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Ok well this is hard 2 explain. Ok so lately I've been feeling depressed. Idk y I think its because if school and such. Since I started high school its all just catching up. So. I have new friends and stuff and now like I don't know why but I'm always happy in school. Like I can't let my feels show. I'm always acting perky so noone will suspect a thing. Then I notice and ask myself questions like why am I acting this way. I really don't know why. I hope you guys understood me because it was hard to explain. Why do u think I'm acting like this like hiding my feelings in school and then continue to be depressed at hom. any advice is useful thanks! (link)
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i used to go through the same thing and i kinda still do, the reason you feel like that i think is because when your at home your free you dont wanna impress your family bcuz they knw the real you but at school you want people to see another you so they can like you. i hope i didnt confuse you or anything but dont worry..express urself to your friends, they will understand and they are probably goin thru the same thing.
gd luck hope i helped please rate
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kevin broke up with me like 2 weeks ago it was a three day relationship but i did not want it 2 end i was being 2 shy and i know that i wish i could go back in time and change that kevin still talks 2 me and hugs me and daps me off and tries 2 be nice 2 my friends but i dont know if he still likes me and he even told some otha gurlz we still went out wen they asked me all i did is smile really big and walk away i dont kno if i shoulda did that but i really wanna go back out with him
Break up speech
well i think we shold be friends cuz its not working out we should try 2 make it work some other time (link)
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talk 2 him bout it, tell him i was being too shy because i had feelin for you and we should work this out, tell him how you reeally feel. he probably likes u 2
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I'm a 19 year old girl who looks like a boy! People always think I'm a boy or end up confused and ask if i'm a boy or a girl. But I also look like a 14 year old boy, so I don't even look my age. Everyone thinks i'm cute, so i'm not an ugly looking boy.. lol! But it's getting annoying already...
And it's not like i'm a dirty sports playing tomboy. And I like MEN! But lesbians think i'm cute.
I hate hate hate makeup so is there anyother way to change this? (link)
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why dont you wear your hair down and wear skirts and heels and may be hold a purse and stuff...shake you hips wen you move...do more girly things
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My boyfriend always gives me hickeys and always askes me why I don't give them to him. The truth is, I don't know how. So how do I give someone a hickey? (link)
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you just suck on his neck...nothin hard bout it :)
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15/M Fairly recently (about a week or two), I think that this one girl have been trying to get my attention. A few days ago, we walked past each other in the hall and one of her friends pushed her into me and then they giggled. It wasn't hard, it was just a little shuv, just like playing around kind of pushing and shuving. I know that it was on purpose because there wasn't really anyone else by us. This girl also sits by me in one class. She recently started listening to everything that I say. Like, if I'm talking to my friends she'll ask me about stuff that I'm talking about and just getting me to talk to her. It isn't annoying, and it's not like she just interupts us, so I'm fine with her. She'll also ask me stuff like how my day is going or if I'm doing anything that day. And of course, I talk back to her and ask her stuff, too. She's pretty hot. But I don;t just like her because of her body. She plays sports (I do too), she's smart, cute, funny, and nice, too. Girls say that I'm cute, and I've even gotten asked out by girls that I wasn't interested in. But is she waiting for me to ask her out or something? Thanks (link)
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this girl seems to have the hots for u, so ask her out...or flirt back...
good luck
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what are signs mean a guy like you (link)
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he smiles at you, always wants to talk to you , call s you alot, shows you off to his friends, opens up to you..cares about your problems , listens
this is not always true some guys dont know how to show their emotions but as long as he respects you and shows you he cares probably means he does,
good luck
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i have gotten fingered before and i use tampons.. i was just wondering how much it hurt to get your cherry popped, or if its your first time? scale 1-10, 10 being hurting the most. and also what happens when your cherry gets popped? (link)
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it doesnt hurt at all, youll just see blood
being fingered and using tampons probably already popped your cherry
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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch (link)
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okay am not telling you not to talk 2 him again but its very hard for a guy who cheats alot to be faithful, what he did was very wrong and i know you still hve feelings for him but if you date him again he is most likely to cheat on you again so ask him to be friends with you first and see how it goes from there...and if you do date him again make sure he isnt gonna play you or he's just dating you for sex...
be careful...and read the signs...it'll be quite easy to tell if he really wants to be wit you or he's just in it for the fun.
good luck...
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k so. i asked a question on here a bit ago about a guy named Mike well.. I called him tonight and he didnt sound like happy to talk to me:S and i accidently hung up but when i called back i kept getting the busy signal. well today in class he was flirting like crazy and like idunno.:S i dunno if im getting false signals or what. like today for example... he usually sits at the front of the class and me in the back. well he came and sat at the back and the prettiest girl in my class asked him to sit beside her and such cuz they're friends he said no and stayed and talked to me. and then like we have an early dismissal tomorrow so he has to stay at the school from 12:30 - 4:30 cuz his dad works at the school and such and so like he was kinda implying that he needed someone to hang out with but im sooo shy so i couldnt ask him.
are these false signals? or is it worth holding on and getting a boost of confidence? (link)
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it seems to me like this guy likes you...so dont waste this chance, talk 2 him be flirty and most important dont b shy, guys like confident girl.
good luck babe!
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Okay so the other day my boyfriend fingered me and well he's done it before but when he was done his hand was all bloody. I was completely terrified and I'm not completely positive I know what it was. Is it possible he just tore my hymen? (link)
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it was probably that he broke your hymen but dont worry a hymen can break by alot of ways and its not that big a deal.
dont worry
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i always want to lose wieght and tell myself to go on a diet and to not eat as much but like a day after i forget about it and continue to pig out... what can i do? (link)
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i dont advise you to diet, eat healty and join a gym
it works for me
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haha ok so my boyfriend wants me to name his penis. any suggestions cuz i cant think of anything good. btw its 8 inches if that helps (link)
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maybe bigbird or something, it'll make him feel good since you concider it big..hope i helped
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Im kinda popular I guess.
Most boys are mean to me in school and then out of school all they wanna do is hookup with me.
Its weird, but they dont LIKE LIKE me.
I mean , no guys really like me for who i am , they just wanna hookup with me for some reason.
And I dont get it , im not even that pretty and im not that skinny.
Ive never had a boyfriend and I want a guy to actually like me.
Whats the deal here? (link)
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usualy younger guys act mean to a girl because they like her, the reason they do that 2 you is cuz they like you...they probably find you attractive.
and just to clear somthing out not all guys like skinny girls i know alot of guys who find thick girls sexy and dont worry about findin the guy who loves you for you cuz he's there and your gonna find him k
as for the mean time dont let guys take advantage of you and playing hard to get makes them want you more so give it a try
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Ok well the only thing i hadnt done yet was give head as of last week. I gave my boyfriend head for the first time he said i was good at it for doing it for the first time but does anyone have any good tips? (link)
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okay here are some tips
lick the head of his dick with your tongue and go round with your tongue on it, showing your tongue always turns them on
also lick the dick up and down dont just suck all the time like do differnt things, and grab his balls too...but not hard...
hope i helped..
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Hey there,
I hate the fact that the only place I have for comfort is the net, lol! I am afraid to tell anyone else! I am a 21 year old gay guy and my bf is 18, we have been dating for 8 monthes now and have had a mass of high and lows.
He has the worst temper and shouts at me for the silliest things, and threatens me with breaking up, killing himself,not loving me, hating me when we argue.
Last nite we got into an argument, things got heated, and he pushed me, so I decided to walk away to let him calm down, then he came runing up behind me and stuck his fingers into my arms, it was the most hurtful thing! I tried tyo walk away and he wouldnt let me, so I end up beatinghim upo basically, in self defence, I wasnt gonna be shouted at and physically hurt for no reason! Again I tried to walk away and he grabbedme, wouldnt let me go, my arm wasin agony, and he was screaming at me in the middle of town, so I turned round punched him a few times, and kicked him when he was on the ground. He was scaring me, I am not a violent person, but he was hurting me and wouldnt let me go.
Then he screamed "I AM GONNA KILL MYSELF!!!!"
After I cooled down, regardless of what he did to me, I went back to him, he spat in myface and started beating me up, to which I didnt do anything back, then started screaming he was sorry for hurting me before!
What am I meant to do? Was I wrong in defending myself? How canlove be like this? Idont wanna leave him, but how can things get sorted? (link)
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im sory to have to tell you this but dump him, or ask him if he has some problems he should talk 2 you bout, maybe he's just realy depressed try talkin 2 him and if that doesnt help find urself an older guy...you sound like you deserve better
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when ever I look in the mirror all I can say is wow im so ugly. im starting to get so self consious about how i look. i dont like to look striaght at people when im talking because i always think people are thinking that im ugly. i dont know why im like this now. before i didn't even care how i looked. :( (link)
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let me tell you something , whenever you look at your self you start to focus on little things and they make you think you look ugly becuz your focusing on them, try lookin at somthin you like bout urself, you end up seein urself as pretty and if lets say you have a big nose and keep focusin on it it just makes you see your self as ugly...confidence is the best cure! if you hve confidence people start lookin at you as pretty and a smiling is also somethin so beautiful...
and i also want you to know one more thing some people look at themselves in the mirror and think they are ugly when other people thnk they're gorgeous. its a matter of opinion girl.
be confident and be happy people will start to love u more trust me.
hope i helped gorgeous
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KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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you've been with your guy for 11months, you practically know alot about each other, your just met this guy, u dont knw if hes just puttin up a front just to get into your pants or maybe he just wants 2 b friends with you. tell your boyfriend your dont like when he cuses you, and compare the advantages of both guy and the one you feel more comfortable with and you trust more is the right guy. but if your boyyfriend doesnt respect u then he's not worth.
hope i helped and gd luck
dont make a mistake!
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what is the song Milkshake by Kelis actually about??? (link)
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its about her breasts shaking...
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I dont know what to do! But it doesn't matter how much I eat, it all goes to my stomach, butt, and thighs! My arms are soo skinny and it looks terrible! What can i do to gain a little weight on them. To make them look bigger, fatter. haha thanks for the adivce? (link)
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lifting weights may help a little, im not sure i can help u on that. but piggin out doesnt help it only makes u fatter everywhere else
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is it a turn off if lets say you are fingering a girl and she is "wet"? or if she is hairy? (link)
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some people hve different tastes in girls so im not sure how to answer this cuz am a girl but i know when a girls wet she's definatly turned on by u but if she's hairy im not sure. i think its a turn off tho
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