointment this morning and my mom, dad, and brother were all working. So, my dad called my neighbor 'Don' to ask if he could take me to the dentist. He said it was fine and he was happy to do the favor. I could have rode my brothers bike there if I absolutely HAD to...but I wasn't thrilled when my mom suggested the idea. My mom just called and said she was embaressed when she found out that 'Don' had driven me there and back. I don't like it when people are mad at me and now I feel guilty and my happy mood just went to bad. Am I being selfish or is my mom over reacting? (link)
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moms over reacting... ~ but she just feels bad to have the neighbor take time to give you a ride. but oviously the neighbor didnt mind at all.
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I have a boyfriend who I love sooo very much!! I wouldnt do anything to hurt him! I have a few good guy friends who I ONLY talk to on the internet because my bf doesnt like me hanging out with them. Well, one of my friends asked me to go to a party with him tonight or we could go to the mall another night. I'm not sure I should because I think my boyfriend would be mad! What should I do? And if I shouldnt hang out with him, how do I say no without saying my boyfriend wouldnt want me to. He always says "F*** your stupid boyfriend" :-/ Thanks for the advice!! (link)
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Ok ... your bf should trust you enough to let u hang with other guys... all of my friends are basically guys... and when i date a guy... i dont let him tell me that i cant hang out with my friends... friends are friends ... who care what there sex is... so i say go for it and hang out wit tha guy ~ and talk to your bf about what i said cause seriously... he should trust you enough... and he should understand that you have friends that are guys... and they are just friends... *good luck *mare*
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How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready? (link)
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You'll know when your not scared at all at the thought of sleeping with him. But a month is to soon to be having sex with a bf i think... but thats just my opinion. At 14 i wouldnt sleep with anyone...im almost 16 and i still havent had sex... because i havent found the right guy. Im prob. gonna wait till marrige but thats just me... I know everyone now a days dont usually wait that long... but I seriously think you and this guy should wait. Plus waiting will let each of you know that you respect each other, and your not together only for physical things. hope i helped a little *mare*
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I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face? (link)
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Be lik "Amy, I know your like interested in me and my bf but really its start n to bug me a little bit on how your always asking about him..." and just tell her how your feeling... but calmly and nice... maybe she dont mean to be so annoying... good luck *mare*
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